Men who think women in porn are examples of women in real life.

[B_NineInchCock_160IQ]

Hmmm. I'm not trying to be a wet blanket, hmilf, but, no, I'm not so sure it's all that much fun of a 'trick' to blunder around trying to find out how gals want to be treated, kinkwise or otherwise. Why can't they just tell us what they want? :smile: The guessing method can lead to a lot of unrealistic expectations, false starts and lost opportunities.

agreed. have heard so many stories from girls about their sexual experiences, and the guys did something they thought was weird and they ended the relationship. Next girl will have a story about how the guy they were with didn't do the thing that weirded out the first girl, but they wanted them to, so of course they ended the relationship. How is this fun? I'd rather have sex with an open and communicative partner than fiddle with a Rubix cube.

 

[Not_Punny]

LOL -- Guys! I didn't mean it THAT literally! (Like it's some hidden thing that requires a "search party"!)

Gorsh! (As Goofy says)

It's -- how to say it better? -- like opening a present? :wink: (You don't really know what you're getting until you get into the sack)

 

[Not_Punny]

Ah forget about it...! I don't seem to be able to string coherent thoughts together tonight!!! (I'm sitting here staring at a blank screen trying to finish a project/deadline)

 

[Blocko]

As an interesting counter point, I've found women who want to behave more porn like just because of a big dick being around. It's not only men who want to live the "porn fantasy".

Some of those women are here, looking for that big "porn" dick that'll drive them wild like a "porn star" (okay, so some of those are men as well). Of course, it does seem to be mainly younger women and those who've been trapped in a sexually repressed relationship who harbor these fantasies.

But I would say to make the criticism particular to men is cutting out a reasonable number of guilty parties.

 

[8dot75]

I'd be prone to think ANY guy who thinks a woman in the real world is as vacuous as her pornographic counterpart is the same guy who spends his Saturday morning huddled in front of the Television with a bowl of Cap'n Crunch and watching Power Rangers.
Sure , some women DO try to play up to that role, in turn MAKING themselves seem as vapid as pornstars, and probably put out as much , to boot.
Primarily, Women are NOT the flesh-and -blood sex toys that male-oriented porn depicts them as.
Conversely, they're not all like our darker psyche's toys-you know, dominatrices,bukakke girls, gaggers- either degrading us or being subject to degradation.

Where I grew up.. "in the 'hood", for all practical purposes,it was (and sadly, still is) commonplace to see women degraded on a constant basis...now they don't accept that stuff... unless it's on their terms.

Maybe some people in deep master/slave relationships CAN behave as they do in the movies, but I don't think they could suffer the indignity on a prolonged basis.

As for the porn movies and the way the women BEHAVE-

That's what they do to earn their $$$$$
it's a job... maybe not what mainstreamers would
condone as a viable means of support, but a job nonetheless-
may their cue cards NEVER be upside down, bless 'em...

... but WTF is up with the cumshots to the hair ??

I don't get it .

 

[Whopper-lee]

I pretty much agree with U datdude!

 

[Sixofspades]

It's strange, but I've noticed that quite a few women form their opinions of what they like and how they should be based off of porn without any pressure from their men whatsoever. My last girlfriend was all about dressing up in slutty heels, shaving her pussy completely, being very vocal, and demanding it rough all the time. This was without any prompting from me, it was all completely of her own volition, even though the whole shtick wasn't unpleasant. In retrospect I feel a little bad that I was never like "it's alright honey, let it all hang out," but on the other hand, I can't imagine that any man would say that, especially when he's liking it. It was also hard to tell whether she was acting or whether she genuinely enjoyed it that way. In any case, it's a dilemma, but I'm too hungover to ponder it any longer. Eat shit. :tongue:

 

[B_Jennuine73]

some men/women like to be degraded, but that is usually in a top/bottom, sub/dom situation.

sex is primal and some are more in tune with that than others.

porn is not real, like others have said, they are getting paid to act like cum-hungry sluts.

 

[Ethyl]

All i'll say is that i've had plenty of good sex in my life. Spectacular, even.

Nothing i've seen in porn comes close.

 

[B_Italian1]

Women in Porn!!
I have found something disturbing from conversations at parties and on forums. Some guys think that Porn is real.

I hear where you're coming from, and it's especially true today when porn is so readily available--right at your fingertips on your puter. I grew up seeing pictures of naked women, Playboy style. I never saw gang bangs or women being penetrated in all holes at once until VCR's came about, and I was over 21 by then. Some guys today think it's abnormal to have one on one sex with a woman.

Guy walks out wirh a big dick and she starts to go nuts. All the while while hes ugly as sin and totally degrates her. ???? I dont know any women like that.

I don't watch it that often now since it is so extreme. It's not about sex anymore. Seka, Marilyn Chambers, and Ginger Lynn actually had sex or at least looked like they were making love. Now it's about how over the top you can be. It is fantasy and so exaggerated.

A woman answers the door(scantily clad, or course) and it's the plummer. As he's fixing something he gets all wet, so naturally she volunteers to dry his clothes. The pants come off, she sees the large penis, and suddenly she is a woman out of control. The plots are quite lame. You can substitute the plummer for a pizza man, the mailman, the phone guy, or maybe they guy next door who needs a cup of sugar.

Or women that loved to get cummed on in the face. Cant wait to take 7 loads all over her face. Bull-shit women are not so happy to take a shot in the face. I dnot even think it looks good it so much more natural if the guy just came on her ass,stomach ,or tits.

There are women that want to be cummed on, but it's more common for a woman to not want to be cummed on--at least not every time. The money shot is important to porn; it shows the sex was real. Guys see those movies and think they can just go ahead and do whatever the guys in the movies do. And those multiple cum shots are kind of absurd. Again, there may be women in real life who'll want 7 guys to ejaculate on them, but it's rare. And after the 7 guys do that she looks like she won the million dollar lottery. She didn't but she earned a good day's pay.

I never thought some guys would actully blur the lines and think what they seen in porn movies reflects to women in the real world. Kind of scary to me!!!

I find it kind of scary. It's teaching guys to degrade women and not make love to them.

 

[grymph]

i think nine inch is onto something. Degrading or not, with the proper motivation$$ a women will put on a show in a porn movie that she wouldn't do for her man back home.

Pornographers spend a lot of time/money/energy making sure these already no doubt very sexual creatures are comfortable doing the things they do. Ecspecially thier first time.

And this is porn. These guys arent all ugly and they are all hung like a moose so the appeal of the money and possibly multiple giant dongs she is about to recieve may act as inspiration to do some things she is asked to do that dont normally appeal to her. It has to be exciting. And the following trip to the mall must be highly anticipated, or paying of the cards she already used at the mall.

Its also considered a power/ego trip for some women to wield that appeal. Lets face it, for us men the dirtier they are and the nastier things they do for us the more respect and admiration we have for them. Its not the other way around. I know that sounds wierd but if she is willing to do anything for us thats not a degrading position. We love her for it. Some of them get it, some dont. We marry often marry the ones that don't unfortunately.

If you find a woman that can please you freely without any reservations or boundaries you are a happy man. Isn't that what we are all looking for?
Freaky deaky sex fiends.

If a woman is a sex freak, plays MMOs, and can cook, then she is all i need. We'd make our own porn.

Oh and another thing. Women watch porn. Lots more than let on about it. Thank God. And they get thier own ideas about whats hot. Some women make themselves into these wonderful little sex fiends with no help from us. If they want power over us they just have to be a freak. Its not degrading its power play.

i work in health care and seriously all women talk about when they think we arent paying attention is sex. They talk about us, our cocks and sex toys and toy parties and about how their bridesmaids hooked them up with strippers. When they arent thinking about sex it seems like they are worrying about thier figure or thier kids sex life.

Some women just choose to go into porn. And whatever they deal with in porn they obviously accept it because some are in it for a long time and are proud of it.

 

[B_New End]

I had a g/f for 5 years that fucked like a porn star. Too bad our personalities clashed.

Not all the time, but if things were right, she would beg for a facial, and it was hot.

Porn sucks, because the women are dry, or have to spit on themselves to lube up. Of course it isn't real

But I have met plenty of girls who want to be degraded during sex. Its animalistic. they want to be told what to do, they want to be exposed, spread, and fucked. It gets them off. Not all the time, of course, but sometimes... and ALL of them love it some of the times, even the ones who deny it... ti just depends if they trust you.

I never have asked a girl to cum on her face. Again, if you are asking, you have already done something wrong. In a secure relationship, (not a one night stand, you would freak them out), you should be pinning their hands behind their backs, telling them to suck cock, slapping your dick on their face, and letting them know in no uncertain terms, you will be cumming on their face. The you tell them to get on their kneees and fuck them doggy style for a while... reminding them you are using them as a fuck toy, and you are going to glaze them with cum, maybe on their tits, who knows, but it's up to you.

I mean, haven't you ever heard/seen this video? YouTube - Tenacious D- Fuck Her Gently

 

[B_spiker067]

As more young women watch porn, the more these women will start to fuck like they are in a porn. Life imitating art and all. I'm not sure if that is a good thing or not, so many women are stupid in porn it would be sad if porn watching women would also turn stupid.

I think fucking something stupid is not half as fun as fucking something smart, but hey thats me.