I guess the point I was aiming at (but obviously missed) is that misogyny (dislike of, contempt for, or hatred of women) is a feeling or emotion within an individual, which runs counter, I suppose, to generally held views of others or those of society at large: this is not and cannot per se be a crime because it is not an illegal act, or a consipracy to act. Malevolence isn't a crime: acting on it may be, should it take the form of physical personal violence, the destruction of property, or curtailing the legal rights of others.
The notion of thoughtcrime or crimethink in 1984 is Orwell's fictional societal and legal intrusion into an individual's private thought. Exaggeration is one of the tools of the satirist, and I think this is what Orwell is doing and his warning of what to stop short of: making certain thoughts illegal--the inquisition redux, so to speak, state-enforced conformity to that which an individual does not within him/herself think or feel.
This goes back to the thinking informing another of my posts about the futility of the attempt to eliminate the word 'nigger'. The word exists, it can't be voted or suppressed out of existence. It won't disappear--it exists in our culture and cannot be unwoven from our literature, art, or history without making these cultual artifacts into doilies. The one recourse that I have as an individual is not to write, say, or think it myself.