In the past, he would've lost his job. I remember many years ago there was a female cop who posed for Playboy magazine and a male cop who posed for Playgirl magazine. They both lost their jobs behind that. Nowadays, you have cops doing all kinds of freaky shit, but they still manage to keep their jobs. Go figure. The unions have gotten stronger I guess.
I feel just like you do though. You can be the most handsomest fella or most beautiful woman, but if you have an f'd up personality, it makes you ugly to me...and I lose interest. There was this really handsome guy I was crushing on in college, but after getting to know him, I found that he had the nastiest attitude. I stopped dealing with him. We look past the outer shell, while others do not.
Nothing wrong with that.