Mmf - Homoerotic Or Not?

[HairyMuscle]

You could do that. Or lick her pussy as he’s going in so you get best of both worlds. Not something I want to do but if you’re looking for a way to do a little more with the guy that might work.

You could do that. Or lick her pussy as he’s going in so you get best of both worlds. Not something I want to do but if you’re looking for a way to do a little more with the guy that might work.

Oh licking pussy as he fucks her... that’s totally hot if everyone is into it... just never had that name for it Also very intimate

 

[5514231]

it def has homoerotic qualities

 

[DiamondJoe]

"MMF" is the noise you make as you eat out your missus while I fuck you

 

[zoowx]

First off, I never believed anyone is 100% straight (or gay) and there is a certain level of bi-curiosity to humans even if it is rare or fleeting and the majority of people obviously go no further then those thoughts. A lot of those people will also deny it till the cows come home due to combinations of stigma and worrying what others will think (and for guys that they will be less manly).

So for myself, though I could acknowledge slight thoughts below the surface but really had no interest in pursuing them for several reasons, including those mentioned above. It wasn't till a year or so after we sort of retired from swinging the wife brought up the question of why I never showed interest in interacting with another guy despite having several opportunities when we were with couples where the guy identified as bi then she admitted she would have like to have watched that as it might turn her on much like I was when I got to see her with other women.

So I guess the two things that have changed has been the fact I have been more willing to acknowledge those thoughts, but more importantly, by my wife showing interest has allowed me permission in a way to admit them. So I would not only doing it for myself but to turn her on and fulfill her fantasy as well. Of course all this was mere what-ifs as I'm in no way currently considering it as both our retirement from the Lifestyle and Covid has pretty much limited future attempts at any sexual adventures outside of just us.

Not sure what you would find interesting in the concept with either myself or the previous poster, beyond the fact of the general theme on this board of some gay men obsessing over somehow converting or conquering straight men which I also find both odd and amusing especially given I've never had the overwhelming urge to have sex with lesbians who have no interest in me.

It's important for most people to understand that there are no document species that exhibit exclusive heterosexual behavior in the animal kingdom (just like exclusive homosexuality is a rarity in nature). They haven't found one species where homosexual behavior has not been observed, except for species that don't have sex at all. And there are various reasons or motivations for same sex behavior ranging from domination, to pleasure, to pair-bonding, or maintaining close friendships in a pack or group. Sexuality in nature is far more varied & diverse with a much wider spectrum according to biologists. I think for humans, the society and/or immediate surrounding environments/situations influence how an individual will choose to sexually behave (and there are studies to support that where people in more open environments tend to become more exploratory in their sexual behaviors). Sexuality for humans has become more like a culture or system that's attached to ideologies or belief structures (such as definitions of normativity), whereas in nature.....concepts like heterosexuality, bisexuality, or homosexuality simply don't exist (none of those terms really enter common use until the 1960s). It's basically sex and hormones, regardless of partners since sexual behaviors are both reproductively and non-reproductively motivated.

 

[fightermike]

"MMF" is the noise you make as you eat out your missus while I fuck you

lol

 

[fightermike]

I've had so many guys ask me to be apart of their sexy play with their SO both girls and guys. But have yet to actually have a threesome yet.

This guy sent me photos of his wife and his bare ass and wanted me to fuck her while he watched and sucked me. Mostly guys that are into MMF just want to suck me because they're enamored with my size. Then they want to see me use it because it turns them on to see me fuck their girls with it.

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I think he probably would have let me fuck him with the phots he sent but it didn't work out.

why are you posting this crap here bro?

 

[jaymes_eboy]

Sorry can't delete or edit.¯\_(ツ)_/¯

 

[Moodley]

Although I largely identify as gay, I can be attracted to women. And in the past I’ve engaged in sex with women. Some really nice experiences.

In more recent years my straight sex experience has mostly been as part of an MMF threesome. The attitude of my sex partners has made for some amazing encounters, not just the sex but the camaraderie and just good company... with no clothes on.

But I’m curious because, as a man who would always have a preference for including sex between the males in an MMF, I’m never sure how to take the guys when I’m planning an MMF. Like some who identify as straight might enjoy a compliment about their cock, ass or body, and even give me a similar compliment. But are closed to any talk of anything other than sex with the lady. Yet I’ve had some really good times where a straight guy will really engage with me during sex, arm on shoulder, hand on the back, even on my ass, one guy even rubbed my taint as I was close to cumming inside pussy. I’ve also done DP and gotten each other’s cum on one another. Yet they just don’t appear to be interested in gay sex.

So if you’re a man who does a lot of MMF... what’s your deal: straight, bi, or even gay? How do you find the interaction with the other male? What’s the experience of being naked... and fully aroused, in the company of another naked and aroused male. How far does the contact with the male go, and if you’re straight, just how much contact with the other male could you handle? Does anything about being naked in the company of another male excite you in any way?

I dont see you as gay tbh... You just described yourself as bisexual with a preference of being with men and your sexuality seems fluid and is drifting back to the woman. That's how I read it but I am a bastard so pinch of salt many contacts

 

[njfellow2002]

I've done a lot of MMF (MFM really)--- I always describe myself as 'straight but not phobic' so sharing a woman is sort of like live porn I get to participate in. I don't sexually interact with other guy, but do talk, communicate, etc.. We are not oblivious to each other. I have had a wife or two ask their hubby to suck me, which I let them, but I don't suck them. Only happened once or twice. For me, MFM is all about the woman and making her feel relaxed, horny, and making her cum as much as possible.

 

[HairyMuscle]

I've done a lot of MMF (MFM really)--- I always describe myself as 'straight but not phobic' so sharing a woman is sort of like live porn I get to participate in. I don't sexually interact with other guy, but do talk, communicate, etc.. We are not oblivious to each other. I have had a wife or two ask their hubby to suck me, which I let them, but I don't suck them. Only happened once or twice. For me, MFM is all about the woman and making her feel relaxed, horny, and making her cum as much as possible.

That sounds cool bro, great attitude. Nice to let him blow you (which I find really horny) even if you’re not into doing the same to him. I imagine both of the other partners would really enjoy that so fair play ;-)

 

[HairyMuscle]

I've had so many guys ask me to be apart of their sexy play with their SO both girls and guys. But have yet to actually have a threesome yet.

This guy sent me photos of his wife and his bare ass and wanted me to fuck her while he watched and sucked me. Mostly guys that are into MMF just want to suck me because they're enamored with my size. Then they want to see me use it because it turns them on to see me fuck their girls with it.

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I think he probably would have let me fuck him with the phots he sent but it didn't work out.

Yep that’s interesting that he only referenced sucking you, yet sent two pictures of his ass. I’ve experienced this where guys aren’t explicit about asking for or talking about sexual interaction between the MM but in other ways are suggestive of it. And I have to say that’s really the crux of why I started the thread, it’s more about the homoerotic, the suggestion, the flirting. And I really enjoy that for real. Even a wide smile from a guy and a glance to me fucking or sucking his lady or a glance down my body or cock, I find very homoerotic and it heightens my pleasure and really pushes me closer to the edge.

 

[Iwanthead]

Definitely erotic when guy is licking my balls, shaft and her clit while I am penetrating her doggy and he is under getting a closeup view. Really nice when he cleans her juices off my cock before turning to the creampie I left for him.
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[SamMann75]

Perhaps part of the problem is your terminology.

MFM = sex involving one female and two males where the primary focus of each male is on the female. The two males may have some incidental contact but no deliberate male-on-male stuff ensues.

MMF = sex involving one female and two males where the two males engage heavily with each other and, either permit the female to engage with one or both of them or one of the males engages with both the female and the other male whereas the second male primarily engages in only male-male activity. With the right partners, MMF can also be a simple free-for-all where everyone engages everyone else.

But, MMF definitely implies that one of the two males is primarily there in a homosexual role and the other is happily bisexual.

MFM = focus on the woman, MM action should not occur except incidentally

MMF = there is expectation of MM action

My wife and people we know also have

FMM = focus on the woman but MM action is completely acceptable as long as F remains the focus. Such as M1 is fucking F good so M2 has M1 suck his dick or M2 sucks M1's balls or licks her pussy and his cock. Those would be no gos in MFM.

 

[jaymes_eboy]

Just out if curiosity, I'm assuming this guy gave you permission or has knowledge you are posting pics of him and his girlfriend here?

They seemed okay with it because they purposely sent those images without face. They sent me face pocs but I purposefully didn't post those out of respect. But can a mod delete the photos it just in case I tried earlier but it wouldn't work?

 

[kurt bishop]

Yep that’s interesting that he only referenced sucking you, yet sent two pictures of his ass. I’ve experienced this where guys aren’t explicit about asking for or talking about sexual interaction between the MM but in other ways are suggestive of it. And I have to say that’s really the crux of why I started the thread, it’s more about the homoerotic, the suggestion, the flirting. And I really enjoy that for real. Even a wide smile from a guy and a glance to me fucking or sucking his lady or a glance down my body or cock, I find very homoerotic and it heightens my pleasure and really pushes me closer to the edge.

yep like that

 

[HorseHung40's]

Thanks to the size of my endowment, I tend to attract size queens, male and female, very easily. They have looked to me to do the pleasuring.

Why pleasure 2 people, when I only get off once.

No thanks.

Not hot for me.

 

[Coronahead]

I've been involved in a few MFM and each time there is no interaction between us. She is the sole focus of everything usually it would be us taking turns or him watching me with her. But at no point is there interaction between myself and another male. Never dp either

Compliments are fine but other than that the other guy being there is an after thought. She will be the only thing I'm focused on.

It's only homo erotic if you make it homoerotic. A guy who has no interest in men will not interact with other men.

I agree you can have 2 straight guys hookup with a woman as the focus of attention. You say you get compliments, is that from both the man and the woman? Are they complementing how well endowed you are? I would guess a lot of the time it's a new experience for the woman to have sex with a guy that's as big as you are, do the women compliment you after the sex?

 

[jaymes_eboy]

Yep that’s interesting that he only referenced sucking you, yet sent two pictures of his ass. I’ve experienced this where guys aren’t explicit about asking for or talking about sexual interaction between the MM but in other ways are suggestive of it. And I have to say that’s really the crux of why I started the thread, it’s more about the homoerotic, the suggestion, the flirting. And I really enjoy that for real. Even a wide smile from a guy and a glance to me fucking or sucking his lady or a glance down my body or cock, I find very homoerotic and it heightens my pleasure and really pushes me closer to the edge.

Yes! I love the cat and mouse sexual play and a guy giving into their repressed desires. Normally "straight" guys (really curious guys) take my dick after getting turned on by it and put it inside them. I have never had to initiate

 

[Hatt_101]

I agree you can have 2 straight guys hookup with a woman as the focus of attention. You say you get compliments, is that from both the man and the woman? Are they complementing how well endowed you are? I would guess a lot of the time it's a new experience for the woman to have sex with a guy that's as big as you are, do the women compliment you after the sex?

I was referencing his question. I wasn't saying I got compliments

 

[Coronahead]

I was referencing his question. I wasn't saying I got compliments

Do the women or couples compliment your dick? Or is it not a big deal in the 3somes/hookups you've been part of?