Monster, don't worry about it. I think too many are used to the brightly lit pro and brightly lit few and far between am vids. They pick those as their favorites and when they see vids like ours they want to critique them compared to that.
If someone was building a car in their garage i wouldnt be saying "Well you should add a dvd/tv player" i think i'd just be amazed at their handiwork.
Many of the guys on this site don't have women that would be willing to make a video- let alone share it on the internet with other people if they did. You are lucky to have that because it is rare.
I dont mind actual critique when im asking "What should i change about my vids" or "Any suggestions after watching my vids" but i think the people who are watching our material think we want to hear exactly what they didnt like about it or what they would change if they were the director.
My first video submitted i heard all sorts of comments about how the cum shot needs to be more visible and he needs to cum further. How bad the lighting and sound was and how i shouldnt have done it in black and white. There isnt a lot of people who are avid porn watchers who appreciate anything that strays from the norm in the porn world.
Even my best video, the last one we did, was still full of complaints about how the camera was held, how we didnt show our faces, how crisp the imagery was and how we should take every lamp in the house and put them in the bedroom so everyone can see everything.
Once again, this is why i don't have any enthusiasm about submitting them here anymore. It's just like when updating pics on your gallery- you are putting the pics you are proud of- not the ones you want to know how they should be made better.