I find no end of delirious amusement reading threads where men compare themselves to the tech specs and operations manuals of air to surface cruise missiles and rifles -n- such. It is certainly not a weapon.
But I think we tend to think of things like that in that context so we can "sell ourselves and self value to one's self".
Typically too - the Internet gives rise to what would be otherwise latent behaviors. We see and experience so much disrespect and misogyny I *believe* in this light. Anonymity allows it to surface so much quicker than say, in person, nose to nose. I see many prime examples of plain old fashioned sociopathy - enough to make me wonder why these people are not seeking help on a professional basis.
If I were to call anyone "XYZ" anyway; does it make it true? No. Even if it was, it's purely to save E-face and E-dignity and more than likely grappling with an inner issue I need to take to ground and examine. But - people are lazy.
Most of the time they will not stop and weigh the mental scales on "How would I convey how *I* would like to be treated and respected by *giving* that in the first place". Granted, I am wily and snarky at times, even "punked" a few threads on ego-stroking nonsense - but I will not point a finger at specific individuals and - here is the trickiest bit:
Point out the behavior, not the individual. Because once you get the person's defenses up, you're wrong for even being right.
Delicious catch 22, IMO.
So that's my mental filter before posting really. I am NO "lady killah gangstah". I am not a conscious seeker of metering out pain and humiliation to anyone, electronically or in person and especially in my bedroom. I am primarily motivated to secure the enjoyment and pleasure of playmates.
If people did JUST THAT alone, the world, this forum would be such a different place.
Coincidentally, less weapons would be dick shaped too, methinks. ;>
Congrats are in order, I think I just put the label of "pussy-arsed fagot" on my back. But I really do not give a shit.