WOW, can you even call it a dick? Looks like an oversized clitoris if you ask me?!!! ** shrugs**
That is the penis he was born with and there is nothing he can do about it so for all those with the cruel remarks should remember we all have short comings. How would u feel if someeone made not so nice remarks about your imperfections.
Oh for petes sakes, spare me the pitty.
Let's hope he goes into cuckolding, at least a woman will love him for his small penis and remind him every single day how much she is satisfied by a large dick.:biggrin1: :biggrin1: :biggrin1:
You know, I so don't want to get into this. But I can't not say anything because I don't think Onslow was far off the mark in criticizing deb for the remarks above. If deb really is a wonderful, educated, beautiful person outside of this website, I wouldn't be surprised. I'm actually of the mind that since burns1de has met and and likes her very much, she may well come off in a more positive way in real life than she does on this site. I hope that she does. I can be a complete bitch on this site for various reasons and I hope that the sum of my personality is more than what I show here. So, I give deb
as a person the benefit of the doubts.
I still don't have to like the way she presents herself here.
It's one thing to have a preference for size, it's another to be cruel to someone because of it. I am extremely sensitive to this kind of thing, especially as it relates to what deb wrote in the above post, for a very good reason that I think I've posted about here before. My husband was born with a birth defect called hypospadias. You can look it up. His was pretty severe so he spent most of the summers of his childhood getting his penis reconstructed. The surgeons did a good job, but he was still left with a lot of scarring and some residual damage, and the problem was never 100% corrected. His penis is perfectly functional sexually and reproductively, but it doesn't look "normal." Because of that, he's has women walk out on him in bed, tell him he was disgusting, laugh at him, etc. He spent a good portion of his childhood and adult life thinking he was a monster. I wonder if deb has ever seen a grown man who is far from having the perfect 9X6 cock cry because he thought no woman would ever love him because his penis was fucked up. I got lucky with my husband because if it weren't for his penis and the shame he felt because of it, he probably would have been taken already when I met him-- he's educated, smart, funny, kind, and successful. He is one of the most incredible people I've ever met. So when I see deb make comments like the above, I want to smack her because it's not just the guys she's commenting on that are reading her posts. It's also the average and less than average guys that never post a thing that may be walking away feeling even more inadequate after reading bullshit like the abovementioned post. It's no wonder men with perfectly normal, average penises feel inadequate.
I wonder if she realizes that the men she's being rude and mean to are REAL PEOPLE and for whatever reason come on here and want validation because they are scared to get it in real life.
I don't care if a woman is a sizequeen. If that's one of her priorities in finding a mate, that's better for me, really, because I might just like on of her small-dicked castoffs. However, there are a lot of women here who are sizequeens that manage to not systematically jeer at every penis that's not up to her standards. And that's my problem with her-- not that she's a sizequeen, but that she's unnecessarily cruel in her posts.
I've got a few examples here:
http://www.lpsg.org/sex-with-a-large-penis/51154-its-not-size-its-motion-2.html#post843411
http://www.lpsg.org/relationships-d...nline-dating-small-one-what-3.html#post798942
This one was aimed at the ladies:
http://www.lpsg.org/women-s-issues/40295-ladies-your-thoughts-on-3.html#post662462
I also have seen posts where she claims to only have dated men with 12.5 X 7 and up, then says her biggest was 11, then says she couldn't imagine taking 11 inches, and then says her largest was 11 inches again. Pick a story and stick with it, ffs.
Before you go and do it, I realize you can probably get a bunch of my posts that are pretty damning. I'm not saying I'm any better than deb at being polite and kind. I am saying that her particular way of dealing with things on this board upset me as well as they upset Onslow. So to rip him apart for speaking his mind isn't really fair. He's not making something up out of thin air and I don't think he should feel a need to be silent.
If deb's a great person, wonderful. If I met her anywhere but here I may well have liked her very much. But I take issue with the way she presents herself her for my own reasons as I've stated above. I think we should extend that right to take issue with her to Onslow as well.
