Moaning during Sex

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  1. D_Ivana Dickenside

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    moaning and heavy breathing is part of being active. think about it: if you're running a marathon, do you not pant for air and try to catch your breath?
     
  2. slate_australis

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    Silent sex?

    Can't think of anything more boring.
     
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    Amen!! I love to hear those guteral noises when you are "in there" and it's all good for everyone. A man I have sex with has a deep voice and loves to talk in my ear over my shoulder and tell me how good I feel and what a great fuck we are having. Sweet music to my ears. So........yes, speak out America (and you foreigners, too)
     
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    I love to moan and growl when I'm fucking and cumming. If it feels good, do it.
     
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    I've always been a moaner... actually, it's more of a squeaky moan. I squeak during sex... or when being fingered... bitten, kissed really passionately, etc. And, unfortunately, I can't control it. >.< I'm just very verbal in general, I'll make little purr/moaning noises when getting a back rub or something, I make tiny noises during foreplay.

    I mean, I can be quieter, but there's still every other stroke or so a small noise.

    Luckily, my b/f doesn't mind my squeaks, he thinks it's cute and kinda sexy at the same time.

    I'm VERY involved when it comes to sex. :p
     
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    People not trying to make noise can be sexy, because they usually let some pleasure slip. I emphasize moans and groans sometimes, to encourage my partner. Its partly voluntary, but I do it when it feels good. Its much like dirty talk, except no english, but many times, it translates to the same thing.
     
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    oooh that made me think of another turn on- speaking to me (especially with husky low voice) in a foreign language really makes me hot.. he can be saying "please pass the butter" but if I don't speak/understand the language it sounds like "oh god baby your pussy is so tight":biggrin1:
     
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    I sometimes get noisy during sex. I've always been one to give little directions - but never one to do the porn soundtrack sounds. My breathing is also very noticeable and I moan, groan, and gasp for air at times too. Who knows, maybe one of these days I'll get to be noisy again (been a long time fellas).
     
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    I am very vocal, and if noise is an issue, I have to bite a pillow to keep from being too loud. Love when a guy moans, I like the feedback. The ones who growl as they're cumming really turn me on.
     
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    I suspect that moaning and other noises are a built-in response for many of us. My dog purrs when I rub his head or tummy.
     
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    I have learned a lot thus far! So it's not voluntary; this is important for me to recognize since I am actually silent, and feel no compulsion ( usually ) to moan.
     
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    I find sex to be just boring without moaning. I need motivation to fuck for hours at a time, especially when I'm not really getting much out of it. I tend to cum once and the rest is for her in reality.

    Without moaning, I just feel like it's a grind.
     
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    I am sure that I moan during sex....but I don't think I am too overly loud or shrill. It is just something that automatically happens with me. I think in certain situations the volume can be muffled....like if I am gagged or something put in my mouth. But I am very vocal most of the time. Even if someone is just scratching my back....or rubbing my feet.
     
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    Moaning is rarely enough for me (well, perhaps during a quickie), but I'm usually very vocal (and physical) - it's not controlled - I just let my mind and body flow...
     
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    Hm, maybe something's wrong with me. I'm pretty quiet actually.
     
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    Well, you're a guy...

    There might a difference between the sexes here...
     
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    The GF is a loud moaner during sex, and the volume depends on how involved she is.

    As for myself, i'd say 50 / 50, depending on how involved I am, but I am not all that loud at all.
     
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    I have had relationships where the woman was very local during our lovemaking and found it extremely erotic and exciting. That type of feedback is so positively uplifting because it gives some reassurance that you're doing something right. In the beginning I was wondering if it was all a put on because she was soooo vocal and loud but realized that she didn't even realize what she was doing because she was sooo into the moment.

    That is so much more exciting than having someone lay there nearly like a dead fish so you don't know if they're enjoying it or not. Ladies, let yourself go. Your man will appreciate it and you'll also feel more free about your own feelings.

    nuff said...
     
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    I'm a screamer. It's involuntary, like breathing when I'm really enjoying myself. Trying to be quiet is really challenging! My neighbors have even teased us. lol.:eek:
     
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