Middle-age, unusually large, fortunately it still works

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  1. midlifebear

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    Howdy:

    I'm in my late 50's. Still in reasonably good shape. Last year caught prostate cancer very early and nipped it in the bud. I had brachytherapy (radiation therapy via tiny the insertion of tiny radioactive seeds in prostate around the tumors, tumors died and my prostate is fine), so I can still get it up. Although getting it up has never been easy, even when I was a teenager. I find the size of my tool more of a burden than anything else. All this talk about 13 inches being "big" seems a bit on the small side to me. Other men I've met with tools as large as mine -- much larger than 13" -- seem to have the same problem I have: getting a raging hard erection or keeping it hard. Then on those occasions when everything seems to be working fine, I attract people I don't find sexually attractive (size queens) and those I do find attractive are put off by the idea of having sex with me. It's been rare to find anyone to be a regular sexual companion who is interesting (I'm NOT necessarily into giant dicks).

    By the time I turned 30 I realized I really didn't like dealing with all the "extra" issues that came with having sex with women. So, I pretty much stick with men. I like women. I just haven't time for the drama. Just as I haven't time for the drama of size queens regardless of their sex.

    If any of this offends you, remember that the offense is your problem. Not mine. If any male members of this site understand what I'm talking about, great. It'd be nice to know some guys who are in my corner for a change.

    Good luck to all of you,

    Midlifebear
     
  2. QuiteOne

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    This thread is useless without pictures...
     
  3. midlifebear

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    Anyone who requires photos or just interested in seeing my dick is pretty useless to me.
     
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    Oooo, su-NAP!!! You tell 'em MLB


    (Although, to say 13" seems "small" is more than a bit far-fetched. :rolleyes:)
     
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    I have had difficulty as I get older for maintaining an erection as well...and I am only about 6.5 inches.

    Be happy that you beat the cancer.

    I have never been with a woman, so I can't help you with that either.

    But, no, I do not imagine you are alone.
     
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    Oops double post
     
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    Omg I love you! Congrats on your penis still functioning. I still maintain that when mine stops working (with viagra) I want to die.
     
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    @midlifebear - I've never had any issues getting it up, but I can definitely see how it could be a problem for someone your size. Have you tried the blue pill? (Viagara) Take care.
     
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    13" seems a bit on the small side?

    What do you consider big?

    Surely you must be joshing.....
     
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    Welcome!
    Looking forward to seeing your pics.
     
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    Congrats on beating cancer.

    I'm 52 and 11" erect. I've been pretty lucky so far and can still get very hard and recover quickly. I did have problems a few years ago and tried Viagra. It made a difference, but I had some side effects like headaches and a lethargic feeling the next day. I decided to step up my exercise routine (particularly lifting) and eat smarter and that made a big difference for me. I'm thinking that my testosterone levels must have kicked back up again because my "friend" is acting like he is 35 again.

    An old girlfirend of mine had also been with larger guys that were in their 40's and 50's. She said that they had problems getting a full erection.

    As far as how you live your life....as long as you are not hurting anyone lese, go for it.
     
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    Just because MLB does not have any photos in his thread does not make it anyway useless (sounds more like you're one off the size queens he mentions:tongue:). Glad your cancer is gone MLB:biggrin1:
     
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    I so totally sympathize with the OP. I've never had an erection in my life.











    Just kidding. Congrats on getting rid of the cancer.
     
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    Fine, you don't have put up pics or feel browbeaten into proving anything. But I'm intrigued as to the kind of world you live in, where 'big' seems to start at 13 inches and where you are tripping over (literally, I imagine) these immense tools on an almost daily basis. Most people go through their entire lives without even encountering a 10 incher. It sounds as if you live in SQ Heaven ... lots of us might like to migrate there.
     
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    No, he didn't say big starts at 13"....he said 13" seems small.
     
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    SMALL?!?! Well, as you've already said, what the hell is BIG then ?
     
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    Yikes, if 13 inches is small, then my average endowment must be downright "teensy-weensy"!
     
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    late fifties/post cancer is past middle age. the two together basically = knocking on heaven's door
     
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    dude, you will die soon
     
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    This is what is dumb about this site, too many liars. The largest penis ever medically documented was 13.5 inches ("Other men I've met with tools as large as mine -- much larger than 13") almost no one has one nearly that big. Its about 1 in 150,000 to get 9 inches.
     
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