Mental issues

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    8inchpecker: Ok, I am new here but i was hoping you all could help. I am 18 years old with 8.25"x5.2" penis. I have always been told by girls that my penis is "huge" but I've never agreed. In sex, my gf sometimes complains that it hurts and I even have to use large condoms. However, i feel like i am no where near my ideal size. I just want more, i feel so small when I look at it. Am i sick? Do i have more growing time? Do you all consider me big?
     
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    jackinman: What's up 8inchpecker, welcome to the group, The answer to your questions are, no you are not sick. Its very common for you to think that. Yes you're considered big since the average size is about 6".

    do you have more growing time.....well this topic has been answered here many many many times. My advice to you is go to the "Making it Bigger" thread on the main page, click on there and then just scoll around and you should find alot of answers regarding that subject.
     
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    8inchpecker: Thanks so much Jackinman!
     
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    Guys are going to going to believe what they're going to believe. Girls tell you you're huge: CLUE! Your gf complains that it sometimes hurts: CLUE! You have to wear large condoms: CLUE! Less than 1% of men have penes that exceed 8": CLUE! Have you ever seen another dude in the flesh with a hard-on and noticed that yours is considerably bigger? That, too, would be a CLUE! Take it from someone who has seen plenty of cocks ... yours is big. Not mammoth or gargantuan, maybe; but certainly big.
    And you're 18? Well, sorry to be the one to break it to you, but your penile growth is probably done. You may be in that elusive 10% that continues to grow in the crotch department after the age of 16 ... somehow, they seem to congregate here ... but odds are against it. But even if you don't grow another centimetre, your dick is still bigger than 90% of the male population of the world. Is that so bad?
     
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    Ineligible: You're not at all the only person who thinks that way, 8inchpecker. Several people have posted similar thoughts here, and I think it's very common, perhaps the norm for male humanity. I don't know why it is, but it's almost as if it's hard-wired into at least some of us to feel inadequate in the trouser department no matter what we have.

    You can see from logic that you are big, but this isn't a matter of logic. It's a cross many of us just have to bear, I think.
     
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    bustyredhead: Y'know, this sounds a little bit like how we girls are with body image. Just learn to like what you've got, and it'll 'grow' to be what you like. ;)

    - Nene (Hormones Have No Master)

    P.S.: Huge? Not quite... Big enough? Heck yeah! :D
     
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    H8Monga: [quote author=bustyredhead link=board=meetgreet;num=1056663254;start=0#5 date=06/26/03 at 19:34:26]Y'know, this sounds a little bit like how we girls are with body image. [/quote]

    Busty, I have some cookies for you! :-*
     
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    bustyredhead: Am I too thin? Or are you just trying to trap me? lol

    - Nene (Smarter Than Your Average Yogi Berra)
     
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    HC: This topic reminds me of an online friend who was worried that he's too small and his new (first) girlfriend wouldn't be satisfied. He hadn't measured previously, but when he did, it came out to be 8 1/2 inches. So as you can see, it's all in your own perception. Because you're so accustomed to what you have, your view can sometimes be skewed.

    Here's a little trick you might want to try if your size really bothers you. Since you're normally only able to look at it from one angle (looking down), try a side view in a mirror. It really changes the perception, as you can now look at it from the viewpoint of another. I can almost guarantee it will appear bigger.
     
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    H8Monga: Well... optical illusions... I think I look good in a mirror (three years ago that helped for a moment), but I'm not fooling myself. But it certainly does offer a different view and better than looking down.
     
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    gigantikok: Nice suggestion IcedInferno, but I think most of the guys in this group have looked at themselves naked in the mirror at least once in their lives. It's not that uncommon of a thing to do. :)
     
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    H8Monga: Why use just a mirror? Go hi-tech! Use a webcam or digital cam and make a movie!
     
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    gigantikok: ever filmed yourself jerking off? It's kinda wierd to watch at first! :)
     
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    HC: The RAM delay on my extremely whack computer makes it look even more weird. At a medium pace (great Adam Sandler song, btw) of repetitions, it looks like my hand never actually moves from its original spot.
     
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    H8Monga: The first time, I was amazed... the second one I was only amazed I actually shot. Shame I lost both.
     
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    TragicWhiteKnight: [quote author=8inchpecker link=board=meetgreet;num=1056663254;start=0#0 date=06/26/03 at 14:25:14]Ok, I am new here but i was hoping you all could help. I am 18 years old with 8.25"x5.2" penis. I have always been told by girls that my penis is "huge" but I've never agreed. In sex, my gf sometimes complains that it hurts and I even have to use large condoms. However, i feel like i am no where near my ideal size. I just want more, i feel so small when I look at it. Am i sick? Do i have more growing time? Do you all consider me big?[/quote]

    I have exactly the same problem. But without the girlfriend and the sex and the compliments (oh, I'm bitter and single). Despite being nearly 11" on a good day, I still don't always feel especially big. I'm sure it's partly through being young, partly through being straight (not had enough experience for real life comparison) - even if we know we're big, there's still a need for reassurance. At its worst, this can manifest itself as body dysmorphia; the male opposite to anorexia - wanting to get bigger and bigger. Don't fall into the trap...
     
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    H8Monga: [quote author=TragicWhiteKnight link=board=meetgreet;num=1056663254;start=0#15 date=06/28/03 at 12:45:18]

     At its worst, this can manifest itself as body dysmorphia; the male opposite to anorexia - wanting to get bigger and bigger.  Don't fall into the trap...[/quote]

    Oh... NOW you tell me... ::)
     
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    junk792: I'm not sure if 8inchpecker is still reading this thread (he hasn't responded to any of the later posts) but here goes:

    There is no way that 8.25"x5.2" can be considered "small" when compared to the average population. But I understand how it can seem small when you compare it to the HUGE cocks you see on the internet and especially here! Seems every erotic story has a 9-10-12-14 inch cock in it (I once read one with a 44-inch cock :eek: ). I'm about 1/2 inch smaller than you, and sometimes I feel small and sometimes big. But I try to keep in mind that
    its just a penis!
    In the grand scheme of things it doesn't matter if its big or huge or what.

    Now if you're really torn up about it and it makes you unhappy you might even consider talking to a therapist or something. It's embarassing to bring up but it could help.

    Anyway, that's my 2cents
     
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    H8Monga: junk, good offering... however, most in porn are about your size... that I've guaged... the numbers they say they have aren't true and may be part of a psychological thing that made you think it was so... and if it were just a penis, size queens would not exist...
     
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    gigantikok: [quote author=Chubby-Sexy link=board=meetgreet;num=1056663254;start=0#18 date=06/29/03 at 20:34:50]... and if it were just a penis, size queens would not exist...[/quote]

    Chubby, it is part of human nature for certain individuals to become obsessive about insignificant things sometimes. Not to say that size queens are obsessive, or that the penis is totally insignificant...but to draw the conclusion that penis size is ultra important simply because a certain section of the population have decided to prefer a larger size is crazy. That's like saying cheddar is the best kind of cheese simply because a certain amount of people perfer it most. I don't know what to say to you to get you over your hang ups with penis size, but you should know by now that you generally fall into the average... and an average penis is just a penis... just like an enormous penis is just a penis.
     
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