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I want a language I can understand. (English, Spanish, some Italian, a teeeeeeensy bit of French)

But I've had lovers who wanted me to speak Spanish while we were going at it, even though they weren't particularly skilled in the language.
 

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I want a language I can understand. (English, Spanish, some Italian, a teeeeeeensy bit of French)

But I've had lovers who wanted me to speak Spanish while we were going at it, even though they weren't particularly skilled in the language.

I saw this one porno where this hot latina is on her knees and sucking a huge wang, moaning and calling this hairy guy "Papi". It stirred my loins.
 

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I tend to be quiet when I'm having sex, but if I'm in control of the situation I'll be more free flowing with the dirty talk. Dirty talk and verbal domination turns me on like none other.

I was once with this guy who almost made me cum by grinding against me and whispering in my ear. His pressure against me and the power of his words and actions were just too, too much. Best erotic moment I'd ever had so far.
 

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Anyone else have an erotic language preference?

Italian is good. It flows very easily. French sounds more feminine, and though I speak some, it's more romantic than hardcore. Russian though, now that is a language for man sex. English is great; all the moreso because I can understand it. German should be the international language for the leather scene :tongue:. The one time I went Greek though, I confess, was my favorite. Quite the adonis with a perfect bubble butt, hairy chest, and eyes the color of the Aegean sky...... (ahem).

Was at a party once where I found myself in the kitchen surrounded by people who were all not native English speakers. So I asked them what I could never know, "What does English sound like to you?" I explained how other languages sounded to English speakers as an example. The reply was not what I expected. They did say it sounded much like Dutch or a combination of French and German (all of which made sense) but that English could go from sounding smooth to stilted with each word. What they all agreed upon, however, was that English sounded lovely when it was sung. I mentioned Italian, noting that Italian works wonderfully in song, yet each thought English had a quality that made English special.
 

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I growl, and groan, and moan. Fuck yeah! It is semi-conscious. I could be completely silent if necessary, btu I know they love it more if you make some noise. I try to keep it not loud though... I really don't dig loud sex.

I also talk dirty alot.
 

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I know I've posted it elsewhere, but it bears repeating: if you're doing your job right you shouldn't hear anything but lurid obsceneities punctuated with an occaisonal gasp or moan.
 

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...Was at a party once where I found myself in the kitchen surrounded by people who were all not native English speakers. So I asked them what I could never know, "What does English sound like to you?" I explained how other languages sounded to English speakers as an example. The reply was not what I expected. They did say it sounded much like Dutch or a combination of French and German (all of which made sense) but that English could go from sounding smooth to stilted with each word. What they all agreed upon, however, was that English sounded lovely when it was sung. I mentioned Italian, noting that Italian works wonderfully in song, yet each thought English had a quality that made English special.

That's very interesting. And as you say, it makes sense. Modern English is classified as a Germanic language, but has a strong Latin/Romantic/Renaissance influence. Unlike Romantic languages, in English consonants are more clearly pronounced and the words are more distinct rather than flowing into each other, yet it flows a lot more smoothly than German, Dutch, Swedish, etc. I didn't expect to learn that they liked sung English so much.

I don't suppose they made any differentiation between different types of English (e.g., American, British, etc.)? I have a friend who is British and he's admitted that having an accent in the U.S. makes him very popular. I've oft complained that having an American accent does not carry the same advantage.

To answer Earl's question, I like the sound of French, although generally not actual French people. (I also like French film.) I knew a guy in college who had a very sexy Turkish accent. From what I've heard, I like the sound of Romanian and some Slavic languages.
 

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if you're doing your job right you shouldn't hear anything but lurid obsceneities punctuated with an occaisonal gasp or moan.

lol. Yes, 100% in agreement. That got me a little hard.

Was at a party once where I found myself in the kitchen surrounded by people who were all not native English speakers. So I asked them what I could never know, "What does English sound like to you?" I explained how other languages sounded to English speakers as an example. The reply was not what I expected. They did say it sounded much like Dutch or a combination of French and German (all of which made sense) but that English could go from sounding smooth to stilted with each word. What they all agreed upon, however, was that English sounded lovely when it was sung. I mentioned Italian, noting that Italian works wonderfully in song, yet each thought English had a quality that made English special.

As a native speaker of English it all seems odd that foriegners would think it is a beautiful sounding language. It all sounds so prosaic to me.

To answer Earl's question, I like the sound of French, although generally not actual French people. (I also like French film.) I knew a guy in college who had a very sexy Turkish accent. From what I've heard, I like the sound of Romanian and some Slavic languages.

Meniscus, are these languages you have heard in the bedroom also? I knew this hot guy with a Russian accent who I always fantasized about. Not sure I am more turned on to the accent or the tone of the voice itself. Some people just have sexy voices, period, regardless of what language they speak.
 

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I tend to be on the quieter side, with heavy breathing and occasional moaning if I'm particularly turned on by something my partner is doing.

And call me weird, but I'm not particularly fond of obsenities during sex. There's nothing wrong with it, but it's just not my thing (probably because of my religious upbringing).
 

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Meniscus, are these languages you have heard in the bedroom also?

Alas, no.

...I knew this hot guy with a Russian accent who I always fantasized about. Not sure I am more turned on to the accent or the tone of the voice itself. Some people just have sexy voices, period, regardless of what language they speak...

This reminds me of a funny story. I went to grad school with a Russian guy, Timur, whose roommate was also Russian. Timur's accent was not as thick as his roommate's, but it also wasn't as sexy. One day we were chatting with a woman we knew who commented on the relative un-sexiness of Timur's accent, but that he was also much easier to understand. He was quite embarrassed to admit to us that he had a speech impediment in Russian--specifically, he couldn't roll his Rs--which made his English clearer, but, alas, less sexy.

(As I understand it, rolling the Rs in Russian is different from rolling the Rs in Spanish. In Spanish you do it at the tip of the tongue, but in Russian it's more in the back of the mouth.)
 

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I am loud, (Probably because I am the bottom) but my partner you do not know he is in the room.
 

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Several weeks ago, I drilled an Asian woman.

We did it three times that night, me on top...her on top and in the morning, we did it on her kitchen chair.

Each time I slipped my cock in her, she let out a long groan. During the thrusting, she'd let out a grunt every now and then. She cried out during orgasm all three times.

The best one was when she was riding my while I sat on her kitchen chair. When she orgasmed, she started going off in her own language. Vietnamese or Hmong, I have no idea. It was huge turn-on. I loved having her bucking around while on top of me. Sweaty and a little noisy. A few scratch marks on my back and ass too.
 

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I'm not much of a dirty talker during sex, but am a grunter/moaner.

And when I cum, it tends to be thermonuclear. I'm quite sure the neighbors hear it.