So a question...
my best friend had to have major emergency surgery to save his life around a week ago. I've been at his side as much as I could be while he has been in the hospital (trying to help his wife and kids out, and well, he's my best friend and I love the guy...). As long as I've known him, he's never really been terribly modest about nudity. I'm not saying he whips it out a the drop of the hat or anything like that, but he'll piss (without his back turned) outside when we're outside and I'm near by, he's former military, and back in the day, was known for throwing clothing optional parties in college. So what is kind of puzzling me is, since he's been in the hospital, I've seen his ass, cock and balls numerous times, both by accident, and to cover him up when he was in recovery post surgery (he kept pushing his sheets down below his gown while he was still out of it due to anesthesia, and I kept covering him back up when medical personnel came in). No big deal. Now he's doing better (thank God), and suddenly he seems to be embarrassed if I see his junk and goes out of his way to stay covered up. I totally respect that, and would be the same way myself if I were in the same position. I don't have a desire to see his package, but by the same token, I kind of feel like its stupid to take such great strides to keep himself covered up, and could care less if I see his goods again. I've got the same things hanging between my legs, so I don't really understand the modesty. Could someone help me out here? I've never had any really close guy friends in the past, and I don't really understand why the sudden modesty.
my best friend had to have major emergency surgery to save his life around a week ago. I've been at his side as much as I could be while he has been in the hospital (trying to help his wife and kids out, and well, he's my best friend and I love the guy...). As long as I've known him, he's never really been terribly modest about nudity. I'm not saying he whips it out a the drop of the hat or anything like that, but he'll piss (without his back turned) outside when we're outside and I'm near by, he's former military, and back in the day, was known for throwing clothing optional parties in college. So what is kind of puzzling me is, since he's been in the hospital, I've seen his ass, cock and balls numerous times, both by accident, and to cover him up when he was in recovery post surgery (he kept pushing his sheets down below his gown while he was still out of it due to anesthesia, and I kept covering him back up when medical personnel came in). No big deal. Now he's doing better (thank God), and suddenly he seems to be embarrassed if I see his junk and goes out of his way to stay covered up. I totally respect that, and would be the same way myself if I were in the same position. I don't have a desire to see his package, but by the same token, I kind of feel like its stupid to take such great strides to keep himself covered up, and could care less if I see his goods again. I've got the same things hanging between my legs, so I don't really understand the modesty. Could someone help me out here? I've never had any really close guy friends in the past, and I don't really understand why the sudden modesty.