Phil Ayesho
Superior Member
Yawn!!
Yet another predictable "Phil" rant about the evils of women kind.
Phil my dear you are an utterly boring little shit.
Thanks, Dragonfly... this kind of baseless and abusive response based solely upon gender rather than argument is perfectly in support of my thesis.
I would point out that I am precisely as likely to post about the "evils" of men-kind...
Also like to point out to others that nothing I said was 50's style chauvinism.
I know a lot of working women... I also know a LOT of women who have decided that running the household is enough of a job that they would prefer to stay home and have a single income earner.
I think working women often have men who do not do enough to help out with the home tasks.
AND I am acknowledging that many men GIVE UP and cease contributing.
( for the women who can never be wrong... that is called owning up to a fault. )
But part of the problem is women's insistence on having authority over all home related tasks... which makes the husband their inferior at home... and their being critical of how such tasks are being done...
Thankless jobs simply don't get done.
And the other part of the problem is that if one spouse feels that a clean floor is important... and the other spouse could care less... then the person for whom it matters most will be the one who ends up doing it.
Women create priorities that create extra work, often unnecessarily- I know several who spend half their day driving kids to unecessarily invented social events...
I would like to point out that the relationships I see where BOTH parties seem to share tasks equally are those relationships where whoever is doing the task has authority over how it is done.
I have known women who would never criticize their husband's cooking, cleaning, or parenting... and those women always have husbands who seem more willing to chip in.
Call me names... demonize me all you like...
Nothing I am saying is ANTI-woman...
The tenor of the responses to my post, by gender, is revealing.