Phil Ayesho
Superior Member
Fucking around and having sex outside of a primary relationship is WORNG when you KNOW its wrong.
That is... you know full well the expectation your partner has of you in this regard. If you are violating that expectation, its immoral.
The moral path is to ALWAYS discuss such things and make sure each other is clear and comfortable with the arrangement.
It has nothing to do with 'monogamy' per se...Monogamy is not inherently more 'right'..... Honesty and respect for your partner is the thing that matters.
Whatever the two of you are happy with is fine... but when your actions are a sorrow to your partner... or when you conceal them because you know they would cause sorrow... that is infidelity.
That is... you know full well the expectation your partner has of you in this regard. If you are violating that expectation, its immoral.
The moral path is to ALWAYS discuss such things and make sure each other is clear and comfortable with the arrangement.
It has nothing to do with 'monogamy' per se...Monogamy is not inherently more 'right'..... Honesty and respect for your partner is the thing that matters.
Whatever the two of you are happy with is fine... but when your actions are a sorrow to your partner... or when you conceal them because you know they would cause sorrow... that is infidelity.