Men pretending to be Women: A female perspective

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I would like to hear from any guys that are willing to admit they were tricked. How they found out, or if they even give a shit.
But I don't see anyone stepping up.:rolleyes: That's what happens when guys let the wrong head do the thinking for them.

I hope they learned from their mistakes.
Actually, quite a few men have outted the fake(s) who broke their heart by posting a new thread about it. They usually sound angry and hurt. I don't know for sure; but I think the men who are so easily taken in, are men who have little to no contact with real women in their daily lives. :cool:

I've asked myself why is it so tempting to pretend to be a woman? Is it because you'd blend in too much at LPSG being a male? I have no idea why they would go so far to fool someone like that. What is the appeal?
I may be way off base here; but I always thought it was men who were closet gays or closet bisexuals. To come out, even online, as a man who enjoys looking at other nude men is unconscionable to these men. They are for more comfortable pretending to be a woman who wants to look at nude men; because in their twisted little brains that is the only 'right/normal' thing to be. :rolleyes: It really is quite sad from both ends.
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Actually, quite a few men have outted the fake(s) who broke their heart by posting a new thread about it. They usually sound angry and hurt. I don't know for sure; but I think the men who are so easily taken in, are men who have little to no contact with real women in their daily lives. :cool:

I may be way off base here; but I always thought it was men who were closet gays or closet bisexuals. To come out, even online, as a man who enjoys looking at other nude men is unconscionable to these men. They are for more comfortable pretending to be a woman who wants to look at nude men; because in their twisted little brains that is the only 'right/normal' thing to be. :rolleyes: It really is quite sad from both ends. :redface:

I think you are a little right here. There does seem to be more of a "taboo" placed on male homosexuality for some reason.
 

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On a more serious note, I agree with the closet homosexuality/bisexualty theory. . . Or perhaps those men are lying to themselves and want to trick other men. In that way, the fakers do not have to admit the attraction to other men and somehow feel justified/vindicated. . .

or it could be that some people are just deceptive and mean.
 

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Actually, quite a few men have outted the fake(s) who broke their heart by posting a new thread about it. They usually sound angry and hurt. I don't know for sure; but I think the men who are so easily taken in, are men who have little to no contact with real women in their daily lives. :cool:

I may be way off base here; but I always thought it was men who were closet gays or closet bisexuals. To come out, even online, as a man who enjoys looking at other nude men is unconscionable to these men. They are for more comfortable pretending to be a woman who wants to look at nude men; because in their twisted little brains that is the only 'right/normal' thing to be. :rolleyes: It really is quite sad from both ends. :redface:

I'll have to look for some of those threads.
 

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Some of the guys in the chat room willingly suspend belief so they can get their cock out for some guy pretending to be a woman, others have been fooled into doing it and were quite hurt when they found they'd been tricked. I'm often asked in the chatroom by guys if I think x or x is a genuine women so BHR's post, although dissed by some, would be welcomed by lots of guys. And why should she care MB - well perhaps if there weren't so many fake women in the chat room who strolled in and declared 'oh my pussy is wet', 'i'm horny' 'hello big bois', perhaps we wouldn't get the occasional guy coming in there asking 'any cunts in here'.
 

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Some of the guys in the chat room willingly suspend belief so they can get their cock out for some guy pretending to be a woman, others have been fooled into doing it and were quite hurt when they found they'd been tricked. I'm often asked in the chatroom by guys if I think x or x is a genuine women so BHR's post, although dissed by some, would be welcomed by lots of guys. And why should she care MB - well perhaps if there weren't so many fake women in the chat room who strolled in and declared 'oh my pussy is wet', 'i'm horny' 'hello big bois', perhaps we wouldn't get the occasional guy coming in there asking 'any cunts in here'.

Might i also add that these types often PM us trying to pretend to be our girlfriends. I've had so many try to lure me into conversation to try to give them my yahoo name. They are annoying as hell to all of us.....well most of us.
 

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I do not talk like a regular woman I guess. I write porn for a living...so I am one raunchy bitch!!
Proudly, I have my raunchy moments as well. :biggrin1:

As BHR noted, there are some things I read that seem far from what most women would write in a new setting -- that alone cannot serve as proof, though.

There are no doubt men pretending to be women, but in the absence of a foolproof way to distinguish them, setting guidelines for distinguishing fakes risks pigeonholing real women into a set of appropriate behaviors.

LPSG is a sex related site, so even though I find some replies or posts like, say "pussy stuffing", just throwing that one out there, strange. I will not consider someone a fake because they are not similar to me or other women I know, rather I take them at their gender word and if I get a hinky vibe, evade them.
 

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I'm sure I saw the horse you rode in on somewhere around here...

Goodnight ladies.

Oh come on, it was a joke, MB. Plus, you have to admit, you don't give a figgidy fuck an awful lot for someone who doesn't give a figgiddy fuck, yanno? No offense meant, I was just poking fun.
 

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Well im in no way telling women what is appropriate behavior here. I'm thinking if you have most of the things listed, you are likely a man pretending to be a woman. Not if you have 1 or a few things listed. Its a pretty detailed compilation of things i've taken notice of. So an intelligent woman with the name Red34DDD doesnt automatically draw suspicion, its the ones who say "21, female, florida. I love big cock, cam for me, i have my yahoo listed, PM me everyone, hee hee" with pictures of Pamela Anderson for her gallery that makes you go.....hmmmmmmm
 

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Well im in no way telling women what is appropriate behavior here. I'm thinking if you have most of the things listed, you are likely a man pretending to be a woman. Not if you have 1 or a few things listed. Its a pretty detailed compilation of things i've taken notice of. So an intelligent woman with the name Red34DDD doesnt automatically draw suspicion, its the ones who say "21, female, florida. I love big cock, cam for me, i have my yahoo listed, PM me everyone, hee hee" with pictures of Pamela Anderson for her gallery that makes you go.....hmmmmmmm
I know, sorry I was highlighting the one thing that stands out to me most. Sometimes I am totally put off by the verbiage.

But again, there is a possibility the 21 year old female that wants to cam exists, because of the nature of the site there is no way to know until she cams with them and shows her goodies... or penis. :)

I agree, while most hopefully wouldn't use Pam, the professional looking pics should be a bit of a give away. :)
 

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I just want to reiterate that I appreciate this thread. Any of you woman that want to point out an imposter, please do.

I would be really anoyed and disapointed if I thought I was having a fun conversation with a woman and found out it was a guy. The whole reason I am hear is to see what women think and feel about this topic.

I had a recent negative experience with a woman so I'm hoping to be able to get feedback from some of you without worrying it's a guy.