MMF fantasy - could I?

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  1. RedHead8

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    Ever since I hit puberty, I've been turned on by dudes. I never really got aroused by girls, and I never did anything with them. I always told myself that I should try pussy once in my life... you know, to try out what nature intended for me. But I never got to it, probably because I get so nervous and have no idea how to aproach girls (seems easier with guys... heck, we know what we want).

    But then, I started watching straight porn, for the guys at first. There's something about watching a straight man fuck a chick, and her reacting to his fat cock... that drives me nuts. Seems like there's nothing more manly, more powerful than that. I especially like to watch dudes like Erik Everhard, Julian, Voodoo, Billy Glide and lots of other dudes on Brazzers.

    They have something... something I don't have. Some kinda power over the opposite sex that I wish I had. They make me wanna... fuck pussies.

    Seems like it would be easier for me if there was another guy there for my first time. Some hot masculine dude who likes to show off and who won't mind that I get turned on from watching him. He'd show me what to do, how to do it. He would encourage me, cheer me up.

    Seems like the ultimate fantasy. Just wanted to share it. :cool:
     
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    Not that there is anything wrong with fantasy but you do know that the reactions are all phony don't you?
     
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    Yeah... in most commercial porn, I imagine. But I've seen some amateur porn where girls have more natural reactions. It's very hot.
     
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    Now, if you take the porn aspect out of it and just look at the power that you're describing, I think that comes from WANTING TO FUCK so bad. Waiting to see the reaction from her, listening to what she says and how her body reacts from receiving them during the sex. So, I understand what drives your fantasy or where it stems from. It's hot watching two people have sex. Your mentality almost automatically puts you in one of those people's shoes. I've never seen an actual couple have sex in real life, but I did hear it...so up close & personal one time (my friends are a bunch of horny toads:tongue:). And I heard that power that you're describing. I think we all got up that next morning and went and found some sex, LOL:biggrin1:.

    So, put your fantasy out there for the people in your life to get a grasp of. Who knows? You might get your fantasy fulfilled.
     
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    Exactly. As a gay man who likes to bottom, I usually put myself in the girls' shoes. Lately, I've been putting myself in the dude's shoe... and I kinda like it.
     
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    You know what's scary? I feel the same exact way. Lately I've been watching less gay porn and more turned on when there is a dominant man there. I would love for a guy to show me how to get a girl wet (I don't even have to have sex with him). Weird...
     
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    This is part of the complexity of being bisexual or being a sexual being period. You see or hear something that triggers your sexual self that is (as far as you know it) outside the realm of your preferences. Let those emotions in. Run with them. Those are your instincts and nine times out of ten they will not fail you.

    I don't think it's weird at all. Have you seen some of the threads around here, LOL? Sex is like any other subject. It has to be taught to you and in order for you to get better at it, you practice it. Could you imagine the population if sex education classes were 'hands-on'?
     
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    LOL! That would be awesome!

    See, part of the problem is I don't feel normal until I see threats like this. Guys all act like their the straighest thing ever and feel that if you have any homosexual feelings your just gay. I think I'm just goin through puberty. I just want sex. I wish I knew how many guys out there really feel the same way I do.
     
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    Hey RedHead, I can relate to your fantasy. I'm almost completely gay. The idea of kissing or going down on a woman turns me off. Breasts do nothing for me. But for some reason, the idea of fucking a pussy doesn't turn me off at all. In fact, I find the idea very intriguing, and it's been a long-time fantasy of mine.

    Also, I've always been the scrawny, intellectual, introverted, soft-spoken type. But I've always been fascinated by guys who fit, athletic, confident, and outgoing--although sometimes they seem like they belong to another species. Many (not all) of the guys who do straight porn fit this description. I'm especially fascinated by straight porn where two (or more) guys share a woman, especially if they are doing creampies and/or double penetration. I love listening to the guys egging each other on by talking dirty, and generally being encouraging and supportive of each other. For example, "Oh yeah, give it to her...give her that big dick...oh yeah, fuck her...fuck that tight pussy...oh man, that's so fucking hot..." and so on.

    Even though there's nothing explicity bisexual about such porn--the guys aren't having sex with each other--they are nevertheless sharing a sexual experience with another guy (or guys). I love the fact that there are some guys who seem to be able to have hot, raw, nasty, completely uninhibited sex and the fact that there are other guys present is part of the fun.

    There was a straight guy on this forum who posted a thread a while back about his first gay experience. He and two of his friends--a straight girl and a gay guy--decided to have a threesome. If I remember the story correctly, first he fucked the girl, then he taught the gay guy how to fuck the girl, then he had his first gay experience by fucking his gay friend's ass. It sounds like you need some friends like that, RedHead.
     
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    Actually Meniscus, I think I need a friend like you! :)

    But yeah... I DREAM of meeting a guy like that and making straight buddies. That's why I recently joinded a gym. I think a bigger, more muscular shape will make me a better candidate for a hot 3way with attractive people.
     
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    Lemme rephrase that...

    I didn't join a gym JUST for that, it would be pathetic. :)
     
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