Hi guys.. so I’ve become friends with a guy who did some building work for me on my house a few years ago, he’s a great guy, a family man with many children of all ages who love him dearly, I can’t describe how nice this guy is, he is also very, very attractive to me…he is so strong with greying hair really tanned and a silver fox kinda guy. I never thought anything would come of it, long story short, we now exchange messages constantly, I tell him he is handsome and he tells me I’m the best looking guy he’s ever known, I asked him drunk once how big he was and he sent me a hard dick pic, though it was just him in the shadow of the sun.. but I know it was him from his hands and body shape, I told him I thought he was sexy and he replied with ,” I don’t sleep with men I only sleep with women I hope we can still be friends ”……we have been out for dinner since then and he sometimes touches my arm or leg when my partner goes to the toilet..…he recently sent me a video of him working some turf up from the ground and it was a hot day here , he was topless and it was so arousing for me. I told him to “ stop being so sexy” … and he replied, “ sorry it’s just who I am” , .. he does have such a great sense of humour….. does he know what he’s doing to me? …I’m so confused.
Dude I think he likes the way you give him attention, the attention you're giving him is turning him on not you as a person.......you deserve a man that loves you for you!
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He sounds hot from his description. He says he only sleeps with women but hopes you two can stay friends, maybe as a straight guy he finds you attractive and doesn't know what to do about it. Maybe he would be willing to explore with showing each other your cocks, comparing, maybe even touching and jerk off together. Doesn't need to be full on sex (as you must respect his boundaries and only do what both of you are comfortable with) unless that is the only thing you are willing to go for. Maybe he's looking for a JO buddy and finds a sense of connection with you. Perhaps you can suggest that it would be fun to compare or stroke each other, without it having to go any further and see what his response is. Only if you think he would be comfortable with that, which from the sound of it he might..
Thankyou buddy… I thought the same in a way.. my mother , who has met him and has commented that he seems to like me says , and I quote, “ I think he wishes part of you was female “..
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Sometimes straight guys still have a same-sex curiosity they wish to explore with someone they are comfortable with, doesn't mean they will "change" and suddenly be gay, or that it will go all the way to sex, so if you find him attractive and don't mind a little "male bonding" as friends and letting is stay as just that then maybe you can give him a hint or suggest it to him.
Ahh yeah I hope so … I really want to suck his big dick but … after 3 wives I know he’s deffo straight, maybe now he’s nearly 60 he wants to try new things …. I know this sounds like a bad erotic fiction but its true
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if I had to guess - i think the guy just likes getting off on the attention, you say he's getting in 60, so, probably looking for validation, if he knows your interested in him, he could just be leveraging that to get out of you whatever he's craving. I'm getting on the same age myself. I don't think its intentional but, from personal experience, when you get older its nice to feel you've still got it.
If he hadn't been so clear about the boundaries - I'd have thought he was looking for a bit of fun, but the fact that he's fishing pretty hard to keep you on the hook, but setting boundaries, to me means he has no intention of taking things any further.
Obviously just an opinion, but if i was looking to play with someone, even if I was unsure, I'd leave the door open a bit.
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Don’t waste a lot of energy on this guy. If you are looking for intimacy, find a gay man. I find problem with straight curious guys is they waste your time by having you spend time trying to guess their interest and sexuality and you have to walk on eggshells and you get hurt. It’s not worth the time even in analyzing this. You deserve better and guy who is actually interested in men. I know gay men love a challenge and being desired by straight men, but it really is not it.
If he was in your house a lot maybe he saw stuff that aroused his interest… like a jock or something sexual, even just lube or condoms somewhere maybe. He definitely sounds like he’s curious, otherwise I’d find it strange that a 100% straight guy sends a pic of his dick. Stay friends and just play it by ear
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Your mother has so far made the best comment I have read here.
I am gonna be harsh, but I mean well:
1. You dont go out on a dinner with a straight man. You go grab a beer or have drinks.
2. Could he be playing with u for ulterior motives? If not, then he likes u and he is open minded enough to have a gay FRIEND but not to fool around sexually.
3. Even in the best scenario, go live ur life to the fullest with another gay man, have sex qith randoms, enjoy. Perhaps the fact that he seemed so close but not really available for MORE makes you idealice him… i dont think that’s healthy.
4. Move on and keep him as a friend. If he wants more, he’ll reach out. You cant fall for the guy.
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