Milking the Penis with the Vagina

[B_crackoff]

You're lucky that she came around and that she's working in it!

Phew yes! I did mention the health issues too, but then she looked on the net, didn't want to risk a prolapse....

I have no desire to personally experience fisting, but I'm fascinated by seeing it.

I don't watch it, & I told her - this is way extreme; but it isn't about pumping away & causing pain!

Very surprisingly, it's very emotionally intimate - it's hard to explain - but even for a guy solely giving, you get a real bond, because you have to be that more careful, & aware of responses, & for the women, you're having to have a lot of trust, yet be so turned on.

In a way, it's more of a unifying experience than the vagina/penis penetration, because if you're giving, you're so aware that you are literally attached(!), & aren't lost in yielding to your own sexual needs.

I think Fisting is a poor name - Deep fingering perhaps?

You should try it (unless it hurts), but obviously when women have popped out a child or too, it's meant to be easier.

It sounds like she might be lucky to have found you, too!

Aw shucks - One day at a time, one day at a time!

 

[RawDog]

I've started a companion thread to this one...

http://www.lpsg.org/177637-massaging-the-vagina-with-penis.html#post2687790

I doubt it'll have the same following as this thread, but I thought I'd mention it here.

 

[4herplsr]

Never experienced milking. Have had really strong vaginas that clamped down hard at orgasm. Both times they had not had children through their vajayjays.

 

[TheRob]

I'll say not nearly enough women do : p

 

[thickcock82mn]

my current girl friend knows how to do this and it drives me crazy..she literally milks me when im cumming starting at my tip and works the shaft squeezing every drop of cum out of me.

 

[8X5SCOT]

I agree with rebear....it's the best feeling ever to find a woman who can do this.... my girlfriend is the first woman out of many that can do this trick she can do it so well she can milk me to orgasm within a minute if she wants and i can normally last for hours with previous women before i come or i can choose to come when they are in orgasm and we both have a mutual climax. If you have never experienced the milking then it's difficult to convince you guys that it's just an incredible feeling...i have been with many women and done many wonderful things but this tops it all...find a woman who can do this really well and it's just jaw dropping amazing....

 

[dr4finger]

One night stand could clentch like nothing else - she was SO tight.

I taught my second partner to do this for me during our love making sessions. We would sit still, and I'd ask her to flex her muscles from within. Eventually she started doing this during sex for an epic experience.

Haven't had any others do this for me yet It's unique.

 

[RawDog]

One night stand could clentch like nothing else - she was SO tight.

I taught my second partner to do this for me during our love making sessions. We would sit still, and I'd ask her to flex her muscles from within. Eventually she started doing this during sex for an epic experience.

Haven't had any others do this for me yet It's unique.

Now, there's clenching which is fairly easy and there's milking. "Milking" is when the muscles can ripple up and down and can simulate a sucking action in the process.

 

[petite]

Update:

So far one of the easiest ways to practice the techniques in the original article is to just use your fingers. If you insert a few fingers into your vagina, it can help you determine if you are squeezing the cul-de-sac area, the middle, just before the cervix, or the opening, and to learn to isolate and make the different movements. My fingers are only 2.75" long, but just long enough to reach the end of my cervix so I can tell if I'm squeezing that area and not the rest of my vagina at the same time. I practice when I masturbate.

 

[RawDog]

Do you find it easier to control the muscles while you're on top or bottom? My wife was practicing with me inside her the other day and she told me that it was easier when she was on her back as opposed to on top.

 

[petite]

Do you find it easier to control the muscles while you're on top or bottom? My wife was practicing with me inside her the other day and she told me that it was easier when she was on her back as opposed to on top.

It doesn't matter what position I'm in. There doesn't seem to be a position that makes it easier or harder for me. I still am not fully isolating, I do flex nearby muscles some, so that may account for why some positions make it more or less difficult for her.

The last time we practiced with him inside me, it was doggy style after he had orgasmed. That worked well.

I also bought those Gyneflex on Not_Punny's recommendation. I think the resistance exercisers help, but I'm not good at doing them consistently. I think I would like to try it out in the bath or the shower with silicone lubricant, that way I might practice more consistently. (I just now came up with that idea!) I feel like I haven't made enough progress to make a full report on them yet. It would be premature.

A little tip: the first time I tried the Gyneflex, when I flexed it the first time I accidentally pinched something inside very hard. It was very painful. I think it was the tip of my cervix. I thought I should pass on that one needs to be careful not to do that. It hurt a lot.

 

[RawDog]

It doesn't matter what position I'm in. There doesn't seem to be a position that makes it easier or harder for me. I still am not fully isolating, I do flex nearby muscles some, so that may account for why some positions make it more or less difficult for her.

Makes sense. We don't nearly practice enough. We get too caught up in the moment to stop and flex.

The last time we practiced with him inside me, it was doggy style after he had orgasmed. That worked well.

I don't know if I'd be able to do that with my wife. I get soft pretty quickly after I cum. Although the last few drops of semen usually leak out after I extract myself, it'd be a nice experience to be fully drained before pulling my cock out.

The last time we practiced was her on top in the hot tub. Works out well since we can't move very vigorously anyway. But that was a while ago. We need to make a special workout schedule just for the hot tub.

I also bought those Gyneflex on Not_Punny's recommendation. I think the resistance exercisers help, but I'm not good at doing them consistently. I think I would like to try it out in the bath or the shower with silicone lubricant, that way I might practice more consistently. (I just now came up with that idea!) I feel like I haven't made enough progress to make a full report on them yet. It would be premature.

Do those things only allow you to flex one way? Or can you turn and pull/push them to different depths to isolate areas? I remember offering to buy that for my wife, but she didn't want it. Not sure now why though.

 

[petite]

Do those things only allow you to flex one way? Or can you turn and pull/push them to different depths to isolate areas? I remember offering to buy that for my wife, but she didn't want it. Not sure now why though.

Yes, it's really only useful for flexing the muscles near the opening and closer to the middle of my vagina, not the top, because it doesn't reach up that far, but it definitely makes them stronger, which is an important factor in making it pleasurable. :wink:

The Gyneflex won't teach her to isolate different areas of her vagina, that's a mind-muscle connection that she's going to have learn, and then learn coordination, but I believe the strength exercises will simply make the motions I have learned even stronger, in the areas the Gyneflex reach.

There is another device that can be used for the cul-de-sac I believe (I could be wrong). It's got a pressure gauge and it's basically a balloon that you squeeze with the vagina. I think it may be long enough to reach up there. The ones I saw were quite expensive. I'm not going to get another strength training device until I've masted the four levels I already own! :biggrin1:

 

[RawDog]

Yes, it's really only useful for flexing the muscles near the opening and closer to the middle of my vagina, not the top, because it doesn't reach up that far, but it definitely makes them stronger, which is an important factor in making it pleasurable. :wink:

It did look like it was for one specific area which is why I asked that. Thankfully she's tight as can be now already and doesn't need to be any tighter.

The Gyneflex won't teach her to isolate different areas of her vagina, that's a mind-muscle connection that she's going to have learn, and then learn coordination, but I believe the strength exercises will simply make the motions I have learned even stronger, in the areas the Gyneflex reach.

Isolating the muscles and getting feedback we can do plenty of with my cock in her. We've spent time just staying still and she'd focus then flex and I'd say, "Ok, that was close to my tip." It's still pretty much of a conscious thought though, and not a part of her repertoire of unconscious competence mad sword skillz.

For more info on unconscious competence, see:
Four stages of competence - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia

Going back to the muscle isolation; she does have these random flutters inside her when she orgasms that have gotten more pronounced. More pronounced in a very, very good way and I think the Pompoir exercises are responsible.

Apologies for getting too analytical here, the engineer side of my brain sneaks out sometimes.

There is another device that can be used for the cul-de-sac I believe (I could be wrong). It's got a pressure gauge and it's basically a balloon that you squeeze with the vagina. I think it may be long enough to reach up there. The ones I saw were quite expensive. I'm not going to get another strength training device until I've masted the four levels I already own! :biggrin1:

See, there again the engineer in me comes out and wants to tinker. I'd love to buy these devices, but my wife gets the wrong idea when we broach the subject. It's a combination of she doesn't like feeling like a lab rat and she certainly doesn't want to feel like I think she is lacking and needs some kind of training device to make her better. It's a Catch-22 with these things.

In a porn clip I was watching some time ago there was a lady who was using a "pussy meter". It was a dildo like phallic looking object with a cable attachment to a gizmo that had a row of lights. As she squeezed, more lights would come on. Funny thing was, she made a scrunching looking expression and made most of the lights go on. Next clip this girl gets the same pussy meter, inserts it and without making any obvious effort makes all the lights come on.

I'd love to get a toy like that, but I'm sure my wife will say, "Get that thing the fuck away from me!" Oh well.

Just out of curiosity (which I seem to have plenty of), where did you find this balloon/pressure gauge device?

 

[petite]

It did look like it was for one specific area which is why I asked that. Thankfully she's tight as can be now already and doesn't need to be any tighter.

:biggrin1: I bet you love that!

Isolating the muscles and getting feedback we can do plenty of with my cock in her. We've spent time just staying still and she'd focus then flex and I'd say, "Ok, that was close to my tip." It's still pretty much of a conscious thought though, and not a part of her repertoire of unconscious competence mad sword skillz.

For more info on unconscious competence, see:
Four stages of competence - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia

Going back to the muscle isolation; she does have these random flutters inside her when she orgasms that have gotten more pronounced. More pronounced in a very, very good way and I think the Pompoir exercises are responsible.

Apologies for getting too analytical here, the engineer side of my brain sneaks out sometimes.

That's alright. Thank you for the link! You always provide excellent links.

See, there again the engineer in me comes out and wants to tinker. I'd love to buy these devices, but my wife gets the wrong idea when we broach the subject. It's a combination of she doesn't like feeling like a lab rat and she certainly doesn't want to feel like I think she is lacking and needs some kind of training device to make her better. It's a Catch-22 with these things.

I understand that. If he came home with one of those, I might be put off by it. There's a difference between seeking something like that out from my own curiosity and having my SO come home with it! It could seem like a judgement.

In a porn clip I was watching some time ago there was a lady who was using a "pussy meter". It was a dildo like phallic looking object with a cable attachment to a gizmo that had a row of lights. As she squeezed, more lights would come on. Funny thing was, she made a scrunching looking expression and made most of the lights go on. Next clip this girl gets the same pussy meter, inserts it and without making any obvious effort makes all the lights come on.

I'd love to get a toy like that, but I'm sure my wife will say, "Get that thing the fuck away from me!" Oh well.

Just out of curiosity (which I seem to have plenty of), where did you find this balloon/pressure gauge device?

Here is one. There are other kinds. I saw one with a digital meter somewhere and another one where the probulator was bulb shaped instead of a phallus.

 

[RawDog]

:biggrin1: I bet you love that!

I thought at first it was just a matter of her vagina being tiny. We got drunk once and did it and she was all relaxed and almost passed out and when we were doing it, she felt "normal". It's usually a very snug fit. Yes, I do love it.

That's alright. Thank you for the link! You always provide excellent links.

You are quite welcome. Your link to that "device" you linked to seems interesting. It has a lot of potential, but couldn't it go a lot further? I'm not talking further in, I'm talking further in terms of sensors up and down the shaft, and a USB port to a computer to give specific areas a push... hmm. I may need to take some time off and develop such a dildo?

I understand that. If he came home with one of those, I might be put off by it. There's a difference between seeking something like that out from my own curiosity and having my SO come home with it! It could seem like a judgement.

And the $64,000 question is how do I instill such a curiosity without being manipulative/creepy? I can't.

 

[D_Landrocke DeLonguepiece III]

I had one GF.....quite some time ago.....that would do this frequently. But she would practice kegels all the time. since then it has been pretty rare for a woman to do it very much.

 

[petite]

I thought at first it was just a matter of her vagina being tiny. We got drunk once and did it and she was all relaxed and almost passed out and when we were doing it, she felt "normal". It's usually a very snug fit. Yes, I do love it.

Yes, I discovered that I also habitually tighten. Ever since you noticed my pompoir abilities, one of the things I've learned to do that I wasn't before was actually learning to just completely relax when things got too tight, especially in certain positions. It helped with the mis-matched size issues. I just didn't realize I was doing that.

You are quite welcome. Your link to that "device" you linked to seems interesting. It has a lot of potential, but couldn't it go a lot further? I'm not talking further in, I'm talking further in terms of sensors up and down the shaft, and a USB port to a computer to give specific areas a push... hmm. I may need to take some time off and develop such a dildo?

You know, I had the exact same idea?

I think you should! Or the bf should! Someone should!

Make it so that it senses not only where the center of pressure originates, but the intensity of the muscle contraction there. That would be cool.

And the $64,000 question is how do I instill such a curiosity without being manipulative/creepy? I can't.

Praise and admiration and crossed fingers are the only ways I can think of. Praise her for her interest in learning something new and being adventurous and willing to try and she may come upon it on her own.

I had one GF.....quite some time ago.....that would do this frequently. But she would practice kegels all the time. since then it has been pretty rare for a woman to do it very much.

More women really should! It's not just for your pleasure. The reason why I do it is because it provides me with pleasure too.

 

[D_Philochristus Hosenstein]

My wife does a pretty good job at milking my cock while we fuck. It is the most intense sensation. It takes a lot of practice to develop the vag muscles.

 

[Alex_Delarge]

Wow you have a very fit pussy by the sound of it. Hehe have you ptacticed shooting out ping pong balls cos thats the next level of pussy training!

Hmm how can I get my gf to do some pussy crunches without making it seem like I'm unhappy with her tightness? I'm really not unhappy with her pussy at all it's a neat little unit but I think it would be great if she trained her pussy muscles.

My pc muscles are strong from doing kegels, I do a kegel squeeze with every instroke when I'm having sex I don't think about it just feels natural. Makes the cock harder and pumps the head up which feels better for both IMO.