B_willy5904
Sexy Member
My experience in this area comes from my wife and I swinging since we first me in college. We have been sharing our bed and each other with the same small group of couples for many years. We have many friends that join us on when the come visit on vacation and swing with our group.
This has been a very successful lifestyle for us because it is not based on sex. The success in this area is based on the fact that we have very deep personal relationships with our lovers. We are all bi, the men and women, and freely share sex with everyone in our group. Don't get me wrong, the sex is great, but our relationship extends beyond sex. We spend a tremendous amount of time together. We share our entire lives with these couples.
I frequently read about couples that have the same issue as the OP has. My feeling is that if the act of swinging is simply a sexual act it is bound to end in failure. Just as if your monogamous relationship is based primarily on sex it eventually fail.
If you want to successfully swing with your partner for the long term develop a deep meaningful relationship with your additional partner, or preferable couple. Of course you first need to have a deep meaningful relationship with your original partner, before you add additional partners to your bed.
This has been a very successful lifestyle for us because it is not based on sex. The success in this area is based on the fact that we have very deep personal relationships with our lovers. We are all bi, the men and women, and freely share sex with everyone in our group. Don't get me wrong, the sex is great, but our relationship extends beyond sex. We spend a tremendous amount of time together. We share our entire lives with these couples.
I frequently read about couples that have the same issue as the OP has. My feeling is that if the act of swinging is simply a sexual act it is bound to end in failure. Just as if your monogamous relationship is based primarily on sex it eventually fail.
If you want to successfully swing with your partner for the long term develop a deep meaningful relationship with your additional partner, or preferable couple. Of course you first need to have a deep meaningful relationship with your original partner, before you add additional partners to your bed.
