I think some men are intimidated by a woman they observe to be quick and smart and they'd stay away. In the chat room apart from the chancers that just appear once and try to pm everyone I know it's always the smart guys who can hold a great conversation who are going to pm me.
Interesting you should say this, especially since I have had an argument with you in the chat room. My only advice to you (from that conversation) is that intelligence is not the same as holding a lot of folk theories and opinions (whether you think they are informed or not).