Originally posted by fearghus9@Sep 29 2004, 11:49 AM
Thanks for all the advices guys..
Answering some of the questions:
yes, he does it only with me.
I see him pretty much every day cz we go to the same school but he does those comments only when we're not in school and in a group.
I don't know if he's gay. He makes out with many girls and he says he hates "fags".
I think the best way to make him stop would be let him see my cock, but it would have to be in a way that it doesn't seem I'm doing it on purpose...
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I have to say that he exhibits behavior that indicates that he is deeply insecure about something in his life. Most likely it is his own dick, or his repressed homosexuality; maybe both. If I were you I'd call him on it. Secure straight guys don't randomly bring up the topic of another guys penis size, even if to mock it, unless he has some reason to, especially if he has never seen it. I don't think gay guys do either for that matter.
The only thing that makes sense here is that either he has a small dick or he is repressing some homosexual feelings and he is taking out his frustration on you. As I said, I'd call him on it and say just what I said in this paragraph in front of everyone the next time he makes such a comment. Now you had better be willing to get pummeled afterwards, but rest easy knowing this, your bruises will heal much quicker than his wounds will. If you aren't quite so willing to do this, then I suggest that you call his bluff by offering to compare dicks. Him seeing your dick isn't enough. He isn't giving you a hard time because he actually thinks you are small. He sees you as a target to relieve his own frustrations in order to prove himself in front of the others. The only way to beat him is to play his own game; offer to compare dicks in front of the others. There are only a few outcomes since you have already stated that you arent small yourself.
First, he declines stating that he isnt into such fag shit. (Sorry for the phrasing but Im willing to bet thats how he would phrase it.) At that point, you need to go on the offensive. You need to mock him at that point. Hes been falsely mocking your dick size and now hes not willing to prove himself. Say things like, When the chips are down you arent willing to prove your manhood, while I am. I guess we now know who has the small dick around here. If he continues to protest about doing such fag shit simply reply, that HE was the one who constantly brings up penis size, not you. You just want an opportunity to prove yourself.
Second, he agrees to do it and he is bigger. This is the least desirable result. Because he will probably go on mocking you for being smaller than him. On the other hand, you have proven to your buddies that you are indeed not small, and you had the balls to show your dick like that. You stood up to him, and in primitive male psychology, standing up to someone and losing is always better than being submissive to abusive behavior.
Third, he agrees to do it and he is smaller. Well, there isnt much to say here because you have him by the short hairs. My suggestion is that you dont make a big deal over it. Dont gloat, just let the subject die.
You mentioned that you felt uncomfortable about showing him in a non-normal naked situation. My suggestion is that you need to overcome that. He has insulted you in a horrible way. The only way to retain your manhood in front of your friends is to call him out. Just go to some private area and do it, just make sure your friends see you two do it. Also, make sure that you compare both of your dicks. This has nothing really to do with your dick. This is all about him. You need to make him uncomfortable. You need to make him prove HIS manhood.