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Honestly.
There are many different ways to express your desires. Say, if you were a bisexual man, married to a woman, there are other ways, aside from having sexual relations with other men, to express your desires and explore your sexuality. Same for a bisexual woman married to a man.
It all depends. How high of a value do you place on monogamy? If you know that that is something that is paramount in a relationship, that you want to have a monogamous relationship, no matter how realistic or unrealistic in the eyes of some, then that's what you should explore.
If you're comfortable with an "open" or polyamorous relationship, go for it. However, this is something that you have to agree on with your partner, just like the "talk" about okay, we're dating, is this casual, or serious.
It has to be part of the boundaries you set out at the outset, and I don't see it being any different in a couple where one or both is bisexual, or a heterosexual couple.
There IS a polyamorous side to human nature, even though Western culture has a tendency to be very proscriptive of it. I think one has to be mindful of that, even if monogamy is the ideal that we aspire to.
There are many different ways to express your desires. Say, if you were a bisexual man, married to a woman, there are other ways, aside from having sexual relations with other men, to express your desires and explore your sexuality. Same for a bisexual woman married to a man.
It all depends. How high of a value do you place on monogamy? If you know that that is something that is paramount in a relationship, that you want to have a monogamous relationship, no matter how realistic or unrealistic in the eyes of some, then that's what you should explore.
If you're comfortable with an "open" or polyamorous relationship, go for it. However, this is something that you have to agree on with your partner, just like the "talk" about okay, we're dating, is this casual, or serious.
It has to be part of the boundaries you set out at the outset, and I don't see it being any different in a couple where one or both is bisexual, or a heterosexual couple.
There IS a polyamorous side to human nature, even though Western culture has a tendency to be very proscriptive of it. I think one has to be mindful of that, even if monogamy is the ideal that we aspire to.