Men Who Cross Their Legs...

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If you wear tight fitting clothes that keep your balls higher when sitting, you risk crushing them. If you wear loose clothes that let them hang lower, you should pretty much be able to cross your legs no matter how big your balls are.
 

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I cross my legs frequently, and don't believe there's anything inherently effeminate about it.

ETA: I usually have to give my nutsack a tug first, though.
 

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Maybe this is a generational thing? I think it's usually older people (30+) who cross their legs. Maybe it's a way of 'hiding their shame'? Whereas younger generations sit with their legs open, potentially "displaying" in some way.

I just think it's quite uncomfortable and effeminate.

Sounds like men crossing their legs offends you. Why do you suppose that is?

I'm thirty, I cross my legs sometimes, I don't really think about it when I do it, I have a big dick, and I'm not ashamed of anything. If you find it uncomfortable, don't do it.

I'm not even getting into 'effeminate.'
 

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ef·fem·i·nate/iˈfemənit/

Adjective: (of a man) Having or showing characteristics regarded as typical of a woman; unmanly.

Seeing as women typically cross their legs, and men usually don't, it is effeminate.
 

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ef·fem·i·nate/iˈfemənit/

Adjective: (of a man) Having or showing characteristics regarded as typical of a woman; unmanly.

Seeing as women typically cross their legs, and men usually don't, it is effeminate.
I guess vacuuming, cooking, and fixing a bottle for the baby would be effeminate too? Well I guess I'm effeminate too. Who knew?


I think you need to get in touch with your inner sissy.
 
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Thigh over thigh or just shin over shin? There's an important distinction missing from your thesis, professor.
Shin over shin is quite relaxing and comfortable. Not sure that's what Inco meant tho - think he's on about the thigh over thigh thing?
 

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I'm by no means large, but I find myself crossing my legs sometimes. I'll usually do the shin to shin, or the leg over knee. Leg over knee is a bit harder to pull of when your in class. I'm really fidgety so I'll usually move my feet around a bit, I know it might drive some people nuts but I just cant sit still sometimes! However I don't think there is a correlation between the two.
 

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I don't understand. I assume we are talking about thigh over thigh, leg-crossing. When I cross my legs, my penis (and testicles) will 'hang' below the leg on leg zone - regardless of whether I'm naked, fully-clothed or in underwear. It's a non-issue for me. If my penis happens to be hanging over my thigh, then yes - leg-crossing could 'trap' it. But, that could be the case for any penis size. To me, it's like suggesting that sitting down is painful for men with large testicles. It can be painful for anyone (big or small), but not as a rule. To the suggestion that leg-crossing is somehow effeminate, I say rubbish. Sometimes, you cross your legs because they're cold. The resulting extra body heat is welcome. Besides, what is wrong with looking effeminate? Is it because of the silly belief that men with big penises are superior? That well-endowed men can't cross their legs, and therefore a man who wishes to cross his legs must have a small penis, is effeminate and automatically less of a man? Seems that way to me.
 

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I just can't plain do it. I've always been rather stocky and had pretty thick thighs. I do think its a tad effiminate but I dont find that off-putting in the slightest. Men shouldn't just have one facet. We have things about us that are feminine and women have characteristics that are masculine. Wtf is with all the hubbub bub?
 

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I don't even notice if men cross their legs - shows how much I care about that!

However, I do notice if a man sits there with his legs splayed open - not so much because it's a display, but because the guy takes up so much space. Three people sitting in a row of chairs with some guy in the middle with his knees spread so far apart it causes two other people to be practically pushed off their own chairs. Either that or having his knee bumping one or the other, spilling coffee or messing up the ability to take notes. A few times I've actually taken a good long look at his crotch, half expecting to see THE WORLD'S BIGGEST DICK AND BALLS, why else would he need that kind of space between his knees?! :confused: :rolleyes:
 

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I don't even notice if men cross their legs - shows how much I care about that!

However, I do notice if a man sits there with his legs splayed open - not so much because it's a display, but because the guy takes up so much space. Three people sitting in a row of chairs with some guy in the middle with his knees spread so far apart it causes two other people to be practically pushed off their own chairs. Either that or having his knee bumping one or the other, spilling coffee or messing up the ability to take notes. A few times I've actually taken a good long look at his crotch, half expecting to see THE WORLD'S BIGGEST DICK AND BALLS, why else would he need that kind of space between his knees?! :confused: :rolleyes:

I take a good long look at your gallery, expecting to see THE WORLD'S BIGGEST TITS. I am not disappointed :wink:

And let's just say for the sake of argument, this is thigh over thigh crossing, the most restrictive form of leg crossing. It just seems uncomfortable to me.

Maybe it's body language though and a sign of nerves.

Leg body language

I just think the world would be a better place if we all had the space to hang loose and not be squished.
 
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small penis? noooooooo... i don't think that's a factor. and anyone who says that is the reason doesn't really know anything about flexibility. crossing my legs like that just happens for me... lol i don't think about it too much thought. but you do need to adjust yourself occasionally, or deal with the ball-squeezing.
 

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Maybe this is a generational thing? I think it's usually older people (30+) who cross their legs. Maybe it's a way of 'hiding their shame'? Whereas younger generations sit with their legs open, potentially "displaying" in some way.

I just think it's quite uncomfortable and effeminate.

What shame are they hiding?
 

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I've tried it, but it just don't work, because my balls get smashed and I even have a hard time sitting with my legs completely together. If a guy crosses his legs, thigh to thigh, I think it looks WEIRD!! That's just my opinion...