I'm in the middle of a few other things that will keep me away from sex I figure for a couple years (I do not want to get into specifics here, sorry). Now, about a week ago I also started exercising (after 2 or 3 years without) ... so I figure if I'm perfecting the rest of my body, why not make the little guy perfect too? Many here have seen my gallery, read my posts... I'm not looking to get any thicker and I'm indifferent to 'erect length gains', but the thing is I'm between 3 to 4 inches soft, easily less on occasion. I'd like to hang as big as I feel when I'm hard, I admit it. I recently became aware of 'Thunder's Place', and while I'd like to ask this there, the site seems to be perpetually locked at 64,000 members (not to mention that I find the site to be very difficult to navigate), so I'll ask here instead: How many options are there out there to increase the flaccid length of your penis? Which is the best - I heard references in another thread here that said 'stretching' was better than 'jelqing', is there a difference? (Are there any that have been proven for that matter?) The 'Making it Bigger' forum here doesn't seem to have much, so any responses would be great.