Men masturbating

[D_Andy_Whorewall]

Married 23 years, 3 teenage boys in the house, so sex with the wife is very rare, 3 x's a month maybe.

So at least once a week, during the night or early morning I'll lay in bed and service the tool. My wife hears me, not that I'm loud, and leaves me to myself. It would be nice for her to reach over and oblige, but "it's not her thing" as she says. She's more comfortable with me going solo.

Whatever works, the result is all the same.

 

[lostmymind]

don't be offended, LMM, I really like you but in my opinion you did yourself and her a disservice by not being honest. When a guy is devious and and hides what he is doing, it becomes 'suspicious' behaviour and then certainly raises issues. Perhaps helping her learn how better to please you would have been a good idea, but no need to stop masturbating even when one is sexually satisfied with a partner. They are just 2 different sides of the same coin.

No offense taken. I was 19 and pretty self-absorbed at that age (as was she). I agree completely and my wife and I enjoy completely open communication. It's been great fun and I can't imagine not having that level of intimacy now. One of our inside jokes when we see couples that argue: "I'll bet they don't fart in front of each other!" :biggrin1:

 

[bravesoldier]

Was married for 17 years and masturbated all the time, in between sex with my wife.

Been divorced a good while now and masturbate even more. Enjoy masturbation twice as much as did before. I've learned how to really masturbate now, freaking awesome man..

 

[DavidBD]

Do it when ever I can!!!
DavidBD

 

[clipper1]

I started jacking at 11 and at 56 I still love stroking my cock to a juicy cum.I'll probably be trying to get one more off on my deathbed.Noone can make it feel like my own hand.Matter of fact I have to take care of something now.

 

[RubberHarley]

I always do at least once a day. My wife enjoys masturbating me also. I see it as just a normal release. My wife masturbates about every other day or so.

 

[dude77007]

Masterbation is a completly different climax, both are good. Actually, there are many different climaxes by masterbation. A vagina climax seems quite the same to me. But I am not giving either of them up.

 

[Sherwood D. Likelym]

It's a rare day that I don't masturbate. It's fulfilling in many aspects ranging from physicality to spirituality, and my wife and I just celebrated our 30 year wedding anniversary.

 

[nakedwally]

there was an article a few years back in Playgirl magazine about this very topic, and they interviewed several men including am married man, an engaged man, a single man, a guy with a girlfriend and a gay guy who was in a relationship with another men and all of them masturbated the straight married guy would sometimes masturbate shortly before sex with his wife, most of the guys said it helps to relieve stress. I have to agree that it is pretty common and that it does help aliviate a lot of the tension from the daily stresses of life

 

[bradlv]

I had a girlfriend like this once. Little did she know that I was regularly jerking off in the shower because she was a lousy lay. I was careful to hide it because she made it clear she was all I needed! :tongue:

LOL yeah Ive had a few lousy lays - with one chick it was so crap I used to fake orgasm ( wearing a condom ) then go take a shower and bust my nut. Also, with one chick I was dating it took her so long to orgasm I could not hold back shooting off before she got pleased, so I used to jerkoff to make myself last longer for her ( such a nice guy I am hey LOL ) ps: and dont shout me down for not using toys/finger/tounge on her to get her off, she didn't want to orgasm that way, she wanted me inside her

 

[nudeyorker]

Hell yes...do it whenever I can!

 

[Lemou]

Jerk off everyday and I'm in relationship...

My BF jerks off too

 

[Tlss]

I always do it twice a day. so yeah i love jacking off

 

[txnrude]

Still jack off almost as much as when I wasn't in a relationship, never thought anything of it. My gf asks me regularly, "so what did you think about or look at today?"

 

[bd1234]

Interesting question because I've been experimenting with not jacking off recently.
I've done it since as long as I can remember (age 8 or 10 or so), and for my entire
adult life at least once per day. I've been in relationships where my gf complained that
I didn't give her enough sex, but I was pulling on it by myself every day. I've also been
in relationships where my partner wasn't much interested and again I took matters
into my own hands.

However, after decades of doing this I realized recently that it f**cks with your brain.
There's some powerful chemistry going on with that orgasm. So I took a vow to not
do it any more. Mostly this has been a good thing. I spend way less time looking at
porn. I spent much less time jacking off. This time can be spent doing more 'useful'
things. I also have a feeling that I treat my partner better. She still isn't interested in
sex, mind you.

So I'd say that for me, if I were in a relationship with a good sex life, I'd aim to not do it
so much.

 

[chefman]

Just did it---felt great--'nuff said!
I am a 41 year old man in a relationship!

 

[Lampwick]

However, after decades of doing this I realized recently that it f**cks with your brain. There's some powerful chemistry going on with that orgasm. So I took a vow to not do it any more. Mostly this has been a good thing. I spend way less time looking at porn. I spent much less time jacking off. This time can be spent doing more 'useful' things. I also have a feeling that I treat my partner better. She still isn't interested in sex, mind you.

Funny, but my experience is exactly the opposite. If I don't jack off regularly, sexual thoughts come to mind unbidden more and more frequently. If I jack off, I can get on to doing other things without distraction.

 

[vibratingfinger]

I do but how many of you are willing to admit that your fantasies while masturbating doesn't involve your parter at all? And is he/she cool with that? My girlfriend told me point blank that she is cool with me masturbating as long as I only think about her. Of course, I told her I'd oblige but I think we'd both be fooling ourselves if we believed that I'd stick to my end of the bargain. In the back of my mind I hope she thinks about other things than me when she masturbates. That'd just be too damn boring. I'm boring.

 

[dolfette]

I do but how many of you are willing to admit that your fantasies while masturbating doesn't involve your parter at all? And is he/she cool with that? My girlfriend told me point blank that she is cool with me masturbating as long as I only think about her. Of course, I told her I'd oblige but I think we'd both be fooling ourselves if we believed that I'd stick to my end of the bargain. In the back of my mind I hope she thinks about other things than me when she masturbates. That'd just be too damn boring. I'm boring.

thought police!!!

i'd think it was weird if a guy never jacked to other images.

 

[technopeasant]

I started when I was 8. Discovered that rubbing on the bedsheet felt good. Suddenly I had this great feeling that made my heart pound and my toes curl. Been married for 28 years. Great still.

I think an orgasm is an orgasm if you need one get one. They aren't hard to find and the feeling is divine. Make it fast or make it slow however you will know that there ain't no feeling like it, be it in or be it out: Just squrt it till it's dry. Just remember where it is and be sure its where you want it.

Not Good rhyme but you get the point.