i think I'm the wrong guy to comment on paying for sex.
while in law school...i was a male stripper on weekends...i had an all women show first, and after that was over...twp hours later the second and last show started..it was all gay guys.
while i made incredible money..i never felt good about what i was doing...too proud to call my parents and ask them for money...and now i regret that i did not humble myself and ask them for tuition and room and board...i thought i needed to show them i could do this all on my own.
i took money for sex..women and men...during the week day...sometimes a weekday night..most of them were all married...some fell in love with me...why? dunno..i was a male whore...how does one fall for their male whore?
i would of thought they would resent me for taking their money, they do most of the work...except for the fuckin part...
so, if ur paying a guy for sex...be prepared to fight with ur conscience...ur character and ur courage...and pray ur conscience, character and courage..win over ur thoughts, for ur thoughts, turn into words, your words turn into actions, ur actions...define your destiny...
i wish u well.
robbie