1. D_Polidore Pudpounder

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    So im mixed race (black+white), just wondering if any similar guys out there
    get kinda frustrated with being 'exotic sex object' rather than a regular guy.
    attention is nice and all and being different has its perks (check out the pic on my profile lol) but do u guys find that you get tired of not always fitting in? maybe i should go 2 brazil and become 1 of the crowd... How do u find it? And what do other people (of any race) think?
     
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    If people are treating you like an exotic sex object, maybe you're just really good looking and it has nothing to do with your race.

    I'm half-black, half-caucasian and I've never experienced anything of the sort :p
     
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    I was going to say the same thing! I realise I am a woman but mixed race people are hardly a rarity these days, particularly in London!
     
  4. naughty

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    I would say that most of the people of color on here are probably of mixed race descent. Just enjoy being. If someone approaches you inappropriately deal with it. You are who you are.
     
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    i know just how you feel man, i never fitted in all thru my school yrs i was like 2 black 2 be white and 2 white 2 be black (i'm actully hispanic and german just said the black white thing 2 make it easier 2 say, you'd think that'd be easier, but nope still cultural differences) its crazy really, i just found that i'm me, nothing else, when i was younger i tried 2 blend in, but i couldn't so i just accepted it, i think most ppl are just jealous because i'm a sexy hybrid :))
     
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    I wish somebody would treat me like an exotic sex object :wt:
     
  7. D_Polidore Pudpounder

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    exactly man, i guess you learn not to fit in and accept that ('sexy hybrid' lol)
    i was just curious to hear some other opinions.
    ThisSpace4Rent - haha well yeah i dont scrub up 2 bad, as 4 u never experiencing anything like it well lucky u.
    Runco - I hear you, I guess just on a site like this which is sexually oriented and anonymous it attracts some easy prejudice. And as 4 never experiencing anything like it im not sure i believe u, i think maybe you enjoy that attention + dont see it as a negative.
    Naughty - wise words
     
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    I am sure someone can treat at least a part of you like an exotic sex object...
    :eek:
     
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    Re your statement in bold - I think you have me confused with someone else as this is not a point that I made. I am not sure what you mean about the site. I personally don't think it attracts any prejudice myself but perhaps you could elaborate on your statement if you do. To elaborate on my own point, my son is mixed race too (like Thisspace4rent) and he isn't treated any differently to anyone else. Black people accept him and white people accept him primarily because he accepts himself. Given the prevalence of mixed race people in this country and general acceptance of mixed relationships, I find it hard to believe that in a metropolis like London, anyone would be made to feel 'exotic' due to being black-white mixed race. That is a common mix (not belittling you, of course!). If you were - say - Asian/black or Eskimo-black - I could understand unusual reactions. Not black-white, no matter how good looking you are. Perhaps this is about your perceptions rather than what is actually happening?

    I note that you made some statements about "fitting in". I may be wrong abut this (and please forgive me if I offend you), but I frequently hear similar things from mixed race people who are a) estranged from a parent due to the choices they make in life; b) not clued in about the culture of one of their parents and/or who c) feel they have to choose to be one race or another rather than what they are, which is both.

    Bottom line? You are a human being like everyone else. So why not just "be"?
     
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    hey mate,,.. i read something on this last week,. they called it the ' fetishization (er sic) or race" - basically people going along with the brazilliants have huge cocks thing ,.. or like white girls wanting a big black man to fuck them really really hard and rough.. theres an element of racism to it defiantely.. I think we're all a bit guilty of it maybe??? i guess i'ld try and make the most of it? if that doesnt sound too crude?
     
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    I know that some men are initially attracted to me because I am mixed. I try to take it as a compliment and just let it go.

    Yes, there are times I pump up the Jamaican accent for a one night stand because playing into their fantasy just provides me with a hotter bottom. I don't really see it as any different than other sorts of roleplay.

    As for not fitting in, I wonder if that is even important. My friends accept me for who I am as a person & not what colour I am. Everyone else is free to take me as I am or move along.
     
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