I have been invited by some social friends to a pool party for the 4th, I normally wear lose board type shorts... a) I don't 'fall out' b) they are more comfortable than those damn 'hanana hammocks' trunks as someone called them c) just out of habit now my son is half kiddingly telling me to 'put it out there'- I am a widower, over 50 and well stay as horny as men 1/2 my age I am told... So for you over 40 (bi) men out there what do you recommend? Show it or hide it? This will be a mixed crowd, no 'kids' so over 30-40... I know its a social group but I also know that this is an open bar, what might happen happens kind of crowd (I am told later in the evening it can get a lot more 'relaxed') so...suggestions?