Missed signals - somebody wants to hookup

[Itsmeandyou]

Given the social climate, if I was back in the pool, yes, the woman would indeed have to wear a sign that reads, "please put your penis in my vagina". Then we can bring in the lawyers and a notary public, where all parties may sign The Relationship Agreement.

CRAZY, but actually there is some truth to that.

 

[903private]

Guys can be really dense.

The absolute worst was when I had an out-of-town friend crash at my place after a party. We were both a little drunk, I changed out of my clothes (super cliche with the door open) into just a t-shirt and thong. We were talking in the kitchen and I made sure he got a good look by getting things from the top cupboard on my tiptoes (totally cliche, I know ), I even turned the conversation towards sex. And nothing from him. We just said goodnight and went to sleep. I thought maybe I totally misread him and he was gay but a few days later a mutual friend told me he had a crush on me
So wtf? I don't know how much more obvious I could have been other than putting a post-it note on my forehead that read "please put your penis inside me".

And then there's the other extreme that interprets even the tiniest most innocent bit of attention as flirting.
Saying hello or smiling at your dog if it does something silly is not an indication that I want to sleep with you
Or in the case of LPSG, liking a witty post does not mean you should send me pics of your penis

Was he legally blind? LOL!!! He may have been intimidated. I have a good friend that never had any kind of issues talking to women and had his fair share of beautiful women beating down his door. When he first met his wife he couldn't hardly say a word and when he did he sounded like a babbling idiot. I asked him about it and he said there was just something about her that just wrecked his entire train of thought. Maybe it was something along those lines. Or is it possible he was dealing with ED issues?

 

[1025326]

Yeah both have happened to me. Mostly what I read into id say more so. not that the other hasn't happened I just feel when you're older those scenarios fizzle out??? Maybe??? -not sure-

 

[1025326]

I only know of missed signals after the fact when those I dated told me things like:

I wondered if you were ever going to ask me out.
It's about time you got around to it (having sex).
Didn't you get all the hints/signals I was sending all that time?

My answer, invariably, "No, I'm not a mind reader."

I think that sounds romantic in a way by play fighting after sex with that scenario topic

 

[someperson]

Guys can be really dense.

The absolute worst was when I had an out-of-town friend crash at my place after a party. We were both a little drunk, I changed out of my clothes (super cliche with the door open) into just a t-shirt and thong. We were talking in the kitchen and I made sure he got a good look by getting things from the top cupboard on my tiptoes (totally cliche, I know ), I even turned the conversation towards sex. And nothing from him. We just said goodnight and went to sleep. I thought maybe I totally misread him and he was gay but a few days later a mutual friend told me he had a crush on me
So wtf? I don't know how much more obvious I could have been other than putting a post-it note on my forehead that read "please put your penis inside me".

that sounds like me lol but i would not have gotten that...my self but depression might be an issue as well as inhibitions..and can only blame the parents for that one. weed does help drop the inhibition for me pretty quickly.

sexual visual stimulus is broken..

 

[dragonxxx963]

I fucked one up last year. At the moment I was just having conversation as I thought about it later she gave me all kinds of signs and I missed them. Told me she just came out of long relationship and was happy to be free and wanting to experience new things. Told me she had just been on the worst Tinder date ever and was disappointed it didn't end at her place. She told me her place was close and her roomate was out of town. I am a fucking moron!!!!!!