Men with large penis vs. average/small penis'

[wallyj84]

Look.

LPSG is not the real world.

Very few women (or even men) choose a guy based totally on the size of his cock.

A few more, but not many, pick a guy based on sex alone.

Most potential partners are looking at the whole package ... YOU! Personality ... the ability to handle an intimate relationship ... similar goals and desires ... attraction ... etc etc etc.

Let's face it. Guys who are egotistical about and obsessed with the size of their unit may be hung, but they are still ... EGOTISTICAL and OBSESSIVE.

Who the hell wants to hang out with someone like that? Especially if, like most people, cock size is not that important to you!

So, the size of a dude's dick is, generally, not going to go far towards creating a long-term relationship, unless you luck into a size queen who doesn't care how you treat her/him.

A woman might start a long term relationship with a guy with an awesome personality who has a small penis, but that doesn't mean they won't sneak around with a big dicked guy if given the opportunity. I think that's really what most average/smaller guys fear.

 

[voyeuristic]

I'm really glad I'm not monogamous. I love love love huge cocks, but they're so rare and not what makes me fall for someone. I've posted this before, but the nice thing about open relationships is that if I do meet some horse-hung dude and I want to see what that's all about, I _can_ with my partners' approval...but he doesn't (and probably won't!) have to have all the other qualities that will make me want to be around someone day in and day out. If I meet a brilliant, dominant vegan guy with a thick uncut 10 inch dick (where's Santa when you need him?) who's also attracted to me someday, totally awesome...but I'm not holding my breath, and even then, it wouldn't change my love for the people already in my life.

 

[Jovial]

There were some good replies so far, especially Pendlum and vince.

There are some large guys that have a hard time getting girls, but some average and small guys have the same problem too. If anything the large penis gives them more confidence. But the reason some guys can't get girls is that they lack experience dating or making the initial connection with girls. It's a social skills thing, not about penis size.

OK well i throw in my two cents here, I am 7.5 x 6.2 mid shaft. So as you can see not small not extremely large by any means, girth is normally what gets them.

Depends on what you mean by "extremely large" but 6.2" girth is really big, like top 1% of men for girth.

 

[thinking]

I am by no means large. (At about 7 1/2" by 5 3/4") but several women have told me I am very big, others have not mentioned size at all. What I am getting at, every woman is different, and have different ideas on what contitutes big, in fact some women may think 9X7 is just a little big, (Maybe she has just been with this one guy, and think all men are this size due to porn .) while others may think 6X5 is big. (Because this is the biggest she has ever seen!)
If you are good to a woman and satisfy her in bed, most likely 5" will be enough to keep her coming back.
If you are a jerk, and don't satisfy her, no amount of cock will have her coming back!

 

[D_Anne_T_Freeze]

so true thinking, so true! my first partner was huge but i didnt know that at the time. but i've been quite lucky. it wasnt til 3 years ago i saw my first average penis and was quite disappointed. however no amount of massive penis can make me stay with a bad personality. still looking for both in one guy though!

 

[B_andyo]

hehe, my gf have only been with me, and I really think that a smaller dick would get lost in her vagina.. I don't know if she is like that or I made her a bit loose. Or at least when she gets wet... she she always does.
So, I don't have to go to school to know that when she is horny she wont even feel a 5" girth.. let that alone smaller ones... which according to stats most of them fall below 5" around.


size can get you laid... but for a true relationship everything is about the person not the penis..

one night stand, or a fuck buddy >> bigger is better. I know women get curious when you tell them " I have a big dick" while most won't believe it since every male uses those lines... I like the part where you put her hand on your dick. Attention: some will grab it without permission..

 

[Adam875]

OK, I tend to go for guys not girls and happily confess that, like hundreds (thousands?) of others on this site, I'm fascinated by the big dick. But when it comes to any kind of genuine relationship I couldn't care less what it is - large, small or middling. Which is just as well, as in my experience there are many more small dicks (or 'average' if you like) around than big 'uns.

 

[B_andyo]

A big dick is a bonus, for amazement, exploration and trip to the unknown.

My question is ...everyone has seen dick etc... and always tell us that there were a few big... yes, that is true. But, a few bigger penises out of how many dicks?

A person who have seen maybe over 50 penises in real life should know what the average looks like and when it starts to get big..

 

[D_Barney Blomee]

hehe, my gf have only been with me, and I really think that a smaller dick would get lost in her vagina.. I don't know if she is like that or I made her a bit loose. Or at least when she gets wet... she she always does.
So, I don't have to go to school to know that when she is horny she wont even feel a 5" girth.. let that alone smaller ones... which according to stats most of them fall below 5" around.

Ya your right, until you get her so loose that she needs a bigger dick then yours, cause obviously u not the biggest and remember "the bigger the better" right?:biggrin1: See what i am trying to point out is that u may think this sort of banter about dick size is great when u are the biggest she has had, but do regonize that when u are no longer the biggest it won't be so funny ey? Remember that those who jugde should be prepared to be judged themselves. Because one day she would look at your dick and think she could never feel as "filled" with you after she has had a bigger one. ANd if we continue on this rampage of dick size, it would ruin any possiblities of a healthy loving relationship or great sex for that matter; cause if u really think that having a bigger tool makes you a better lover then u have not experienced what great sex is. Too bad no women has taken the time out to teach you what a great sex entails, cause they have been too blinded by your COCK covering their eyesight.

 

[B_DEATHbyCARROT]

You guys who are like 7.5" and up who are saying you're not large are wrong. While not huge you are NOT part of the "average/small". Take a look here for an idea of what the average/small look like. LPSG/porn is not what you should base your opinion of what big is in the real world...

 

[Jovial]

Ya your right, until you get her so loose that she needs a bigger dick then yours, cause obviously u not the biggest and remember "the bigger the better" right?:biggrin1: See what i am trying to point out is that u may think this sort of banter about dick size is great when u are the biggest she has had, but do regonize that when u are no longer the biggest it won't be so funny ey? Remember that those who jugde should be prepared to be judged themselves. Because one day she would look at your dick and think she could never feel as "filled" with you after she has had a bigger one. ANd if we continue on this rampage of dick size, it would ruin any possiblities of a healthy loving relationship or great sex for that matter; cause if u really think that having a bigger tool makes you a better lover then u have not experienced what great sex is. Too bad no women has taken the time out to teach you what a great sex entails, cause they have been too blinded by your COCK covering their eyesight.

By your logic every woman would eventually keep wanting bigger and bigger until only the man with the biggest penis would be fucking every girl. It doesn't work like that. andyo's girlfriend will have a very difficult time finding a guy bigger than him, so I doubt he would be worried. And he will only stretch her out enough to make smaller dicks not fill her, but his size will still satisfy her.

 

[amado]

Confidence of course.
But you have better intercourse when you are big.

Women can have vaginal and clitorial orgasm.
For vaginal orgasm it is better when you are bigger.

Technique counts - of course.

When you are small there could be a problem, what I mean is 4.5 inches or less.
Average size might be ok for the most women.

But being bigger - all in all - is better.

 

[Beth1982]

See #3505 and #3508 on the following page of the Penis Size Debate site for two interesting male perspectives on this issue.

Penis Size: Comments 3501 to 3550

That was a great read. More guys should read that.

I've been with guys who've had big & small, thick & thin, and all things being equal knowing how to use it matters most. Second to knowing how to use it is thickness, not length.

Since a woman's size can vary as much as a man's, size is actually relative, especially with length. A guy with a 9 or 10" penis than can only fit 5" into his girl has no advantage over a gun with a smaller unit (barring some positions that only a longer one can manage). However, if she's bigger down there then the 6" may not hit all the same buttons a 10" could since the bigger one can fill her up more per stroke and it'd be double the stimulus if she can take all that.

For myself, I prefer a bigger penis, both length and thickness exactly like the reasons described in post 3508 on that site.

 

[D_Brecock Evileye]

k i would like to start a intelletual debate about penis size. All are welcome to participate and add their input based on experience or their opinion on things. There are alot of guys here who brag or are so proud about their penis, but yet are single and have trouble getting girls/women to accomadate them. And they constantly brag how they ex-girlfriend said they were the biggest...yet u no longer are with that person, so i can assume it really did not matter what u had in your pants. It seems like the average or smaller guys all have the girls or are in relationships. I wonder if i had a smaller penis if i would be able to sleep with more females. It seems a big penis is great for self confidence, not for sleeping with women who reject based on pain. Then i think which is better off?

I think that this is an over simplification. I am well hung and single. The woman I have been with realy enjoy it, however, we had other things in our lives and personalitys that got in the way.(Some have even returned for casual sex.) I am very shy at first and I think ladys like you to be more agressive or confident. I also live in a comunity that is rural. I am an artist and love to read. The ladys around here are more into big ole country boys.(like daddy.) When I get out of school I am moveing to a major city.

 

[Nekoman]

I am by no means large. (At about 7 1/2" by 5 3/4") but several women have told me I am very big, others have not mentioned size at all. What I am getting at, every woman is different, and have different ideas on what contitutes big, in fact some women may think 9X7 is just a little big, (Maybe she has just been with this one guy, and think all men are this size due to porn .) while others may think 6X5 is big. (Because this is the biggest she has ever seen!)
If you are good to a woman and satisfy her in bed, most likely 5" will be enough to keep her coming back.
If you are a jerk, and don't satisfy her, no amount of cock will have her coming back!

My guess is that MOST women (not on this site maybe) will judge 7.5 to be around 9 --- and really big....

 

[interestednj]

I'm 28 years old and only been with about 10 women my whole life. I've had 2 that said i was small (to my face :frown1: ) 1 that said i was large (couldn't even enter her the first 3 times we tried to have sex) and the rest said nothing and just enjoyed themselves some have multiple orgasms every time. As we've all seen from most people's responses, some women care and some don't. The ones who do care are probably just using you as a screw toy and that's all they care about. I've been with my girl for a year and a half now and she is completly content and the type of woman i would marry.

I used to be very self conscious of my size and worried all the time that i had a really small penis. Since joining this site and doing some research i've found that i am above average.

Be happy you have a functioning unit, as you get older i'm told that's the most important thing! :biggrin1:

 

[B_andyo]

hehe, my gf have only been with me, and I really think that a smaller dick would get lost in her vagina.. I don't know if she is like that or I made her a bit loose. Or at least when she gets wet... she she always does.
So, I don't have to go to school to know that when she is horny she wont even feel a 5" girth.. let that alone smaller ones... which according to stats most of them fall below 5" around.

Ya your right, until you get her so loose that she needs a bigger dick then yours, cause obviously u not the biggest and remember "the bigger the better" right?:biggrin1: See what i am trying to point out is that u may think this sort of banter about dick size is great when u are the biggest she has had, but do regonize that when u are no longer the biggest it won't be so funny ey? Remember that those who jugde should be prepared to be judged themselves. Because one day she would look at your dick and think she could never feel as "filled" with you after she has had a bigger one. ANd if we continue on this rampage of dick size, it would ruin any possiblities of a healthy loving relationship or great sex for that matter; cause if u really think that having a bigger tool makes you a better lover then u have not experienced what great sex is. Too bad no women has taken the time out to teach you what a great sex entails, cause they have been too blinded by your COCK covering their eyesight.

I know your point.. while I think there is a limit for the vagina... it won't expand anymore.. at least it havent in the past year, so it may continue the same.
Now, I am not saying anything there. Some women will leave a guy for a larger penis. But you must understand that there was no love, and she could care less about you. Now, she is my gf. I am her first, she loves me. There is nothing for me to worry about. And if that would happen... I get another girl.. nothing to worry about mate. Life is simple... Then again I know she isn't that type of person.. And trust me... she feeels full with me.. ha

 

[B_andyo]

Jovial - correct that's all I was saying... If she loves you she would be with you even if you had no penis at all. At least it doesn't matter that much. lick pussy and you will be alright.

interestednj - Don't worry. Some human beings try to abase us in any way they can. She probably had dozen of smaller ones.. or maybe she was hurt by a guy with a larger penis.. she may want to hurt them back.. this is a crazy world.

 

[BS76]

So I've been follow the "does size matter" debate pretty closely and found some threads here. I've got my own point of view on this since I'm about average size, but damn awesome in bed regardless. Aside from my first two lays the girls have always came from intercourse. Now that being said, my wife comes just fine, but when we messed around with toys I found out first hand how much size still matters.

I surprised her with a 10x7 dong one night after we talked about trying new things in bed. She wasn't able to accomodate it at first due to the thickness, but once we got past that after about all of, oh...2 minutes or so, she was taking 7 or 8 inches no problem. Any more and it would hurt her though. So long as I stopped at that depth and went crazy on the speed she'd orgasm faster and stronger than she ever did with plain old me.

Anyway, I remember it like it was yesterday though when something different happened. I was using the big dong on her and she started to ograsm, but she was really violently cuming and started moving around and bucking her hips. When she did she sort of sucked in the last couple inches and was actually balls deep on the dong. I think I was hitting her epicenter and she had the loudest hardest orgasm of her life. So we talked about it later and I tried looking it up online what just happened. That's actually how I found this site. A few days of googleing and I couldn't really come up with anything besides the epicenter explaination.

Since we were curious I went out and got a bigger dong, I think it was modeled after a porn star, but I forget the name. This new one is 7.5" around and 12" long. The first couple times we used it it was the same as before being limited to about 7-8" inside her, but about 2 or 3 weeks later when she was really into it she arched her back the same way as before and the sucking thing happened again. Sure enough she took it balls deep. Not sure where it's all going since she's only 5'3" and 130lbs.

Anyway, my point is that while I can get her off just fine, depsite her small stature she can take that HUGE dong to the hilt when I hit the right spots with it. AND IT'S A MUCH MORE POWERFUL ORGASM. So IMO size matters with her. I'm not worried about it though since I'm still the best in bed for almost all the women I've ever been with, and I can't change my size so I don't worry about it. Worst case if she really wants a big boy we have the toys we can break out. Plus I think I'm way better with the toys then a guy could ever be in terms of speed, depth control, and going as long as needed without ever having to worry about blowing a load.

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On the flip side of the coin....

I nailed this redhead years ago. She was so tight I couldn't even get it all in with her and we fucked like crazy for a couple weeks until she moved back to her country--she was only here for a college class over the summer. Despite my average size she was just small down there and that was that, so even small guys would be plenty big enough for her.

This is what makes me think the size issue is really a moot thing. If a guy isn't big enough for his girl then by the same token she's too big for him. In other words they're not a good match and they'd be better of with someone who is. My wife can take a big one, but since I get her off just fine we still match. Sure, a bigger guy would probably be a better match from a guy's perspective due to what she's capable of fitting down there, but since we don't have problems we're happy. And if she does't mind being sore afterwards we can go the extra distance with the dongs and give her that extra special orgasm.

 

[deleted136887]

You guys who are like 7.5" and up who are saying you're not large are wrong. While not huge you are NOT part of the "average/small". Take a look here for an idea of what the average/small look like. LPSG/porn is not what you should base your opinion of what big is in the real world...

That is a serious reality check.Shocking!