MFM or MMF?
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But you're normally so liberated!
I might be missing something here, but couldn't you all do a FFMM, or a FMMF, or a FMFM? Oh now I'm getting confused.
If he's never done it, you should do a FFM with him, with someone you can pick that would meet your criteria of being a little less threatening in your mind.
You could also say Ok you'll do it - a month after the wedding!:wink:
It's a bit early in your relationship for all this.
Stop turning each other on so much! You've gotta hold something back for the future, I'd hate to see you bored with each other - you know how it can go!:smile:
LOL! I'm also possessive. I think he's the bees knees.
He's mine! MINE! Back off! Grrrrrrr!
I may be liberated, but I'm also not a fool.
It may be hard for you to believe, but we've really just touched the tip of the iceberg, compared to the experiences of the other ladies here on LPSG. We have a long way to go!
He's never had a threesome and I've only had one. The thing is, intellectually I know that he's devoted and that he loves me and he wants to spend the rest of his life with me, but emotionally, the idea of seeing him with another woman makes me feel homicidal. My brain is not in control of that emotion. That may change in the future and I've told him that I'm leaving the door open to discuss it later on.
LOL! I'm also possessive. I think he's the bees knees.
He's mine! MINE! Back off! Grrrrrrr!
I may be liberated, but I'm also not a fool.
It may be hard for you to believe, but we've really just touched the tip of the iceberg, compared to the experiences of the other ladies here on LPSG. We have a long way to go!
He's never had a threesome and I've only had one. The thing is, intellectually I know that he's devoted and that he loves me and he wants to spend the rest of his life with me, but emotionally, the idea of seeing him with another woman makes me feel homicidal. My brain is not in control of that emotion. That may change in the future and I've told him that I'm leaving the door open to discuss it later on.
AAAAAAAAHHHH
That's a maybe!
And as any child knows - when a woman says maybe...
She means NO!:smile:
Like I said - after the wedding, or after an iceberg sized diamond ring - well, then he'll have proved his honorable intentions:wink:
I really do mean maybe!
He isn't pushing for it at all, and he even seems to be flattered that I feel possessive of him. Odd for a man who trusts me so much and is so assured of my devotion to him that he doesn't feel any jealousy, but one's emotions don't always make logical sense, do they?
B_willy5904
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I can not agree more with MPLSingleGuy. My wife and I are swingers and have groupsex frequently. We share our bed with 1 or more partners several times a week. It would be a real downer if one of the guys was concerned that he might touch my cock; damn he better be touching my cock. We are fortunate that all the guys and gals we swing with are bisexual. I do not think I could share my bed with someone that was not bisexual.
I agree that MFM implies that the men are just servicing the lady in that scenario. I find that MMF or FFM is much more enjoyable. If one of the partners is so insecure about their sexuality that they can't enjoy sex with all the partners in the bed what is the point?
As I like to say, enjoy the moment, enjoy your partners, and enjoy the sex.:smileysex5:
Exactly! The person's insecurity will ruin the whole mood. It only takes one person's attitude to ruin a great group sex moment for everyone.
The descriptions sound fairly accurate, as far as the differentiation between MMF & MFM. I've been in a couple of FFM, and had one attempted MFM. However, both guys were very insecure, and it didn't end up happening. Neither of them could get it up, even with having another male around at all, much less touching my body at the same time. *sigh*
HiddenLacey
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yep... MFM is where the two guys are normally straight and the girls in the middle... and the MMF is two bi guys or atleast one bi guy and a girl. The letter in the middle is the center of the sandwich
yep... MFM is where the two guys are normally straight and the girls in the middle... and the MMF is two bi guys or atleast one bi guy and a girl. The letter in the middle is the center of the sandwich
How do you write it if everyone gets to be in the center at some point? That would be ideal to me.
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Yeah, I like the fantasy, but it will never happen, at least not with a big one, because it would never fit in my ass. :smile2:
I don't think you can write a MMF so that everyone has a chance to be the center of attention.
Ironically, in my situation, many of our threesomes have 2 people in the middle and 1 person on the outside. No kidding! Both of my long-term partners like threesomes where they get lots of face to face intimacy, and I have a more peripheral role. They lie down as if they were in missionary position so they can kiss. From there, if I enter the bottom one, then I am in a missionary position with her, and if I pull out and enter my other partner, I am in doggy-style with her. I can push in deep, bend over in the doggy position, and that lets me have a 3-way kiss with each one. In these threesomes, the women are at the center of each other's attention and of mine - and I am pleasuring them. I write out these threesomes as FFM since the two women come first.
Then there are threesomes where I lay back and both women are on top - one riding my cock and the other riding my face. Then they switch. Who says a man can't service 2 masters? That's another FFm threesome.
Sometimes I turn around the situation so I am the center of attention and they pleasure me. But I if I wrote out that 3-some as FMF it makes it look as if I am with 2 hetero women that don't interact sexually. So I write it out as Mff to indicate I'm the top, and the women are bottoms.
