Men Who Have Never Masturbated?

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Have you ever met a man who has never even tried to masturbate? Are you someone like that?

I have met some men who have tried to claim that they've never masturbated, but I didn't believe them. Just from my experience of being a male, I find it hard to believe any man with a sex drive would never at least try to jerk off.

What do you guys think?
 
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Is there some type of prize here? Yes, never touched the thing in my whole life.

I was not that guy on cam last week, someone hacked my account.

Where do I pick up the cash, check or money order?
 
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Happened with my best mate, when we first met at college. After several months we were rather drunk and talking shit to each other and I made a comment about wanking, which he looked confused about (he was generally quite an innocent guy in many ways). After a bit more chat I realised that he had no idea what I was talking about. I said to him "Don't you ever get your dick out and play with it, to pleasure yourself and he told me that he didn't. I was somewhat incredulous because at home he shared a bedroom with his older brother and I would have thought that the subject would have come up, so to speak. Anyway, it hadn't and he was completely ignorant.

He admitted to me that he regularly got erections but didn't realise that you could do something with them and get a lot of pleasure from them, on your own. Consequently, I had to go through the whole process of explaining to him how to stroke his cock when it was hard, how to roll his foreskin back and forwards over the knob and to keep going until the point of ecstasy. The following night he told me that he'd followed my instructions a few times the previous night and it was "bloody brilliant" - but then we all know that, don't we, lads? ;)
 

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Happened with my best mate, when we first met at college. After several months we were rather drunk and talking shit to each other and I made a comment about wanking, which he looked confused about (he was generally quite an innocent guy in many ways). After a bit more chat I realized that he had no idea what I was talking about. I said to him "Don't you ever get your dick out and play with it, to pleasure yourself and he told me that he didn't. I was somewhat incredulous because at home he shared a bedroom with his older brother and I would have thought that the subject would have come up, so to speak. Anyway, it hadn't and he was completely ignorant.

He admitted to me that he regularly got erections but didn't realize that you could do something with them and get a lot of pleasure from them, on your own. Consequently, I had to go through the whole process of explaining to him how to stroke his cock when it was hard, how to roll his foreskin back and forwards over the knob and to keep going until the point of ecstasy. The following night he told me that he'd followed my instructions a few times the previous night and it was "bloody brilliant" - but then we all know that, don't we, lads? ;)
Truly amazing, I just don't know how one would not figure it out even if not knowing what was going on. I mean I think when I started puberty my hips would have a mind of their own with the mattress even if it was just shortly of the light bulb going of. Wow, I almost feel bad for your friends and others, talk about blue balls, tension, stress.... Those who are dads: man up and have the conversation with your sons, don't chance them going doubfounded through the growing times!
 

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Truly amazing, I just don't know how one would not figure it out even if not knowing what was going on. I mean I think when I started puberty my hips would have a mind of their own with the mattress even if it was just shortly of the light bulb going of. Wow, I almost feel bad for your friends and others, talk about blue balls, tension, stress.... Those who are dads: man up and have the conversation with your sons, don't chance them going doubfounded through the growing times!

Absolutely. Nobody told me. I was just laying in the bath one day, got hard, pulled my foreskin back, played with it and discovered that I liked the tingling feeling in my legs, immediately before I came.
 

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Wish I'd had a brother to show/teach me....my father NEVER mentioned anything about sex, masturbation, etc., EVER! Learned from the boys in the neighborhood, but still didn't know much until I went away to college!
 

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Have you ever met a man who has never even tried to masturbate? Are you someone like that?

I have met some men who have tried to claim that they've never masturbated, but I didn't believe them. Just from my experience of being a male, I find it hard to believe any man with a sex drive would never at least try to jerk off.

What do you guys think?
You have to find out about it first.
 

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You have to find out about it first.

Find out about what? Masturbation?

I don't know how it is for women, but you don't have to be told how to masturbate. Maybe how to do it in a way that doesn't cause scabs, but for men masturbation is the simplest, most obvious thing in the world.
 

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Wish I'd had a brother to show/teach me....my father NEVER mentioned anything about sex, masturbation, etc., EVER! Learned from the boys in the neighborhood, but still didn't know much until I went away to college!
I learned everything on my own, no dad or brothers or friends, just me and my penis
 

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Find out about what? Masturbation?

I don't know how it is for women, but you don't have to be told how to masturbate. Maybe how to do it in a way that doesn't cause scabs, but for men masturbation is the simplest, most obvious thing in the world.
I mean, it is a natural thing to rub a spot that feels good getting rubbed. When I first figured that out, I hadn't quite learned to have any modesty or where other people's boundaries were. I was told by my mother to go do it in my room, with the door closed, and to wash my hands when I was done. Oh, okay. This is private. Gotcha. It was a long time before I tried to put anything in there instead just applying friction or pressure to my vulva.

My first orgasms came from humping the mattress. I didn't understand the contractions, and they terrified me. I thought I broke my vagina! I was too embarassed to tell anyone. I mean, who ever heard of a broken vagina?! How could I possibly get my mother to advise me? She said we could talk about anything, but we were insanely religious. I wasn't sure what I was doing was in keeping with the Commandments, but it was a life-long compulsion. I couldn't stop myself. At least my mother, who was also a feminist and a hippie, had told me masturbation was a good, wholesome activity, but I still didn't want to tell her I broke my only vagina! And what kind of doctor do you tell about it? No way was I going to my GP who knew my mother! But eventually the weird spasms subsided, and I would go back to humping the bed because it felt great.

Discussing this with men has yielded the information that lots of men start out humping the bed too. Quite a few told me that just like it took forever to occur to me to insert anything, they too needed social collaboration to come up with the idea to stroke, rather than to just hump, and most of them never returned to humping.

So. Imagine that a young dude is bathing himself, and discovers his erection. Imagine he continues bathing and finds out how lovely it feels to touch it, or hold it under running water, or push on it. Imagine he shares the bathroom with family and an elder catches him, shames him for playing with it. Might he never touch it again?

I come from sex positive parents. I was never told anything was dirty or shameful. I was told to read the Song of Solomon, and taught that sexual exploration is a beautiful, holy, sacred thing to be explored with my life partner only. I was told that turning my urges on myself and masturbating was wholesome, healthy, and would prepare me for a good sexual connection with my future life partner, as God intended. I was told it wasn't shameful, just very private. But it was my friends who opened my mind to the idea of shoving objects up in there. Without socialization, I may have come to that conclusion on my own, but maybe not. My closest friends came from socially moderate, left-leaning parents like mine. Our parents were friends. What if my friends were uptight, and wouldn't talk about these topics with me?

So imagine our hypothetical young dude has a sex-negative upbringing, and the urge to make his dick feel good never becomes stronger than the shame instilled in him. Imagine his friends all feel the same way, or pretend to. Imagine they make jokes that make jerking off sound shameful, just like his parents said. Is he ever going to masturbate? No. Not until his paradigms shift. And once he becomes sexually active, he may just never feel the need, having never developed the habit heretofore. Yeah, he's going to be in the minority, but he could be out there.
 
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