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    phoenix_blue90 New Member

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    i noticed that there are a lot of open-minded men on this site. i'm not sure what the number is for actual active members, but from what i gather there are many from all walks of life. i'm not going to bore you with a spiel so i'll get right into the point of this thread.

    now, i definitely believe there are men here who are definitely and without a doubt attracted to women, but i don't think any male here is 100% straight. that's just my take on it. i think for the most part everyone here is bisexual in degrees.

    the point--what i notice is, for the most part - despite preferences(and many personalities), everyone seems to get along just fine. why can't this translate into the real world? why can't we be more accepting and loving and understanding of one another in the presence of others?


    it's late, i'm kinda bored and i had this on my mind lol....
     
  2. ManlyBanisters

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    Off the top of my head I can think of at least 10 men who post here who are 100% straight. And that's just the ones I know.

    It is entirely possible for a man to be 100% straight and not only tolerant but also supportive of gay and bisexual men, you know.

    People can be 100% straight, people can be 100% gay. And it's not your place to tell them they are wrong about that.

    As for the 'everyone getting along' thing - well, that just goes to show you really haven't been here that long and you have read the etc. forum in the last 24 hours. :wink:
     
  3. phoenix_blue90

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    where exactly did i say they were wrong? i specifically said 'that's my take on it'.

    no, i don't believe they are 100% straight.
     
  4. ManlyBanisters

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    There ^^ - that right there is where you said they were wrong.

    They are 100% straight - they believe they are, they act like they are, they are.

    Who exactly are you to decide other people's sexuality for them?
     
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    I see your point and agree with you. I honestly think that everyone has a little bisexual in them. And yes there are different degrees to which someone may be bisexual but the fact is it is still there. They may not wear their bisexuality for everyone to see but I do think it's there.

     
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    I get what the OP is saying and I 100% agree. The men that claim to be 100% "straight" here is only a claim based on their perception of themselves. Everyone here either is a voyeur or an exhibitionist with varying degrees toward either side. If a guy is going to post a self pic on here, he has to be cool with knowing other guys of varying sexual orientations are going to have access to those pics. A truly straight guy could never be comfortable with that. Those men can prefer to only have sex with women but the fact that those guys might be getting off on the fact that other men are looking at their pics is a gay leaning tendency... I don't care how you justify it. Being open minded plays a role for sure but it's not the entire story. These guys want other guys to see their pics even if they have ZERO intention of ever meeting up with, PMing with, or "experimenting" with other men when it comes to sex. Fantasy is just as big a part of a person's sexuality as the physical aspects and preferences are.
     
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    I have never read so much drivel in all my life, and ManlyBanisters is absolutely correct when she says that there are a lot of men around here who are 100% straight and only interested in having sex with women. There are a lot of women here who have seen the other side and realise that size matters, and it's good to be a part of that scene, rather than making excuses like we would have to do on other sex forums. Making excuses because we'll upset some guy who's average-sized.

    The other side of this forum is that sexual technique by bigger men is different, and we have more options available to us as well. I have learned a few things which have improved my sex life, much to my wife's enjoyment.
     
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    At least, indeed. It's tempting for people to assume that any guy here needs must include a bi- percentage, but there are a good number who are undeniably, unequivocally and happily straight. More power to heterogeneity, I say. :wink:
     
  9. vergax

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    I totally disagree with the OP.
    A man or a woman can be 100% straight and still respect and tolerate people of various different preferences when coming to sexual life.

    On my personal case, I even dislike thinking of 2 men having sex or seeing their pics here sucking cock or the like, whenever i go to the gallery, there is a millisecond when I have already hitted the "Women" button.

    In real life, I am supportive of any person i get to know and like, no matter their orientation, even though it is a struggle for me, because with gay friends, it is difficult not to think they might get attracted to me.

    Men are horny most of the time and that makes me uncomfortable, still, I am friend with whomever I get along, with the character, not with their sexual orientation and I make sure they hold no phantasies with me turning just a little bi for them, NO WAY, a 100% straight person is not only possible, it is the most common orientation.
     
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    A homophobe wouldn't be comfortable with that, certainly. But you're making the mistake in thinking that to be truly straight you'd have to be uncomfortable or weirded out about gay male sexuality. One can have actually had homosexual sex and be 100% straight. I happen to think that having tried it and not finding any interest in it such a person would have a very good grasp of what his orientation is.

    Besides which, even if a straight guy wasn't perfectly comfortable with the idea that some men were getting off on his pics he might feel that the female attention he received was a worthwhile trade off.


    Is it a gay leaning tendency to want to be admired by other guys for one's sports prowess? No.
    Is it a gay leaning tendency to want to be admired by other guys for one's intelligence? No.
    Is it a gay leaning tendency to want to be admired by other guys for one's financial prosperity? No.
    Is it a gay leaning tendency to want to be admired by other guys for one's success with women? No.

    A big dick is just another "Alpha" feature that guys, gay or straight, enjoy being recognized for having.

    Having pics on this site doesn't make a straight guy any less straight.
     
  11. B_thickjohnny

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    I have a different take on this.

    I think we were all created bisexual but to varying degrees. There is no 100% straight or 100% gay and the reason is simple. If we were (100% this or that), there would no attraction to people of the same sex. We have to have that attraction in order to have our friends, the guys we play ball with or the girls we do manis and pedis with :tongue: and what about our BEST friends? Ever met someone and immediately liked or disliked the person? Ever met someone and just wanted to be friends with them? I think that's the bisexual nature we're born with for a purpose.
     
  12. Wish-4-8

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    So I have to be Bi to get along with people and be understanding?

    I get so tired of this shit! I am here , so I must be Bi in some part? THAT IS BULLSHIT!

    If anything, this site has made me more straight. Yes I look at pics of dicks. I dont get aroused by them. Its like looking at cars. And guys tend to always compare.

    I am anonymous on this site. I have nothing to lose or gain by being honest or lying. If I were Bi, in anyway, I would just say it. But I am not. Im not even curious.

    So I dont give a shit what you believe, because you already made up your mind. Its ironic that your post is about understanding people, and yet, you cant believe that someone can be 100% straight.

    I sense this is a troll thread.
     
  13. vergax

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    thickjohnny,
    you are lost, because you are effectively confusing sexual preference to human race compatibility...***rolls eyes***
     
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    If somebody says he/she is 100% straight, then why say they are anything else?
     
  15. Truck

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    I don't think we all get along fine here. The internet vs. real life is a HUGE contrast. people here are able to think a response here and while making a response, have more time to reflect than normal, which more often than not makes them not post their opinions in fear of offending anyone. The same can happen in the opposite way, but this forum's purpose makes it odd and awkward to be that person.
     
  16. the_reverend

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    i agree. i think in real life, there are very few people who are COMPLETELY straight or gay or even split right down the middle bi. sexuality is far more fluid than numbers and percentages. and we only have our personal frames of reference to go from, and it's more socially expedient to have a quick "label" to slap on our orientation. so it's EASIER to identify as purely gay or straight or middle of the road bi when that may not, in fact, be the case. i think the vast majority of people are slightly bi to some extent...but in many cases, it's close enough to "100%" as to be negligible. so if someone tells me they're "100%" one way or another, i'm not going to argue the point with them because that's how they've chosen to identify themselves...i'm just not going to fully believe them either, at least not 100%. ;)
     
  17. Maxime_

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    I TOTALLY AGREE WITH WHAT YOU WROTE! Being attracted/voyeur to men's cocks is a slight(even minimum) bisexual tendency....and i havent' met any man who is not at least voyeur,in my life. We are madelike this....we like comparing and watching other guys' cocks. It is normal and our nature as males. Moreover, if i found a site named: "tight pussy support group" i would NEVER get a registration there,cuz i am not interested in watching or meeting tight pussies. If i am on a site about big cocks,it means i like watching cocks and showing mine....so it means i am attracted to cocks by definition. Let's not be fake with ourselves! if one wants to show off and find a girl to fuck,there are many other communities out there! let's be honest!;-)
     
  18. nicettech

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    Well if your a man and you watch porn and you have a prefference on what the man looks like that is fucking the girl then I guess in essence by your definition of bisexuality then everyone on here is bisexual. I do not agree with that point of view but everyone has their own opinion. I personally do not have any desire to have sex with another man, but I do enjoy watching a man with a large penis have sex with a woman always have always will. I know the way women have reacted when they experienced my penis and find it really hot. I think that the desire to see this is not merely sexual. I think it is a dominance thing. There is power and pride tied to the penis, and the prowess that comes with that is something that carries over in our society on many different levels. The biggest gun, sharpest knife, plushest home, nicest car, biggest truck, biggest bomb or missle........you get my point. To appreciate the astethics of another human is not the same as having sexual desire towards them. Just as having sexual attraction towards someone does not negate a true desire for another person's companionship. I am not bisexual I do not fantasize about other men, and I do not get aroused at the site of a large penis or well developed physique. It has been shown time and time again that physical attraction does play into our platonic relationships. My friends tend to be very similar to me. I am an avid weightlifter and have competed since I was 15 I am friends with people who are bodybuilders, weightlifters, fighters, and collegiate athletes. My two bestfriends excluding my wife are unique physical specimens. Joe is 6'5" tall 300lbs was a college basketball player and fights in MMA Brian is 5'7" 225lbs and he only has 6% bodyfat he is a bodybuilder. I am 5'5" tall I weigh 195lbs I stay at 10% bodyfat.
     
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    I think some people are just straight.

    There's at least one fallacy. There seems to be an assumption that everyone who uses the site looks at the photos of other people's penises. I doubt that's true. There's a lot of practical advice about hetero sex and relationships on this site in addition to lots of photos of penises.
     
  20. Wish-4-8

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    I think it is ignorant how people use their own expereinces on this site to then make a case for everyone else's sexuality.

    And to The Reverend: if you are sooo honest with yourself, why dont you change your percentages on you sexual orientation?
     
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