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joe22xxx: When we men are young, we think that our value is what we do, how we succeed in our careers, how much pleasure we can give the woman in our lives, and how well we can compete. There's a drive in us to make our place in the world. So our need for love is based on all those accomplishments.
My grandfather told me recently that as a man gets older, he doesn't care about that stuff as much. He realizes that to be loved for who he is is a more satisfying experience. But it takes a long time to get to that place of clarity.
Women seem to start with that need and stay there most of their lives. So maybe it's the women in our lives who can teach us how to be better men. What do you all think?
My grandfather told me recently that as a man gets older, he doesn't care about that stuff as much. He realizes that to be loved for who he is is a more satisfying experience. But it takes a long time to get to that place of clarity.
Women seem to start with that need and stay there most of their lives. So maybe it's the women in our lives who can teach us how to be better men. What do you all think?