Mercy Sex

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Have you ever had sex with someone that you would consider "Mercy Sex"? If you aren't sure what mercy sex is, it's having sex with someone to "help them out" or because they can't get sex for one reason or another.

Recently, a female friend of mine had confided to me her husband hadn't had sex with her in almost 9 years and she was tired of masturbation. I joked that I would fuck her brains out to "help her out". Well, this lead to us talking about actually doing it and I did help her out. We had sex for about 3 hours and she had so many orgasms, she was unsure what was happening to her body. I mixed it up with oral, vaginal and fingering her ass (she had never had anal and I didn't want to go too far). She told me that she was used to guys only lasting a few minutes and was only able to orgasm through masturbation.

This isn't the first woman I've had mercy sex with. I've had ex girlfriends who would call me up for a quick fuck just to help them out. I've never felt bad about doing it, just thinking about if anyone has done it and if they felt bad about it (or good about it).
 

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How is having sex with a married friend "helping her out"?

You most likely just ruined your friendship in exchange for using her vagina for a few hours.

I guess congrats are in order!
 

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Yes Yes Yes and definitely YES! Seems very odd to have "mercy" sex, but sometime sya gotta do what ya gotta do. I've helped females out (broken hearts, work too much, friends with benefits, losing virginity) and some have done it for me (right place right time, not big enough but you can eat the fuck out of pussy so okay, we're here anyways and we've got all night so sure). Now granted, some were lies but I call them white lies. Everyone is happy and no one got hurt.
 
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The last two guys I had any sexual relationship with were straight guys who let me blow them but they had absolutely no interest in anything reciprocal.

I'm not sure if they were cases of mercy sex, or if I was just convenient. Maybe somewhere in between?
 

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:biggrin1::biggrin1::biggrin1::biggrin1::biggrin1: mercy SEX?.which reality TV show did you hear that one?:biggrin1::biggrin1::biggrin1:sheesh..:rolleyes:
 

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The last two guys I had any sexual relationship with were straight guys who let me blow them but they had absolutely no interest in anything reciprocal.

I'm not sure if they were cases of mercy sex, or if I was just convenient. Maybe somewhere in between?

I'm thinking it was THEIR lucky day friend
 

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Yes, one time many years ago... it was very stupid of me and in fact I told the person that I'm not sure if I'm not ill so to not let it go for real. Ended on a b/j and I disliked the fact how that person treated me - my attitude was a bit romantic and high, and I was meant to serve as an all-time running vibrator when there's no boyfriend around. I quit and said some very unpleasant words as farewell :)
 

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I haven't and wouldn't. No judgment towards anyone who has or enjoys the idea.. I just wouldn't do that and would never want to be mercy-fucked by anyone.

I'm wondering why her husband wasn't giving her what she needed, and if she was communicating to him that it was a problem?