i'm in a situation where a friend of mine(of 11 years)is involved in a relationship with another friend(female i've had sex with twice back in the 11th grade and just only twice)of mine and now it's known to my friend that my female friend and i had sex back in the day he's upset and going out of his mind about it in little ways,part of it is in his head,and the other part is from the years of hanging out with me partying with all the girls we would chase.but know he's asking her all types of questions about the times we had sex,and if he's big enough for her,crazy shit like that. the fucked up part about this is not only are they both really good friends of mine(like family)but before this "secret" got out they were a happy couple.and now it's tension between everybody.i tried to explain to him " don't worry about it,she's with you now.she and i were kids when we hooked up."around me he plays it off like it's cool.but i can tell it's gettin' to him.i never understood why men are worried about the size of the last or past lover of the woman they're in a relationship with.it makes no sense to me.be happy that the woman wants you.forget about the next man's dick! this goes out to all the other guys that are intimidated or worried about crazy shit like this...DAMN!!!