I picked this up off of the http://www.penis-size.us site: Most men would prefer to be loved for their potential as source of sexual satisfaction. This is one reason why they are concerned with the size of their penises. Of course, here's the strange cross-reference: Many men even find it degrading to be loved because they make good husbands. This smacks of being willing to do the dishes and putting the whole income to the disposal of the wife. What's this disparity about? In one breath, preoccupation becomes a reflection of inadequacy; in another, a similar inadequacy emerges because of a display of sensitivity, being "a good husband."