midlife and a big penis

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I'am nearly 48 years old. I have a 7,5 maybe 8 incher, cut and thick. In Dutch 19 to 20 cm.
Even i have big balls.
For a few years i have had a periot of impotence. Lucky it works again.
Only the problem at the moment is that it takes a lot of time to get a complete hard erection. It swells quickly, but from half the penis until the top it takes 15 till 30 minutes.
My dokter told me when getting older and having a enourmous cock it is normal that the blod neets more time to come to the end.
I want to know from other 50'ers how it is by them.
 

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I'm 59 and only had a problem when I had to take an injection that stopped all of the production of testosterone in my body while the brachytherapy I had for prostate cancer had a chance to eradicate the disease. Once the drug wore off (six months) I was able to get as hard as I did when I was a teenager. And my cock is a lot longer than 22 cm. Are you taking any meds for hypertension or anxiety? They can cause some problems with getting it up. Also, the primary activity in the body that causes us to have hard long-lasting erections is dependent upon the body still producing enough testosterone that your libido functions normally and keeps you horny. When it comes down to it, 90% of sex really is in our heads with active imaginations. A reduction in testosterone will lower your libido, otherwise known as your sex drive and/or interest in sex. Go talk to a qualified urologist. An internist isn't remotely qualified to give you advice on this subject, except they ARE qualified to recommend a good urologist.

Oh, and high cholesterol and undiagnosed heart disease can also interfere with "getting it up."

Best of luck.
 

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After my doc started me on hypertension med my hardons were sometimes semi-hard. With my gf's tight pussy (she's petite and never had kids) and my relatively large penis (7.5 x 6.5) it was a chore getting it in. Now i I use 20mg of Levitra and it gets huge...stretching her open from thigh to thigh, applying pressure on her cervix when she wants it, and holding her up and fucking her while I'm standing. And we usually fuck for an hour or more. She says it's never felt good! Try Levitra or one of of its cousins.
 

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I'm 45 and once I hit 40 my erections started getting not quite so hard. Now it's to the point that my dick won't even get hard enough to penetrate (I'm primarily a bottom so this isn't that big an issue... but it still bothers me). My doctor can't find anything physically wrong with me, it's either just psychological or bad genetics. My dick will get rock hard, but it only lasts a minute or two... and then it gradually goes soft....even in the middle of sex. Viagra/Levitra/Cialis don't have any affect.

Hopefully you can find a solution. Have you tried any of the ED medications?
 

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I'm almost 57, and about 1/2 the time it works like it always did, and other times it takes awhile to get totally rock hard, I cum quickly, and go soft(of course). at over 6" in girth I have to be totally rock hard to penetrate my wife also.

get a good cadio program going, and do kegel exercises.
 

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I'm 45 and once I hit 40 my erections started getting not quite so hard. Now it's to the point that my dick won't even get hard enough to penetrate (I'm primarily a bottom so this isn't that big an issue... but it still bothers me). My doctor can't find anything physically wrong with me, it's either just psychological or bad genetics. My dick will get rock hard, but it only lasts a minute or two... and then it gradually goes soft....even in the middle of sex. Viagra/Levitra/Cialis don't have any affect.

Hopefully you can find a solution. Have you tried any of the ED medications?

Nothing excites me more than a well endowed bottom!