Menstruation and libido

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  1. modulo

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    I've been told by several women that their libidos were very strong during menstruation. Do any women here experience this phenomenon and how do you deal with it considering the circumstances?
     
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    My period lasts for 3 days. I am usually horny during the whole 3 days. Normally I am not very heavy until the second day, and very horny by then as well. :)
    Sex during that time is usually very hard and fast and normally in the shower so it isn't as messy as it could be. I have a few lovers and normally find someone to accommodate me, :)
     
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    Well mine last for 5 days and I am very horny during the whole time. I found sex relieves cramps for me. I also love it hard and fast during this time. If I do it in a bed towels and showers and more sex ...lol
     
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    My libido skyrockets a few days before and the first day or two during my cycle. :flirt:
     
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    The week before....OMG!
     
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    Well, for the week before I'm due I am a rabid sex bunny, for the week during I'm a rabid sex bunny, am for two weeks after I'm a rabid sex bunny......and these are the only times of the month that I'm horny.
     
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    Just before and after. I basically dont need a calender because when im hornier then usual im due. Also during ovulation :redface:
     
  8. whatireallywant

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    This describes me as well. :biggrin1:

    I do let a guy know if I'm on my cycle, especially if it's a guy I've just started being with. Let him decide whether to go ahead or not (some guys don't like it, but others don't mind). I have no problem having sex during, I just make sure to put a towel under me or something.
     
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    The week before my period I am uber-horny. Once my period starts I have such horrific cramps I often take percoset just to dull the pain. Sex is the last thing on my mind. During ovulation I may not be hornier; but I am more likely to have multiple orgasms.
     
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    I am ridiculously horny days before and the first few days of my period.

    I have always had regularity issues and, in my life, I have never had monthly periods. Except for the past twelve months.
    It is so bad and I am not used to it. There has been many years of my life where I would only have two periods a year. This year, at thirty four, is the only year where I am monthly and I DON'T LIKE IT! I dislike it so much I have an appt with my dr to see about a hysterectomy.

    I have been blessed with not having my period, truly blessed as it sucks!
    I am NOT going to have my period every damn month until I hit menopause. There is no way.

    Seriously, I have no idea how a "normal" woman deals with having her cycle every month.
     
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    This echoes my experience with just about every girl I've ever known...it was a very pleasant discovery to make as a young man. At least for a short time, their appetite for sex approached my own... :wink:



    Women like you make me want to reconsider my absence of faith, doll. :wink:
     
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    Right before and the first couple days I'm incredibly horny. It's never been a problem for me or my partners to make some accomodations for the presence of menstrual fluid, be it a little or a lot.
     
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    I'm usually very excitable anyways, but when it's a couple of days before I am due, it gets outta control!
    hard & fast sex sometimes doesn't even satisfy me!

    I am pretty lucky though, never get pms or cramps and it generally lasts for 2 to 3 days... doesn't really inconvenience me that much and my buddy is always glad to help out :tongue:
     
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