Misconceptions and being easy.

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To end all speculation... I can be both when the need dictates. I have been told I am attractive, and I can be very gentle, kind, and loving . But I can also be EVIL! I guess when I read what you said about cracking jokes, it turned a light bulb on in my head. I do it all the time because I enjoy word play and witty and sometimes naughty repartee. But there have also been times when because if it I felt a bit more like Peppermint Patty than the little red headed girl with possible objects of my would be affection...











pichulon said:
Just kidding Naughty.......
Naughty wrote:_________________________________________
"Sweetie,

I guess this isnt the first time I have heard that being a bitch is attractive! LOL! "

________________________________________________________

just looking for an explanation.....which came before, the egg?? or the chicken???

the bitch??? or the attractive girl????

LOL...... :)
 

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I think the problem is i like women to much man, i love women. They smell good, their attractive, sexy, and i love being around em. But its no big deal if i wanna hang with em, ill come at em serious and see if they want to, but until then imma keep doin what im doin, bc i like women to much not too, i gotta flirt!:cool:

Thanks for the advice though
Godbless
 

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The problem comes when you joke around and don't follow through. If you want a woman to know you're serious, then tell her. Act serious when you ask her out. May not be a good idea to tell her that you're taking her out because a lot of women would take offence at that.
And think about the 'shitting where you eat' thing. It's a good one. I've done it and it rarely works out well.

Good luck. :)
 

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You have to be out of your mind to fuck a co-worker. I worked for a govt. agency and my experience was fucking a co-worker is risking termination . Check the terms and conditions of your employment....
 

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The reason these women arent taking you serious is because they are probably thinking if your talking crude (even as a joke) then what would you say about then if they did go out with you especially if they ended up in bed with you.

Id suggest toning down the sexual content in your joking and let them know you either arent just a horny perverty and are respectful of them and other women
 

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dong20 said:
Workplace relationships can be tricky and given your line of work I'd say heeding "don't shit where you eat" is especially true.

But life is short....nothing ventured nothing chopped off when it ends in tears.....but best of luck.:biggrin1:

So very true. Here's my story.

I was 17 years old. A waitress at a "sit down" restaurant. Started dating one of the line cooks. Good sex but did not wow me.

Started dating the other line cook--different shift. First time I'd experienced oral sex. Woo. Yoo. Unfortunately, this guys was a player. And I didn't wanna play the types of head games he was into playing.

The 2nd line cook started treating me like crap. The 1st line cook didn't appreciate it. This huge fight broke out at the restaurant. I can still see that fight in my mind's eye. It was terrible. Yes, a knife was drawn.


Needless to say, it was very uncomfortable after that. I quite within 2 week because I didn't wanna see these two guys.

Short story long. You are taking a chance to date where you work.

I made myself a promise, never and I mean never date another guy with whom I was working. I've held to this belief and never broken this promise to myself. And I've never regretted my decision.
 

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How about meeting women at other places besides work? Not necessarily at nightclubs and on the internet.
Be serious with the women you wanna be serious with and make sure that those women are equally as serious towards you as you are towards them. No flirting with women you aren't serious with.

Misconceptions are that. Nobody is ever easy if you are human. Appearances are very deceiving.:smile: