Missionary Position In Sex and Porn

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If I'm feeling romantic and want to kiss him or look into his eyes I love it. When I am super horny and just want to get fucked hard, I bend over, he grabs my hips and goes full throttle. Porn isn't about emotional connection, it's just about just fucking.
 

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When you are watching a guy's muscular ass rise up and down and with it see his dick slide in and out of your boyfriend and they are kissing passionately and their leather chaps are squeaking as they fuck and the room is filled the aroma of fucking and leather and with wet squelching sounds as their sweat-soaked bodies slide over each other in the "Missionary Position" you have to say it is one of the most visually sexually erotic positions. It comes second only to fucking on the side from behind.
 

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i'm right with you on that ... love missionary sex.... i wish they show it more in porn... but i catch it more in amateur porn..... i love to see missionary with cream pie that hot!!!!
 

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I use the missionary position a lot because I like to put the girl's legs on my shoulders while I fuck her...
:flirt: Oooo, baby you know what I like. :wink:


Missionary in sex in porn is considered "dull" - I don't know if I agree with this however. As others have said above me, porn is supposed to be extreme and "lives out your wildest fantasies".

Also From a technical & filming point of view, it would be damn near impossible to film.

Bingo! You hit the nail on the head. While I love the missionary position the reason you never see it in porn is because the camera just can't film it very well. The reason you see it in amateur porn is because they usually don't know much about camera angles and are more interested in doing what feels good for both partners.
 

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Missionary is a favorite posistion of mine for several reasons.
  • Her tits are right there on center stage
  • I can watch her face as you are sliding into her for the first time
  • I love to kiss her and nibble on her neck and ears
  • What's sweeter than hearing a tiny moan, gasp or grunt
  • You can wisper things into her ear from "I love you" to "You pussy feels so good when you do that."
  • You can wrap your arms around her
Don't get me wrong, I love porn, and I love kinky, nasty sex but it's not what we all do in bed on Wednesday night.

Well said. Thank you.
 

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I use it a lot. Love having my gf's legs over my shoulders. Then, after I'm fully inside, I can lower my chest down to rub my hairy pecs against her nipples. Plus, I love seeing her look when I first slide my cock inside her.

It's only in porn that people don't use missionary.
 

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Missionary is a favorite posistion of mine for several reasons.
  • Her tits are right there on center stage
  • I can watch her face as you are sliding into her for the first time
  • I love to kiss her and nibble on her neck and ears
  • What's sweeter than hearing a tiny moan, gasp or grunt
  • You can wisper things into her ear from "I love you" to "You pussy feels so good when you do that."
  • You can wrap your arms around her
Don't get me wrong, I love porn, and I love kinky, nasty sex but it's not what we all do in bed on Wednesday night.

Yeah, what Eastaydude said. Missionary provides it all for me from a visual and physical standpoint. And not only can you wrap your arms around her, she can wrap her arms and especially her legs around you pulling you in tighter. Mainstream media used to have me believing most women hated the missionary position. Luckily my experiences have been the exact opposite.

Either I'm extremely lucky, or everyone is simply watching the wrong porn. I see the missionary position used quite often in almost all porn I watch. Well I do check reviews and boxcovers to make sure or at least see if it is used. And I do think some male performers are more into using it than others. I suppose it isn't always used as often in the more extreme porn, but I watch very little of that stuff anyway, or at least find performers or directors who aren't afraid to mix-it-up a little.
 

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I love missionary, it's very versatile. The best part is being face to face and being able to look in her eyes as I am thrusting into her - especially when I drive very deep. To see the look of ecstasy on her face - the look of pleasure she is receiving from my fucking her is a huge turn on for me.

You can talk lovingly to each other or you can just peer into each others eyes. You can bury your face into her neck or suck her breasts. You can kiss her deeply to muffle her moans and whimpers. Or, you can spread her legs wide and hold your upperbody up while you pound her pussy hard and fast - with only your pelvis moving up and down - in and out. She can wrap her legs around your waist or you can put her legs on your shoulders to get deeper penetration.

And finally, when it's over - you watch her cum - the look of sheer sexual pleasure on her face. Hear the sounds she makes when she reaches her climax. Feel her pussy rhytmically contracting on my cock. Feel her grabbing onto me tight as she cums from what I had just done to her. And when I cum, looking deep in her eyes and never closing them. As my breathing quickens, my moans get louder, my thrusts get longer and deeper, and I hear her telling me to cum. I begin to shoot, feeling my cock spasming inside her - filling her with warm cum. We can look into each others eyes while the most intimate and final act is complete. We can kiss each deeply one more time until my orgasm has finally subsided and cuddle next to each other and fall asleep.


Screw porn. Porn has nothing on two lovers making passionate love - missionary style.

Simba
 

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I like it but my wife isn't crazy about it, so we use that position infrequently. Every woman that I tried the missionary position with her legs on my shoulders thing had pain from me going too deep. The butterfly position with her lying on her back at the edge of the bed and me standing and holding her legs up seemed to work better.

When I was younger, I was crazy about doing missionary with a girl who would wrap her legs around my hips, lock her ankles together and squeeze.
 

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In porn, views of the female actor's pussy are necessary, as well as shots of penetration. You don't get that in traditional missionary (or it's harder to accomplish).

by the way, i hate missionary, it's too cliche. i prefer woman on top and doggy style, there is deeper penetration and holding onto boobs is nice too lol.
 
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It's not used that often in porn because it doesn't give the best shot and its the most traditional of the positions one can do. Porn is about giving people what they don't get at home.
 

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I love missionary, whether with my wife or bottoming a guy, as I love to see facial expressions and feel the exchange of breath, the sweat dripping on one another, the arms & legs wrapping and becoming two bodies entwined in mutual pleasure.

Missionary conveys passion and intimacy (eye contact, close hold body contact,etc.), whereas other positions are more about the sexual act itself, athletic, animalistic, the stuff of fantasy & pure entertainment. Fun, yes, and much more exciting to watch. Most porn directors need opportunities for different camera angles, breaks in visual draw, plot twists, etc. Missionary, unless shot by a very talented filmmaker, can appear to just plod along; it takes talent to take something inherently beautiful and transport that onto the screen. Hit & move, hit & move is much simpler to direct, thus more prevalent.
 

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This is one more reason that I hate commercial porn...but love amateur porn where you see two people really turned on by each other. I don't need to see cocks or pussies if I get to see body movements and facial expressions. Not that soft-core stuff is better than hard-core; it's just that the sex that's the hottest and feels the best isn't always the easiest to act or shoot....i. e., fake.