Men Kissing...

[bigtoad]

Intimate expression of Love? Or never?

 

[marriedasian]

to each their own. kissing has always been an expression of love or affection to me and will always remain that way. of course each kiss is different to whom you are kissing (my children vs my wife vs my mother-in-law vs my dad).

my personal opinion: we don't kiss enough in today's society.

 

[BBB2.5]

I think male to male kissing should be more acceptable here in the United States. Sad that it is seen as being Gay to kiss another man....It is a sign of affection, with meaning. Not talking about sexual kisses. Just a nice kiss.

 

[masonjames]

A deep kiss can get me about as hot as anything can. Be it make or female but it has to be someone I am attracted to

 

[prepstudinsc]

I think close friends should be able to kiss on the cheek or even on the lips. That’s totally different than a sexual kiss with tongue action.

 

[deleted1074483]

yes I kiss male friends, if I know they're ok with it, and definitely with guys I have sex with, very intimate.

Not into massively overt displays of kissing by male/female, male/male, female/female, other/other when just out and about though.

 

[NudeDude71]

I would love to kiss a guy that I find attractive. To me, kissing is an intimate gesture.

 

[ohiorod]

I tend to kiss friends(gay men) who are vulnerable at the time. So, I kiss friends in the hospital or a nursing home, someone hurting emotionally and friends who are seeking support from me. I don’t kiss them on the lips. Otherwise, the only times I might kiss gay friends are times where I have not seen them for awhile or will not see them for a long period and maybe friends on a birthday or anniversary. It all just feels natural to me expressing support, friendship or love.

 

[Pentap]

I want be kiss by good looking man before I die .

Mwah, mwah, mwah. lol

 

[DiamondJoe]

I've come round to it over the years, now that I've learned to dispense with societal expectations of gender roles and what it means to "be a man."

Early on, in my teens, the idea of kissing another man was alien, yucky. These days, I get annoyed when they don't.

So a year or so back I was banging this blond chap, 27, tall, properly athletic. Has a gf but LOVES sucking dick (which he does in a kinda reverential way, so delicate and loving) and getting properly banged. Which is well up my street.

BUT

He won't kiss. It's too gay or sommat.

You know, you'll take my cock up your arse and love it but you won't kiss.

Disappointing. But that's toxic masculinity for you.

 

[RobertHunter30]

I would never say never - but I kiss some of my male gay friends and even straight male friends differently than I kiss men with whom I am intimately involved. I also tend to read the other and mirror what the other does.

 

[RobertHunter30]

yes I kiss male friends, if I know they're ok with it, and definitely with guys I have sex with, very intimate.

Not into massively overt displays of kissing by male/female, male/male, female/female, other/other when just out and about though.

agreed - where I live - a little to dangerous yet - better - but would not trust it

 

[samandtham]

I have kissed many men in my life. Most of them in a non-sexual context. The most common is kissing my father or male relatives in the cheek as a greeting. Then you have doing the "la bise" in France, Italy, Belgium, and Spain to my friends there. I've also kissed American friends as a congratulations when they get married.

I wasn't raised to think a kiss is exclusively sexual, instead it's another way to show affection along with hugging and shaking hands.

I don't consider a man who kisses any less of a man, even if he's doing it as part of sex.

 

[Raulz0r]

I think male to male kissing should be more acceptable here in the United States. Sad that it is seen as being Gay to kiss another man....It is a sign of affection, with meaning. Not talking about sexual kisses. Just a nice kiss.

I think this is more of a global issue, there may be some places where people are more open minded about this, but they are very few. For example in my country homosexuality is still frowned upon with the general population.

 

[Stephenmass]

Also if a guy that kisses me knows how to kiss, nothing gets me more worked up than a guy that knows how to kiss me.

 

[Sami1988]

It is a normal thing to do here in Syria to kiss your male friends and family members on cheek in birthdays, holidays, their marriage and other happy event ... even funerals to condole them
Muslims here don't kiss women outside their family, and most of them don't even shake their hands, while Christians kiss their female relatives and friends on cheek sometimes just to say hi

 

[RowanB]

See, I never do that - greetings kiss - with friends, straight or gay. But then I'm not particularly huggy either.

A kiss is a very intimate thing for me.

Why can't you have an intimate relationship with someone you don't want to fuck? There are many different kinds of intimacy. I don't feel like there's anything strange about giving a friend a kiss hello or cuddling on the sofa. Male on male intimacy has this stigma that it has to be gay and sexual. Straight women can cuddle up and watch a film and its perfectly fine. Two guys do it and they're fags.

I'm just happy i have easy going, open minded friends. I would hate not to be able to give my friends a big old bear hug or have comfortable, intimate closeness with them.

 

[6618461]

Kissing is the *best* thing. I love every type of man-on-man kiss - the subtle bites of the lip, the slow turning fast, the subtle turning full-on, the give-and-take, it all works.

Two things. Bad kissers are the worst and they *can* be taught. It's a bit hard at first to say to someone, look, the thing is, you kiss like it's a punchline and this needs to stop. But it can be done.

Secondly - "I don't kiss" gays are perhaps the worst of the lot. Screw this "I'm gay but not that gay" mentality. Girl, if you're good with (bareback, no doubt) fucking or God knows what else, you're okay with kissing.

There are a number of theories. Either it's toxic masculinity, in which case, sorry for your loss. OR it's something about the difference between being GAY!!!! and being "gay". It's as though "gay" is fine if it's listening to Kylie Minogue or sucking dick, but something difference when it's close intimacy. I don't understand it. Kissing is the spark which starts the fire, excluding kissing is like not putting sugar into a crème brûlée.

There are a good number of porn clips I've splurged over just at the kissing stage. I understand men might have barriers they cannot cross but it just baffles me.

 

[6618461]

A cute trans lady, YES. A guy,......nadda.
Sorry guys, I'll suck your cock all day, but to look at your face and kiss you?.....not gonna happen.

Fascinating.

 

[BBB2.5]

I think this is more of a global issue, there may be some places where people are more open minded about this, but they are very few. For example in my country homosexuality is still frowned upon with the general population.

I do agree with that, It just seems like to me other countries are okay with men just giving each other hugs and gentle kisses. Like a "Hey how have been " type of kiss. I'm not talking about romantic or sexual kisses like between gay men.