How much of this do you do in the throws of passion?
Is it conscious or does it just happen?
Turn on or turn off?
Is it conscious or does it just happen?
Turn on or turn off?
Moans, Groans, Grunts & Gasps
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I have to preface my reply by saying that the sound of people having sex is one of my biggest turn-ons. I actually find it more erotic than watching people have sex.
As for myself, I am by nature almost completely silent. But to show my appreciation for what my partner is doing, I'll moan softly or sigh with contentment. If I'm very excited and extremely turned on, he might also get some heavy breathing from me, or a sharp intact of breath when he hits a particularly sensitive spot.
But not all sexual noises are equally appealing. Moans, groans, gasps, and sighs are all good. They don't have to be loud to be erotic. Sometimes sounds as soft as a whisper can reveal the deepest passion. I especially like the sound of heaving breathing, especially the irregular gasping that precedes orgasm. Raw, animalistic grunting can also be good.
I despise any screaming, oohing and aahing like a porn star, yowling like a cat in heat, gurgling, or any other bizarre, shrill, or obnoxious sounds. I'm likely to grab a partner by the throat and engage in a little impromptu erotic asphyxiation, just to shut him up. OK, not really, but it will turn me off to the point that I'll lose my erection and won't want to keep having sex with the guy. Sometimes I'll just hurry up and cum to get it over with.
As for myself, I am by nature almost completely silent. But to show my appreciation for what my partner is doing, I'll moan softly or sigh with contentment. If I'm very excited and extremely turned on, he might also get some heavy breathing from me, or a sharp intact of breath when he hits a particularly sensitive spot.
But not all sexual noises are equally appealing. Moans, groans, gasps, and sighs are all good. They don't have to be loud to be erotic. Sometimes sounds as soft as a whisper can reveal the deepest passion. I especially like the sound of heaving breathing, especially the irregular gasping that precedes orgasm. Raw, animalistic grunting can also be good.
I despise any screaming, oohing and aahing like a porn star, yowling like a cat in heat, gurgling, or any other bizarre, shrill, or obnoxious sounds. I'm likely to grab a partner by the throat and engage in a little impromptu erotic asphyxiation, just to shut him up. OK, not really, but it will turn me off to the point that I'll lose my erection and won't want to keep having sex with the guy. Sometimes I'll just hurry up and cum to get it over with.
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They happen by accident, usually when I am feeling good. I can't seem to control them. However, I've noticed that I breathe heavy too.
I'll make noises if it really feels good but it's subconcious. I do like talking dirty though and that I can turn on or off as the partner sees fit. Some are into it, some not.
Oh man do I ditto that. I live in an apartment building and every once in a while hear my neighbors fucking. Even if I'm annoyed because its the middle of the night I'll begrudgingly whack off. I think picturing them (they are both hot) while listening is more of a turn on then seeing them do it would be.
Whether or not I'm loud depends upon what's being done to me. If masturbating I'm usually pretty quiet until I cum, at which point my sounds range from loud moan to a loud "oh, fuck yeah" - depends upon how long its been and how clever a fantasy I've cooked up in my head.
If I'm fucking I'm a grunter too - though I suspect it isn't nearly as hot coming from me as it is from burns1de. If I'm getting blown the crescendo leading up to climax can gets very loud and leaves nothing to the imagination. It's only when getting fucked that I'm uncontrollable. I get really into it, and I have a filthy mouth. If the guy is makes me come while he's fucking me... I've rattled windows.
Then you'd probably like me then...I tend to be the noisy type, (I.E. moans, groans, and calling out my partners name) but most of the guys that I've been with, seem to find it a turn-on; to them its a non-verbal way of telling them that they're doin a good job...
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I like my bottoms to make some noise as I fuck them. I helps me to know I'm doing them right. But too much can get sort of comical.
I remember this one guy I was doing at a sex party. With every thrust into him, he let out this loud gasp, but with a sort of nice tonal, almost musical, quality to it. Everybody was starting to laugh as I fucked him faster. I started to wonder if I could "play" him like a musical instrument (for some reason, I thought of an accordian). I found that I could certainly vary the tempo, and also the timbre of the gasps by thrusting faster or harder, but try as I might, I could not alter his pitch.
For a while I had a boyfriend who would shout silly things at the top of his lungs while being fucked:
"POUND ME, Daddy! RIP me a new CUNT! Harder, Daddy! Seed me DEEP! Tear my hole wide open! I want your BABIES, Daddy!" and so forth. (I can't bring myself to type some of the things he would scream.)
I thought it was embarassing when he would scream. It did come in handy, though. My ex had broken up with me, but for whatever reason was very slow (months...) to move himself out of my house. While he was still around, I was reluctant to bring any tricks home, but he sort of got the message after I fucked the screamer while he was in the house. Breakfast was very interesting...
I remember this one guy I was doing at a sex party. With every thrust into him, he let out this loud gasp, but with a sort of nice tonal, almost musical, quality to it. Everybody was starting to laugh as I fucked him faster. I started to wonder if I could "play" him like a musical instrument (for some reason, I thought of an accordian). I found that I could certainly vary the tempo, and also the timbre of the gasps by thrusting faster or harder, but try as I might, I could not alter his pitch.
For a while I had a boyfriend who would shout silly things at the top of his lungs while being fucked:
"POUND ME, Daddy! RIP me a new CUNT! Harder, Daddy! Seed me DEEP! Tear my hole wide open! I want your BABIES, Daddy!" and so forth. (I can't bring myself to type some of the things he would scream.)
I thought it was embarassing when he would scream. It did come in handy, though. My ex had broken up with me, but for whatever reason was very slow (months...) to move himself out of my house. While he was still around, I was reluctant to bring any tricks home, but he sort of got the message after I fucked the screamer while he was in the house. Breakfast was very interesting...
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When it's only my wife and me we are rather noisy. Hearing her makes me want to cum. But where there are kids in the house, we are much quieter.
Well, we don't even live in the same country, but knowing how loud I am, that wouldn't surprise me. :tongue:
