Men who think women in porn are examples of women in real life.

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  1. datdude

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    Women in Porn!!

    I have found something disturbing from conversations at parties and on forums. Some guys think that Porn is real. I mean the women in porn adn how they act. For being with many women myself I feel that Porn is complete horsshit and nowhere near how women really are.

    Guy walks out wirh a big dick and she starts to go nuts. All the while while hes ugly as sin and totally degrates her. ???? I dont know any women like that.

    Or women that loved to get cummed on in the face. Cant wait to take 7 loads all over her face. Bull-shit women are not so happy to take a shot in the face. I dnot even think it looks good it so much more natural if the guy just came on her ass,stomach ,or tits.

    I never thought some guys would actully blur the lines and think what they seen in porn movies reflects to women in the real world. Kind of scary to me!!!
     
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    Matie, It DEPENDS on the people / women you hang out with. I know women who LOVINGLY take cum on their faces and hungrily in their awaiting mouths. And think very light about it and dont feel judged at all. Isnt that the way it should be for both sexes when it comes to sex?!.
     
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    I agree with you. I dont judge. I know women who will take it on their face, if I ask. They thought dont lust and treat it like its the neceter of the Gods though. If your into it thats cool. I applaude women who will do that for their man!!! My point was that women are not like they are in porn. They just arent.
     
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    Dude, we're ALL so different. Girls/Guys in porno films are reflected in some of us in 'real life', just like some aren't.

    I do think it's odd when people blur their reality so much that they believe all people react like the Porno Reality. Just take people as the cum (ha ha). Find out if they wanna act like porn stars and go with it if they do. And if you wanna act like one, by all means. But be prepared to get turned down occasionally as not everyone is into, for example, getting cum all over their face and in their hair.

    I, for one, love it! But I'm a slut.
     
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    there are so many factors that you cant tell what one person will do from one episode to another, and we are all sexual beings and we all enjoy sex, so what it is at that moment is not to be judged by some board or committee. Its just what it is. Those of us who have done as much as we intended are less likely to wonder or worry about what anyone thinks, and ultimatly what a person does for or to you is a blessing of sorts. They may never do it again, although I dont believe that. All the rules are arbitrary and therefore meaningless out of context. If you explain in church what you did, they will be less forgiving than if you explain in the bar at 3 am, where they will cheer you on.
     
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    Many people live in a fantasy world, both men and women. IT's the people who decide their lives need to mimic movies whether it's porn, Natural Born Killers, or Fun With Dick & Jane that worry me.
     
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    Unfortunately thats just how it is. You can't change peoples opinions.
     
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    EWWW, well said mate. guilt and religion go hand in hand. Oops, am I starting a new post here? ! Sorry, I will stick to the pub. http://www.lpsg.org/images/smilies/biggrin.gif
     
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    porn is real. Unless it's some of that weird CGI stuff.
     
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    If my actual experience is any guide, real women rarely ever behave as they are portrayed in straight porn flicks.

    That's not to say that I haven't seen actual women behave, on occasion, like porn stars but those would be deliberate cases of life imitating art for kicks (if porn can be called such :rolleyes:).
     
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    I agree with the OP. Porn is NOT real. Of COURSE there are going to be some women who enjoy doing that stuff, but it's not the majority.

    Just like the stuff in porn is acting, well there are untold numbers of women out there who are doing just that in the real bedroom -- acting.

    Yes, there are some (perhaps many) who truly AREN'T acting. But many, MANY women ARE acting.

    But don't get me wrong -- women are kinky as all heck... but not necessarily in the ways shown by male oriented porn flicks. Women often kink in completely different ways. Ask any of the "wild women" at LPSG and they'll have great stories to tell -- but you don't necessarily see those things in porn movies made for and watched by men.

    The trick is to find out HOW a gal is kinked... and, well, isn't that kind of fun?
     
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    Complete and utter truth. However, that applies to just about everything on this planet. Sex, politics, and religion are the most obvious examples of minds made up. There are some willing to study indepth and keep an open mind, but the combination is not common. Many who claim open mindedness are nothing of the sort, but nevertheless percieve themselves as such. Opinions are a dime a dozen. Forums are good for chit chat, and perhaps to even form a friend or companion, but don't expect the typing onto the keyboard with fingers to change any minds. It's mostly a waste of time.
     
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    It is real, all you need is $500-$2000 (in the States, depending on the actress. As little as $15-$30 if you're willing to travel overseas) and you could have a woman who looks the same way acting the same way, and they're not pretending to have sex even if they are pretending to enjoy certain things. But the woman you paid would pretend, too, if you told her to. If you didn't care about filming the experience you could arrange it for even less money than that. The premise for all those dumb reality porn sites like BangBus are completely bogus, of course, but if you understand that it's usually acting then most of the time it's real enough.

    Just because it's real, though, doesn't mean that the porn milieu is an accurate reflection of reality or that the women featured in porn are a representative sample of women in general. Obviously they're not. If you believe that then you are probably either a) stupid enough to think that BangBus doesn't hire actresses, or b) in need of therapy
     
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    I'm thankful "real" women aren't like that. I would, however, say that there's very rarely anything special or uncommon about the men in porn.
     
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    What is CGI? Computer Graphic Imaging? :confused:
     
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    The best bet is to only watch amateur porn. Even then the women almost always know there is a camera and that may affect how they react. I believe some are authentic, but knowing which ones for sure can be tricky. I use to travel somewhat and stayed in many motels and the walls usually seemed quite thin. The sounds I heard women making (when they did make vocals while the bed was going, sometimes it was just the bed making a sound) doesn't usually match up well even with amateur porn, so I do think the camera messes things up often. I can't much go by my own experiences during intercourse to compare by, as there isn't much to compare with vocally (I think my somewhat lack of girth combined with average length was the reason I could hardly get women to produce sounds during intercourse.).
     
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    computer generated imagery.
     
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    I'd take cum on the nose if it is 10" minimum. Otherwise don't bother.
     
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    I like some of the things porno girls pretend to like and not others.

    Yeah I can go crazy for a fugly hung guy sometimes...not that his being fugly is better of course, it's not a detraction to liking his dick if I'm in the right mood...

    ...but facials? You'd better be doing something pretty damned spectacular if I'll let a drop near my eyes.
     
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    Hmmm. I'm not trying to be a wet blanket, hmilf, but, no, I'm not so sure it's all that much fun of a 'trick' to blunder around trying to find out how gals want to be treated, kinkwise or otherwise. Why can't they just tell us what they want? :smile: The guessing method can lead to a lot of unrealistic expectations, false starts and lost opportunities.
     
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