You know, I so don't want to get into this. But I can't not say anything because I don't think Onslow was far off the mark in criticizing deb for the remarks above. If deb really is a wonderful, educated, beautiful person outside of this website, I wouldn't be surprised. I'm actually of the mind that since burns1de has met and and likes her very much, she may well come off in a more positive way in real life than she does on this site. I hope that she does. I can be a complete bitch on this site for various reasons and I hope that the sum of my personality is more than what I show here. So, I give deb
as a person the benefit of the doubts.
I still don't have to like the way she presents herself here.
It's one thing to have a preference for size, it's another to be cruel to someone because of it. I am extremely sensitive to this kind of thing, especially as it relates to what deb wrote in the above post, for a very good reason that I think I've posted about here before. My husband was born with a birth defect called hypospadias. You can look it up. His was pretty severe so he spent most of the summers of his childhood getting his penis reconstructed. The surgeons did a good job, but he was still left with a lot of scarring and some residual damage, and the problem was never 100% corrected. His penis is perfectly functional sexually and reproductively, but it doesn't look "normal." Because of that, he's has women walk out on him in bed, tell him he was disgusting, laugh at him, etc. He spent a good portion of his childhood and adult life thinking he was a monster. I wonder if deb has ever seen a grown man who is far from having the perfect 9X6 cock cry because he thought no woman would ever love him because his penis was fucked up. I got lucky with my husband because if it weren't for his penis and the shame he felt because of it, he probably would have been taken already when I met him-- he's educated, smart, funny, kind, and successful. He is one of the most incredible people I've ever met. So when I see deb make comments like the above, I want to smack her because it's not just the guys she's commenting on that are reading her posts. It's also the average and less than average guys that never post a thing that may be walking away feeling even more inadequate after reading bullshit like the abovementioned post. It's no wonder men with perfectly normal, average penises feel inadequate.
I wonder if she realizes that the men she's being rude and mean to are REAL PEOPLE and for whatever reason come on here and want validation because they are scared to get it in real life.
It's been stated time and time again, in fact whole threads have been started about it, that a Large Penis Support Group is a poor venue for someone who has a small penis to seek validation. Whats more, nearly every woman who posts often has voiced at one time or another how fed up they are with the SPH requests they recieve. This thread is about the micro penis as a concept rather than any one person's micro penis in particular. I'm not surprised Diamond made a joke about cuckolding, I'm surprised no one made it sooner.
I don't care if a woman is a sizequeen. If that's one of her priorities in finding a mate, that's better for me, really, because I might just like on of her small-dicked castoffs. However, there are a lot of women here who are sizequeens that manage to not systematically jeer at every penis that's not up to her standards. And that's my problem with her-- not that she's a sizequeen, but that she's unnecessarily cruel in her posts.
I've got a few examples here:
Just happened to have those in your pocket?
http://www.lpsg.org/sex-with-a-large-penis/51154-its-not-size-its-motion-2.html#post843411
Cruel to whom? I went looking for the poor soul with the 5" she destroyed the feelings of only to discover that the 5" was just a random number thrown out by another woman as being less than satisfactory.
The guy on the date? I don't recall reading that she laughed at him or put him down. There are loads of ways to end a date that's gotten that far quickly. "You didn't bring a condom either? I guess it's not going to happen." If this is the assumption of cruelty it is purely that,assumption.
For entertainment value scroll two posts down. There's Onslow with another helpful link, leading to even more helpful links in his quoted post. If you check the dates of the original posts being held up for scrutiny her reason for the numbers changing is perfectly credible.
Yikes! In May 2007 he dug up a post from May 2006. That's some serious axe grinding.
http://www.lpsg.org/relationships-d...nline-dating-small-one-what-3.html#post798942
K, in this post she comments on a pic not belonging to someone on the site, no, wait, turns out it did. Someone pretending not to be the owner of the cock in question so he can get third person humiliation. I doubt he was hurt, he was probably delighted. As far as the comment itself goes I think a woman who has plainly stated that she will accept no less than 9x6 saying that she wouldn't fuck a guy smaller than that is about as offensive as a guy who has stated plainly that he is 100% straight saying that he wouldn't fuck another guy (no matter how nice he is).
This one was aimed at the ladies:
http://www.lpsg.org/women-s-issues/40295-ladies-your-thoughts-on-3.html#post662462
I think a comparison of SUVs to midsize cars would have been more appropriate since speed and cornering haven't much to do with breasts. Either way she's saying that her breasts are more joy than hassle for her and she wouldn't want them smaller. My headlights are average size, so yeah, I resent that it means many men will be blinded by her fog lamps. However, I can't see myself digging up a seven month old post to complain that someone had the audacity to celebrate having a larger size of something that many happen to desire a larger size of on the Large Penis Support Group.
I wait patiently for your post linking to all the men on this site who have dared to voice that they wouldn't want a smaller penis. I understand how cruel that might be to smaller endowed men reading such posts.
Further entertainment from this link can be found by scrolling up two posts. Why, Snoozan, that's a post by you, quoting Diamond with yet another link, this to the "Bullshit Constant" thread. You're either implying by that that she's not really a woman or not as chesty as she states. She's both. Cope.
Is this the re-airing of a seven month old grudge? Should we expect to see it again in five months for another anniversary axe grind? This is the second time you've posted this link to smear this poster with. New pattern of abuse for you?
I also have seen posts where she claims to only have dated men with 12.5 X 7 and up, then says her biggest was 11, then says she couldn't imagine taking 11 inches, and then says her largest was 11 inches again. Pick a story and stick with it, ffs.
Whoops! This has nothing to do with insensitive posts. This is just unrelated bitchiness. I think your conscientious objector facade just cracked. If the numbers confuse you refer to your first link and the rest of Onslow's labyrinth.
Before you go and do it, I realize you can probably get a bunch of my posts that are pretty damning. I'm not saying I'm any better than deb at being polite and kind. I am saying that her particular way of dealing with things on this board upset me as well as they upset Onslow. So to rip him apart for speaking his mind isn't really fair. He's not making something up out of thin air and I don't think he should feel a need to be silent.
Not all women (or men) require 40 inch wangs the way you do deb. Even on this board, you will read from women and men who have been immensely satisfied by men who are smaller but at least know what to do with their penis. You continue to be an arrogant spiteful bitch with no real value~~one day you will be a withered old prune with nobody to touch you. It's too bad, that you will never know what real love and passion are, because you think everything revolves around the penis. Love doesn't work that way. It's too bad you haven't learned the joy of grinding sex or that there can be ways to bring pleasure that do not involve having a penis shoved into your gaping rotting twat.
Portion in red holds validity as a response to her post if you read her post to be serious. The rest of it is vicious flaming and frustrated hatred. Would you care to defend "gaping rotting twat" as merely a voiced opinion relevant to her post? Looks remarkable abusive to me.
If deb's a great person, wonderful. If I met her anywhere but here I may well have liked her very much. But I take issue with the way she presents herself her for my own reasons as I've stated above. I think we should extend that right to take issue with her to Onslow as well.
Will I look at their pics and give my honest opinion?
