Men Who Have Sex With Women: Have You Had A Vasectomy? Would You Get One? Why/why Not?

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I know this is a weird question to ask and it's not the usual fare, but I just recently had one (at a relatively young age- ask me why if you want) and was curious how many guys here have gotten the old clip n' snip, or have at least considered it.

Also, since I've had one, feel free to ask what it's like!
 
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I had a vasectomy 35 years ago after our second child was born. It was no big deal with the procedure being done in a doctor's office. It seems like it took 20 minutes or less. No big deal.
 
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I got one not because I had to but because I don't want to be a father at my age. When my second wife and I met we were beginning to get into swinging. She had already had her tubes tied so was safe. I thought it a good idea to make myself safe. So I did and have the freedom to know that I won't be in preventing some partner in the future. So..how was yours? Mine was not a huge deal.
 

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I got one when my wife and I were done having kids. she didn't want to go back on the pill, and because of my largeness, I shredded condoms. that was about the time when Trojan Magnums came out. We used those but since she had always been on the pill, and we were used to fucking bare, I got snipped.
 

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I had one several years ago. We already had two kids and when I asked if she wanted another, she said she felt too old to carry another pregnancy. I was ready to get rid of the condoms and didn't want her going back on the pill. I got the snip done in the doctor's office and it was no big deal.
The doc told me to bring a jock, no compression shorts, to the appointment because gravity won't be my friend for a while. That was great advice! I ended up wearing a jock for a couple weeks with the exception of one regrettable day of boxers (a little earlier than I should have attempted).
A buddy of mine came over the day after the snip and we watched movies and drank beer while I rotated a couple bags of frozen peas between the freezer and my nuts. There wasn't much pain, but the ache was a little less if I kept the boys cold.
 

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I got one not because I had to but because I don't want to be a father at my age. When my second wife and I met we were beginning to get into swinging. She had already had her tubes tied so was safe. I thought it a good idea to make myself safe. So I did and have the freedom to know that I won't be in preventing some partner in the future. So..how was yours? Mine was not a huge deal.

There's actually a bit of a funny story there. Mine went extremely smoothly, which I didn't expect, because it was the older scalpel type vasectomy and thought that it'd take longer for me to heal, but I was back at my job the next day.

The doctor and their attendant were extremely nice and they were actually skilled enough that they could small-talk while doing the whole procedure. In true New York fashion, we talked about the MTA and the Subways the entire time my little man was under the knife:joy: .
 
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I got mine a 21 years of age and watched the whole procedure.
 
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I had one. And my sex drive has risen to insane levels ever since! My wife jokes that I can screw other women now. I am not going to test her, though.

My left nut was fine, but the right one was excruciating. It hurt for over a year. I can still feel it on the right side.

Anyway, ever since the v-sec, our sex life has gone back to sex twice a day again, even after nearly 20 years of marriage.

The nurses who were there were hilarious. Totally unprofessional and I loved it. One of them held my cock in place. She said normally she doesn't need to hold it but she didn't trust mine. She squeezed it a few times, too. The other nurse said that she can't talk to her bf about work because he doesn't want to hear about her shaving balls all day and she wished it would take longer to shave mine. She said it was going to be the nicest of the three she will see that day.
 

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I had one. And my sex drive has risen to insane levels ever since! My wife jokes that I can screw other women now. I am not going to test her, though.

Anyway, ever since the v-sec, our sex life has gone back to sex twice a day again, even after nearly 20 years of marriage.

That's wonderful! Honestly happy for you. Unfortunately, and maybe a bit ironically, I got mine while I was single and got it just under a month before COVID-19 hit the city here. I didn't have enough time to both recover and partner up and creampie any women, but I can only imagine what it's like to cum inside someone without worrying about a condom slipping or if that dose of The Pill is somehow defective or was missed.
 

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No point when I always use condoms for sti protection of myself and partners. Full disclosure: I have fucked a handful of women over the years without protection.
 
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I had mine done last February. My wife and I decided we were done having kids after the second one, so I volunteered to get it done.

Went in to get it done fully prepared to do something to preoccupy myself but ended up talking to the doctor and nurse the whole time. Both women were a blast to chat with and before I knew it I was done.

Recovery was rather quick, mostly keeping ice packs around to soothe the swelling. I didn't even need the pain meds that I was perscribed, just some Tylenol every now and then.
 
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I know this is a weird question to ask and it's not the usual fare, but I just recently had one (at a relatively young age- ask me why if you want) and was curious how many guys here have gotten the old clip n' snip, or have at least considered it.

Also, since I've had one, feel free to ask what it's like!
I'm not particularly interested in having children myself so I wouldn't be opposed to it when I finally find and settle down with somebody. Though that obviously could change when I do find that special person. Definitely would be a topic of discussion that we'd both have to sit down for lol
 
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I've considered it, I've got a whole load of kids from relationships past and present and getting on in years now myself. That said I'm in a settled marriage and my wife uses the contraceptive injection which works well for us so don't see the need to mess with my anatomy, I'm happy as I am.
As for a question, sure.
Has it made any difference to the volume, consistency or viscosity of your ejaculete?
 
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Got my vasectomy in 1983, after two kids and a miscarriage. Done in a local DR office, in less than half and hour.

The procedure was fine, but those shots to the balls sucked ass for 30 seconds or so. Almost broke my nose from the knee's curling up to my face. Have heard other's were not that bad. Maybe there are different ways for the shots, however I hated mine.

Recovery was simple. Had it done Sat AM and was back to work Mon AM. Was a mechanic at the time as well, so it was not a desk job.
 
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I don't judge what other people do but, for myself, I'm usually against any kind of body modification. No circumcision, no tattoos, no earrings or other piercings, no non-essential cosmetic surgery or medical procedures, and no vasectomy.

I'm not at all interested in having more children. I deal with that by avoiding fertile women. If I was having sex with women I would be willing to use a condom. I also admit that I'm a male chauvinist pig in some ways and I see birth control as more of the woman's problem.
 
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I've considered it, I've got a whole load of kids from relationships past and present and getting on in years now myself. That said I'm in a settled marriage and my wife uses the contraceptive injection which works well for us so don't see the need to mess with my anatomy, I'm happy as I am.
As for a question, sure.
Has it made any difference to the volume, consistency or viscosity of your ejaculete?
No difference in what I shoot. Most of what's in you cum is made in the prostate and it's largely just the sperm cells that come from your balls.
 

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I had mine about forty-five years ago, in my 20s, and never had a single regret. I think I had it on a Friday, so no work time lost. Maybe a week off my bicycle, but that was it. All good since then.
 

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Had mine years ago. No problems at all. Although I did miss the feeling of knowing that I could inseminate a woman when I came in her. The element of her acceptance of that possibility during sex seems to matter to me.
 
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