pllrdchrs said:
This has been a fantasy of mine for a long time.
I actually think my wife would be into it (she loves MFM porn), but we'd need to find the right situation.
BTW, some of the stories so far are great.
Chris
I wasn't intending to reply to this thread until I read this post and it got me thinking....
I realized that I have been in a position where I could have actualized this fantasy.
The first time is most poignant because I was the would be instigator.....
I was staying at Phil's house like I usually did. He shared a house with a real ladies man. One particular night I was awakened by her sounds of obvious pleasure. As I listened I was blown away....it sounded like me, she was making the same noises and saying the same things as I do when I'm about to have a
very intense orgasm. It turned me on and I started thinking about his flatmate. And thinking about what he was doing to her to get her into that state of arousal.
The next night the guys were watching T.V together in the lounge and I was very horny and thinking about the both of them. I was especially thinking about how his flatmate had made that girl feel last night. I went into the lounge room and asked Phil to get some porn and bring it into the bedroom. I then made the suggestion that we should invite his flatmate to join us. Phil was not happy about this idea at all. Infact he got really upset. For me this relationship was purely physical. We had a fabulous sex life but there was no real mental or emotional connection for me. For me, not being emotionally attached to either of them made it OK.
The second time was really quite absurd and quite recent.
A gay couple that I know started sending me fervent texts every 5 minutes....where are you? we want to catch up tonight...I remember being surprised and somewhat suspicious. Eventually we met at some bar and by that time we were all in high spirits. We stayed for a while and then Adrian (I know you'll probably read this anyway, so I'll write your name) Tung and I piled onto my motorbike (yes the three of us, with me driving) and we headed back to my place. After a while Adrian asked me if I would like to have a threesome. He said that it had been so long since he had been with a woman and would I do him the honour. He also said that Tung liked me as well. I was flattered of course but the whole situation struck me as more comical than erotic.
So where do I stand on this topic........
I really want my next relationship to be a total mind-body experience. I really want to have a strong emotional and physical relationship with someone....... As a consequence if we had discussed it and made the decision, then the other male would have to be someone that we didn't know... a kind of rent a dick.
I would much rather actualize the fantasies that involved us as a couple. The potential emotional fallout could be dangerous and I wouldn't want to destabilize the relationship for a fantasy.