Everything you said here is bullshit lmao. It's very well-known trans people don't like being asked about their genitals. There's an entire damn movement where the point is that it's nobody else's business. The trans women you say you "constantly see" being proud of having a penis more than likely are either sex workers or somehow benefit from their penises. They do not represent the majority of trans people as a lot of trans people have issues with their physical bodies.
Gays asking other gays if they're a top or bottom isn't a big deal in certain situations because we as gay man have decided it's not a big deal. That is in no way the same as asking a trans person about their genitals.
You're wrong, the trans women I referred to are far from being "sex workers", in fact most of them are digital influencers, they have a non-sexual job and there are even those who are involved with politics.
(A search with the words "woman with penis" and "female penis" on twitter and you would already find it)
I've seen a lot of gay men/bis bothering with this "top or bottom" question, and look at you treating it like "not a big deal"
Apparently, signaling virtue is more important than not being hypocritical...
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