Well my question is does anyone have only one testicle or have a close relationship with someone who does? I can\\\'t believe I\\\'m even telling this, but I trust you guys to give me the honest scoop. I was born with one undesended testicle and it was removed as a toddler. I\\\'ve lived my entire life uno and it has been my \\\"life changing event\\\". I\\\'ve herd stories of some guys who tell eveybody and it\\\'s just the big joke, but I\\\'ve never told anyone except my wife. Some old girlfriends obviously probably figured it out, but they never said anything. I always felt like a circus freak, the \\\"odd ball\\\", LOL, so I didn\\\'t participate in sports, didn\\\'t screw around in high school because I was afraid I would get outed by a blabbermouth girl, and I avoided getting naked around most guys. At least in college, I found out I was way above average in penis size, so nobody noticed my shortcoming because my meat hung down and hid it. Needless to say I have more self esteem now, knowing Im bigger than my friends, but I\\\'ve never once told a friend I\\\'m mono..... SO YOU ALL ARE THE FIRST TO KNOW.... My question is if you have delt with this, how do you handle it. I can\\\'t become the laughing stock of my friends. I would rather keep my secret to myself... I\\\'ve thought about getting a prosthetic one when I get a vasectomy (if I\\\'m going to get cut on anyway). How do I explain this to my kids? and hope they don\\\'t tell anyone.... Maybe some secrets are best kept secrets... What\\\'s your opinion? Anyone know of a support group for this?