Missionary

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  1. D_Kay_Sarah_Sarah

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    Missionary is such a great position. I love feeling the weight of a partner pressing on me, having him so close i can hear every breath and moan he makes. No other position do i get to feel this close to the guy whilst feeling 100% loved and respected and still get good deep penetration. I know i will always orgasm if we are fucking missionary


    So why does missionary get such a bad rap?
     
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    don't know myself...it also gives us both a chance to do some thrusting and moving around, too..
    and seeing the look on her face as she gets really close to an orgasm is the best...and how she looks when she goes over is cool, too

    do you move quite a lot when you're in missionary?
     
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    I love missionary, for all the reasons Lee mentions. Guys are really attracted to my legs, and they get off in that position because I can rub my legs against them, wrap them around them, etc. :smile::smile::smile:
     
  4. whatireallywant

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    I don't think it really gets a bad rap. The only problem is when people have really puritanical views and consider any other position to be wrong. I like missionary just fine. :smile: But I like to mix it up and do other positions as well.
     
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    Id guess im the same as the majority. It isnt easy when you've got ??kg on you but i do what i can. Wrapping my legs around him and pulling him in with my ankles :tongue:


    Maybe it is because it seems to be veiwed as a boring and old persons position. Women seem to like missionary because of the closeness where as men seem to prefer doggie etc because they get a better view of the woman
     
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    One of my favorite positions is a version of missionary where my legs are on his shoulders. I also like my legs pulled in (generally I do this, not him). But doggie is my other favorite position. They're both deep positions and that's why they're my favorites.
     
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    well, doggy does provide a pretty sexy view for me...I'm an assman big time...
    the part I like about missionary, too, is when she starts to come and how her movements change...she really can't move any more, just sort of "feezes" and shudders with her contractions...WOW
     
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    No idea why it gets a bad rap. I can already think of one particular poster that'll respond with how it's her favorite position :wink: Personally, I like it.
     
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    yes i have to agree with all u girls. missionary is hot, all that heavy breathing and that body weight pressed into my breasts and pelvis. mmm delicious. the moaning and groaning not mention that good pelvic thrust u know the one that makes u catch ur breath for a moment, that huh.
     
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    I'm not a big fan of the missionary position as I prefer being on top or doggie.

    Last night though..... I don't know what it was be it was GREAT. The rythym, the time timing was all just perfect and bing-O. This was without full penetration too which is rare for me.

    Anyways, normally speaking, most of the sex is better if I am in control(on top or backing up). The only exception being when it is time for full penetration which makes me crazy.
     
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    Yeah I dunno know does it get a bad rap? Maybe some people think it's boring but I'm w/you I totally love missionary and it's my bf's favorite and that's usually what we do. :smile:
     
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    I've always thought it had religious overtones in the name and people equated it to puritanicalism???
     
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    I call it face-to-face, and it's my preferred position.

    We can kiss, the bottom can tug on my tits, I can suck him too (if he's got a biggun).

    It's really the only position where I can cum while fucking, truth be told.

    The big negative: Some bottom's backs are too injured to really do this comfortably. But maybe I just fuck gimpy old men :tongue:
     
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    Part of the stigma with missionary may well come from porn. In porno flicks you see a lot of doggie and reverse cowgirl, presumably because that works best for camera angles.

    Personally I like face-to-face and side-by-side positions best. I'm a face and breast man, and like to be able to see my partner's eyes. Doggie style just doesn't feel very intimate to me. Sure it's a nice view, but not of what I want to see the most. :biggrin1:
     
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    I didn't think it did. Missionary and "cowgirl" (facing me) are the two positions I find myself and my partners in the most. She and I can kiss in both those positions, and while I like the view in the rutting position, being able to look up at her face (and her expressions! :biggrin1:) her bouncing breasts, and seeing her sliding up and down on me while she's on top is the best view, IMO.

    Despite that, I usually orgasm in the missionary position. So it wins.
     
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    Reverse cowgirl is strictly a 'camera friendly' position that most people have no use for.
     
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    I think that part of it is in the name itself. I mean, if you could do something named cowgirl, reverse cowgirl or doggie, who would pick something named missionary?

    Also, I think that in this day of prevalent porn, missionary does not look as good on film as the others.

    Having said all this, my SO and I enjoy missionary the most and do it almost exclusively.
     
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    I never understood that sentiment. It's a perfect fit, like two pieces of a puzzle that go together.

    Years ago other positions were considered wrong or immoral even by the people who were doing them. There was a post a while back and I said that I would never do a certain act and a poster responded with something like "you're probably Puritanical and only approve of missionary sex." That had nothing to do with it and it wasn't even true. It's what the couple prefers and are comfortable doing. If you watch porn, a couple will do like 5 different positions in 10 minutes. That doesn't mean your ordinary person is supposed to do that. And it has to be positions that are camera friendly to get the closeups, and some of them are not always easily achieved by regular folk. Porn people are kind of like gymnasts.

    When I first saw medical type sex books as a kid, whenever they showed men having sex it was doggie style, and I'm talking about drawings not real pictures. I had always assumed that was the only position they were able to use, so the first time I saw gay porn I was surprised when I saw the men doing male/female positions. It looked so odd to see men face to face or a man riding another man, but he had no breasts and his penis was flopping around. Talk about being shocked.
     
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    Our favourite sex positions are variations of face-to-face, but with my legs over his shoulders, rather than around him. One involves him being basically in a "push-up" position, and in the other, he has his feet on the floor or bed and is in a squat-like position. Neither involves him putting his weight on me, although his weight is not a problem (he only outweighs me by about 15 pounds, even though he's 5 inches taller). He is lean and muscular, and I also love to watch the muscles in his arms and shoulders as he holds himself above me and pounds me.

    I think the major appeal of face-to-face positions, in addition to the stimulation, is about connecting with your partner via eye contact, as well as being able to look down and get the visual treat of seeing his cock move in and out of your pussy.

    Plain old missionary doesn't excite me that much, however. Variations of it with my legs together and his outside, or our legs "scissored" with one another can be quite wickedly stimulating at a slow pace. But our gold standard is definitely rough sex with my legs in front of his shoulders.
     
  20. D_Kay_Sarah_Sarah

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    Id debate that, my favourite porn at the moment (Jill Kelly/Julian Rios) shows them in missionary. The camera angle is looking over his shoulder onto her and well the look on her face.. amazing

    But i understand what you mean, this is probably the only 'professional' porn where ive seen missionary
     
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